Hi guys ,
I have a problem to master the courage to approach girls in packed coffee shops . Two things rush in my mind before the pull :
1- Everyone will be watching me and seeing me failing.
2- Everyone will be watching her and putting too much pressure on her.
I don’t have problems in other day game venues , and not too busy coffee shop .
If possible , could you please share with them some counter beliefs to internalize and killing the above mentioned two .
I have a problem to master the courage to approach girls in packed coffee shops . Two things rush in my mind before the pull :
1- Everyone will be watching me and seeing me failing.
2- Everyone will be watching her and putting too much pressure on her.
I don’t have problems in other day game venues , and not too busy coffee shop .
If possible , could you please share with them some counter beliefs to internalize and killing the above mentioned two .