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Sub-Zero

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Which one leads to more consistent lays? Day game or online game ?

Trying to get them lays up and the club seems the easiest, but it's not at all. You can meet women, but they all flake, I let my hard head get in the way of trying to succeed that I'm just focusing on the bull.

Took a lil break, but want to get back into the game with a different approach.
 

Mr.Rob

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Both are equally consistent if you get good at either of them... Both have their pros and cons.

Sub-Zero said:
You can meet women, but they all flake

What do you mean by flake Sub? You really shouldn't be collecting phone numbers for nightgame in the first place and focusing more on same night lays... Knowing you I assume you mean your having issues getting women to "hook" and invest I'm guessing --> Focus not getting laid but getting women to "hook"/invest THEN focus on learning to invite girls home THEN focus on escalating THEN focus on getting past LMR... You see my point.

But ya daygame has the highest cover charge (most difficult approach anxiety to overcome) but IS easier than nightgame AND will yield you more attractive women... You just gotta beat the approach anxiety bullshit and get over yourself and go get rejected 100 times to sleep with a few girls that don't reject you.

Online game is the easiest (kind of), where the real work lies in getting good pictures, setting up a dope profile, and getting your message/text game on point (all which is rather time consuming if you're starting from square 1, especially if you need to get good pictures). BUT once you get your profile on point their is zero approach anxiety and you play the numbers game and get your date game on point....

They all require much work to get consistent results at... but if you take it one bite size chunk at a time and discipline yourself consistently then you're sure to reap rewards for years to come once you become competent.

Cheers bro,
-Rob
 

Sub-Zero

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Yeah flake as in numbers. I haven't done it in a while, was just thinking about that as my main go to back in the day and how much time I really wasted getting numbers.

How would I get girls hooked in the club?




Mr.Rob said:
Both are equally consistent if you get good at either of them... Both have their pros and cons.

Sub-Zero said:
You can meet women, but they all flake

What do you mean by flake Sub? You really shouldn't be collecting phone numbers for nightgame in the first place and focusing more on same night lays... Knowing you I assume you mean your having issues getting women to "hook" and invest I'm guessing --> Focus not getting laid but getting women to "hook"/invest THEN focus on learning to invite girls home THEN focus on escalating THEN focus on getting past LMR... You see my point.

But ya daygame has the highest cover charge (most difficult approach anxiety to overcome) but IS easier than nightgame AND will yield you more attractive women... You just gotta beat the approach anxiety bullshit and get over yourself and go get rejected 100 times to sleep with a few girls that don't reject you.

Online game is the easiest (kind of), where the real work lies in getting good pictures, setting up a dope profile, and getting your message/text game on point (all which is rather time consuming if you're starting from square 1, especially if you need to get good pictures). BUT once you get your profile on point their is zero approach anxiety and you play the numbers game and get your date game on point....

They all require much work to get consistent results at... but if you take it one bite size chunk at a time and discipline yourself consistently then you're sure to reap rewards for years to come once you become competent.

Cheers bro,
-Rob
 

razir110

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Imo the best is day game followed by night followed by online.

Day is the best to get to know her a bit and schedule a date. Night there is an article on why it's not a good place and online.. mate online is for social cowards who are afraid to approach in person. You will get no quality girls online, hot women have plenty to chose from and they will hardly sleep with guys they met on some app/website.
 
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razir110 said:
Day is the best to get to know her a bit and schedule a date.
I'm just curious, mate, what environment do you day game in? I imagine it must be some resort town or another, laid back, relaxed environment. My environment is a relatively big and busy city of more than a million people and my experience is that either she is busy (or they are busy) or heck, I can be legitimately busy in this environment when heading to an appointment or something. It has happened to me quite a few times that I had to run (maybe she as well, but me definitely).

On the numbers game side, I can easily find 10 attractive girls during a night to introduce myself to (not that they can't be distracted by the nightlife environment - and just as so by the daytime environment, by the way), but in the daytime this number is like zero, one, or two on an average day. These numbers can go up if and when I enter a mall. Please bear with me on this one! Yes, they may flake less and be different kinds of girls than girls of the night, I understand that. Maybe I have too high standards for my level?

Another point about day game is that for me it isn't exactly like how most pickup advice guys paint it: They usually paint it like there is a girl alone and there is you and there is nothing between the two of you to get to know each other and you don't have much time constraints. My experience is the complete opposite: It's a chaos. Yes, attractive girls are more likely to be found alone compared to nightlife situations; Let's say it's about 50% of the time. In the other 50% they are with someone. This may or may not be a big issue, depending on the situation and your skill level. It can be a busy street scene where you literally have to run after her. Isn't the premise of this site is that girls should chase you, not you should chase them? Or a public transport situation where people are arranged in the most awkward positions to your purposes (even if said public transport isn't fully crammed), or the mall. I've day game success on the street, on public transport, but in the mall? I'm a contrarian, in the mall so far I've only managed to successfully game hired guns (in low hours), never customers. This is again an environment in which you have to chase or stalk girls, not the other way around and they usually enter a female-interest-only store (what legitimate business do you have in a store which sells only female lingerie?) or do some other unexpected thing (go to the toilet, have a phone call; anything you can imagine that makes you wait with your approach) which forces you onto chasing/stalking mode if you want to get to them. Which is... just not cool. The mall is such a weird environment to me. I'm open to hear your experiences and suggestion in these regards! Also don't forget it's wintertime in locations many of us write from.
 
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