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I've tested this opener in day game and was surprised by its high open rates.
High open rates doesn't mean more dates and lays.
You must still work your game.
However, getting your foot in the door with as many girls as possible, where the interaction is pleasant, ups your ods to run good game and eventually get the lay.
It goes like this:
YOU: [Get girl's attention] Wave/Excuuuuuse me/Hi
GIRL: Returns attention [aka doesn't snub you]
YOU: [Opener grounder like "I was over there and saw you..."]....and HAD to come over and tell you... you look Faa-Buuu-Lousss!
Space the pauses well.
The delivery relies on some eccentricity.
Bring your thumb to your index finger and make emphasis points as you say each syllable.
The finger gesture is like the "ok" emoji (I can't put it here for some reason it bugs the post)
You can raise both hands with the same gesture, kinda like Jack Sparrow would do it.
So it goes like this: You look Faa (finger gesture)...Buuu (finger gesture) Lousss! (finger gesture)
At the "Louss" part, make a definitive hand gesture as if to say "that's an irrefutable fact"
Your voice tone plays a huge role there.
Think like how a fashionista would say it but then reduce the gayness.
Why This Opener Works (My Opinion)
It's direct enough that it conveys some romantic intent but not so direct, like "You're really beautiful" that it lowers your value and forces the girl to make a quick judgement whether she wants to engage romantically with you or not.
It doesn't beat a sincere, infectious "You're absolutely stunning/gorgeous/beautiful" where your whole being aligns with the compliment and she remembers it years to come.
But that sort of genuine interest opener, although it can trigger tremendous attraction from the get-go, is hard to do on command. You need a certain state and a genuine intense attraction for the girl to make it land fully.
With the one I described, you don't need much of a state, except some eccentricity, which you can easily channel.
The other reason I like the Faa-Bu-Louss opener is it feels kinda like girl talk. The effect is it lowers their defences somehow.
It's a compliment but not the kind where it's so strong that she must decide right away if she wants you or not.
Girls sometimes might laugh and tell you that the're not looking fabulous because they're dressed simply. In this case, pick any item, literally anything, could be her hairband or sneakers, and tell her it all fits so well it's still fabulous and you can't help but wonder when she does dress to the nines, how super faboulous she gets.
You can also use it as springboard after the opener "Sooooo Miss Faboulous, what do you do, asides from hitting the gym and looking faabulous" which should get her to laugh and say "noooo I'm not thaaaat fabulous blablabla"
Remember that the fashionista eccentric thing is a big part of it.
Make it a nice little performance, add some character and voila! You're in a non-platonic conversation with a pretty girl.
The rest is up to you
High open rates doesn't mean more dates and lays.
You must still work your game.
However, getting your foot in the door with as many girls as possible, where the interaction is pleasant, ups your ods to run good game and eventually get the lay.
It goes like this:
YOU: [Get girl's attention] Wave/Excuuuuuse me/Hi
GIRL: Returns attention [aka doesn't snub you]
YOU: [Opener grounder like "I was over there and saw you..."]....and HAD to come over and tell you... you look Faa-Buuu-Lousss!
Space the pauses well.
The delivery relies on some eccentricity.
Bring your thumb to your index finger and make emphasis points as you say each syllable.
The finger gesture is like the "ok" emoji (I can't put it here for some reason it bugs the post)
You can raise both hands with the same gesture, kinda like Jack Sparrow would do it.
So it goes like this: You look Faa (finger gesture)...Buuu (finger gesture) Lousss! (finger gesture)
At the "Louss" part, make a definitive hand gesture as if to say "that's an irrefutable fact"
Your voice tone plays a huge role there.
Think like how a fashionista would say it but then reduce the gayness.
Why This Opener Works (My Opinion)
It's direct enough that it conveys some romantic intent but not so direct, like "You're really beautiful" that it lowers your value and forces the girl to make a quick judgement whether she wants to engage romantically with you or not.
It doesn't beat a sincere, infectious "You're absolutely stunning/gorgeous/beautiful" where your whole being aligns with the compliment and she remembers it years to come.
But that sort of genuine interest opener, although it can trigger tremendous attraction from the get-go, is hard to do on command. You need a certain state and a genuine intense attraction for the girl to make it land fully.
With the one I described, you don't need much of a state, except some eccentricity, which you can easily channel.
The other reason I like the Faa-Bu-Louss opener is it feels kinda like girl talk. The effect is it lowers their defences somehow.
It's a compliment but not the kind where it's so strong that she must decide right away if she wants you or not.
Girls sometimes might laugh and tell you that the're not looking fabulous because they're dressed simply. In this case, pick any item, literally anything, could be her hairband or sneakers, and tell her it all fits so well it's still fabulous and you can't help but wonder when she does dress to the nines, how super faboulous she gets.
You can also use it as springboard after the opener "Sooooo Miss Faboulous, what do you do, asides from hitting the gym and looking faabulous" which should get her to laugh and say "noooo I'm not thaaaat fabulous blablabla"
Remember that the fashionista eccentric thing is a big part of it.
Make it a nice little performance, add some character and voila! You're in a non-platonic conversation with a pretty girl.
The rest is up to you
