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I was searching a presentation thread but i didnt find any, IM NEW HERE so hello everybody!
I want to share an approach that i did recently a week ago, looking for some advice or possible explanation of what happened lol.
I have 30 years old, tall, above good looking and the best quality that i have is that im a positive person, im always SMILING, doing jokes, so im usually in a good vibe.
When im out, i get a lot of eye contact or other IOIs from woman (not from all of course but i can notice it).
And as additional info, at this time of year, it gets dark very quickly so... not sure if i should do it at night if i get strong IOI (talking about street).
HB:8 (brunette, blue eyes)
Was going to my home (at night) when i saw a girl in front of me walking in the opposite direction, we see each other from far distance, as we were getting closer, she held my eye for 2s then she looked away and passed me, i turned back and followed her for almost 20 seconds until i reached her.
I dont like the typical opener "Hi i saw you and you are cute etc etc" i dont want to say "cute" to a girl that i dont know.
I opened her from the side, and being a funny guy, i prefer to open with a funny opener so:
(This conv i didnt do in english, so its translated)
Me : Excuse me (while smilling a bit)
She: (She stopped and looked at me with normal expression)
Me : Lets see if you can help me...
Me : I think that im lost
She: Tell me where you want to go
Me : Do you know good this place?
She: Yes
Me : Okay, do you know.... how i can reach... (here i do a stop of 1 sec) ...to your heart? (while smilling)
She: (Then she turned his face and walked away without saying a thing)
(I was excepting a smile from her or a comment, so that is when i would say my name and tell her that was a joke to break the ice, blabla)
I prefer to do the safests approachs at first, doing it to 5 different girls to see their reactions and while also getting some experience, overtime i will approach a girl if it just gives simple eye contact and also girls that dont give any IOI (but this would be the last step).
It was my first approach ever in the streets and even with strong IOI it failed, so what else can i do hahah.
This girl i think its the SAME girl that i saw 2 weeks ago in the same place and held my eye contact for like 4 secs and i smiled at her and then i looked away.
Whats wrong with this girl? Or its me? Risky to approach at night? Should i change my opener? Are these the results that i should expect approaching in the street, even with strong IOI? OR just dont overthink and NEXT, her loss not mine.
Well, the positive side is that atleast i tried so its more experience for me (Level1 in street reached hehehe).
Should i approach the girls always before crossing paths? And not turning around to reach her? Its different approaching at daytime than at night?
And i remember my previous approach before this, how different it was comparing both girls:
Around 1 month ago in a mall, a blonde blue eyes seller girl in middle of the shops, she held my gaze 2 times but i was with my systerinlaw, so i didnt approach at all, hours later i returned alone to the mall and oppened her and she was even carrying the conversation lol. 70% she 30% me, she was very young (20 years) told me that had a boyfriend but she was not sure about what do to haha, i could have taken her number if i have wanted, i just said that i respect it and left, that girl was very happy and i made her day.
NOW COMPARE WITH THE OTHER GIRL.
I hope you liked it, thanks for read! (will be updating the thread with more stories)
I want to share an approach that i did recently a week ago, looking for some advice or possible explanation of what happened lol.
I have 30 years old, tall, above good looking and the best quality that i have is that im a positive person, im always SMILING, doing jokes, so im usually in a good vibe.
When im out, i get a lot of eye contact or other IOIs from woman (not from all of course but i can notice it).
And as additional info, at this time of year, it gets dark very quickly so... not sure if i should do it at night if i get strong IOI (talking about street).
HB:8 (brunette, blue eyes)
Was going to my home (at night) when i saw a girl in front of me walking in the opposite direction, we see each other from far distance, as we were getting closer, she held my eye for 2s then she looked away and passed me, i turned back and followed her for almost 20 seconds until i reached her.
I dont like the typical opener "Hi i saw you and you are cute etc etc" i dont want to say "cute" to a girl that i dont know.
I opened her from the side, and being a funny guy, i prefer to open with a funny opener so:
(This conv i didnt do in english, so its translated)
Me : Excuse me (while smilling a bit)
She: (She stopped and looked at me with normal expression)
Me : Lets see if you can help me...
Me : I think that im lost
She: Tell me where you want to go
Me : Do you know good this place?
She: Yes
Me : Okay, do you know.... how i can reach... (here i do a stop of 1 sec) ...to your heart? (while smilling)
She: (Then she turned his face and walked away without saying a thing)
(I was excepting a smile from her or a comment, so that is when i would say my name and tell her that was a joke to break the ice, blabla)
I prefer to do the safests approachs at first, doing it to 5 different girls to see their reactions and while also getting some experience, overtime i will approach a girl if it just gives simple eye contact and also girls that dont give any IOI (but this would be the last step).
It was my first approach ever in the streets and even with strong IOI it failed, so what else can i do hahah.
This girl i think its the SAME girl that i saw 2 weeks ago in the same place and held my eye contact for like 4 secs and i smiled at her and then i looked away.
Whats wrong with this girl? Or its me? Risky to approach at night? Should i change my opener? Are these the results that i should expect approaching in the street, even with strong IOI? OR just dont overthink and NEXT, her loss not mine.
Well, the positive side is that atleast i tried so its more experience for me (Level1 in street reached hehehe).
Should i approach the girls always before crossing paths? And not turning around to reach her? Its different approaching at daytime than at night?
And i remember my previous approach before this, how different it was comparing both girls:
Around 1 month ago in a mall, a blonde blue eyes seller girl in middle of the shops, she held my gaze 2 times but i was with my systerinlaw, so i didnt approach at all, hours later i returned alone to the mall and oppened her and she was even carrying the conversation lol. 70% she 30% me, she was very young (20 years) told me that had a boyfriend but she was not sure about what do to haha, i could have taken her number if i have wanted, i just said that i respect it and left, that girl was very happy and i made her day.
NOW COMPARE WITH THE OTHER GIRL.
I hope you liked it, thanks for read! (will be updating the thread with more stories)
