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Guys, im pretty happy with my approach to hook phase.
But when it comes to the later phases, there’s a couple things in my way that are preventing me from succeeding there and gaining real momentum, and it’s frustrating me.
One is venue choice. I’m mostly gaming in subway stations in Montreal lately. Gunwitch says its one of the worst venues to approach in and I totally agree. It’s very challenging. The amount of noise is insane, theres tons of distractions, the logistics are shit (ie shes going to work).
The second is taking numbers. I have had ample opportunities to SDL girls I met from the subway station, mostly later in the week in the evening, but I always screw it up by taking their number. I’ve come to the conclusion that, after taking enough numbers that lead nowhere, or numbers that only text me late at night then go cold when I don’t reply [I go to bed early], these french girls mostly want me just for sex. And that I screen myself out by getting their number.
Now, I’m not entirely sure if the majority of girls just wanting me for sex here is a location based thing, an indication of where I’m at with my game, or both. Montreal is known as a very open minded city, so I’m thinking people here are pretty sex positive. And in terms of where I’m at with my game, I’m still very new to having a strong impact on chicks and their emotions through my state and verbals…like I’m probably underestimating just how much girls view me as the perfect dude to go to bed with quickly….
Anyways, I'm gonna change things around a bit....the weather is getting nicer so I’ll be spending more time at better venues like parks and beaches... and I'm gonna reduce my tendency towards asking for numbers and become more aware of my sexual value...these adjustments should help me pick up speed with isolation and pulling in the coming weeks and months...
But when it comes to the later phases, there’s a couple things in my way that are preventing me from succeeding there and gaining real momentum, and it’s frustrating me.
One is venue choice. I’m mostly gaming in subway stations in Montreal lately. Gunwitch says its one of the worst venues to approach in and I totally agree. It’s very challenging. The amount of noise is insane, theres tons of distractions, the logistics are shit (ie shes going to work).
The second is taking numbers. I have had ample opportunities to SDL girls I met from the subway station, mostly later in the week in the evening, but I always screw it up by taking their number. I’ve come to the conclusion that, after taking enough numbers that lead nowhere, or numbers that only text me late at night then go cold when I don’t reply [I go to bed early], these french girls mostly want me just for sex. And that I screen myself out by getting their number.
Now, I’m not entirely sure if the majority of girls just wanting me for sex here is a location based thing, an indication of where I’m at with my game, or both. Montreal is known as a very open minded city, so I’m thinking people here are pretty sex positive. And in terms of where I’m at with my game, I’m still very new to having a strong impact on chicks and their emotions through my state and verbals…like I’m probably underestimating just how much girls view me as the perfect dude to go to bed with quickly….
Anyways, I'm gonna change things around a bit....the weather is getting nicer so I’ll be spending more time at better venues like parks and beaches... and I'm gonna reduce my tendency towards asking for numbers and become more aware of my sexual value...these adjustments should help me pick up speed with isolation and pulling in the coming weeks and months...
