Daygame numbers going nowhere

[barneystin]

Do you ask these girls out before you ask for their phone numbers?

Yeah, i always ask them out first and they’re usually down

If she has a "you're too young for me" objection that should be coming up in-person so you can deal with it:

it did come up before she gave me her number but i tried to overcome by making her guess. I never actually told her my age

However, you generally want something more personal to her than just whatever the thing you did with her was. e.g., if she played darts with you, then started calling you "dart boy", that wouldn't really feel personal... unless you told her how you were a national darts champion and won the state dart competition at 17 or something

Hmm, I see your point

I have templates for every step of the texting process here -- with the underlying assumption that you are asking them out (i.e., soft closing) BEFORE you take their phone numbers:

14 Simple Ways to Text a Girl and Make Her Want You

Don't know how to text a girl you like? Copy these texts and send them to her to get her excited and ready to go out with you. Contents 1. Icebreaker Text 2. Same Day Date Text 3. Next Day Date Text 4. Standard Scheduler Text 5. Proposal Text 6. No Worries Text 7. Scheduler II Text 8. Scheduler...

www.girlschase.com

Yeah I read this article a while back and i remember my major problem with it was that some of the texts were too long (like the standard scheduler text) and it felt like girls were ghosting because of that. I’ll give it a re-read for sure though

Your scheduling messages should be building some rapport with her over text. e.g., ask about something personal, share a little something about yourself, then do the schedule check.

Yeah that makes sense, i was trying to get to the point quick since other girls ghosted whenever i try to chit-chat/banter

Thanks for the tips! Crazy how it feels like i’ve come so far yet have so much left to learn

 

[Skills]

in the defense of op, i had gen z girls that i pull from day game, strong interaction (pull to car), make out, seeding the meet and the texting goes like

Me: open
gen z girl: hi
me: follow up
gen z girls: ok
me: follow up
gen z girl goes: yes

then i go fuck this bitch, i ain't got time for that

Gen z girl: hey
rinse wash repeat...


^ they make mrs. skill texting when we met (which i thought was the worst i seen) in comparison look like a Puzzle price winner

 

[Chase]

@barneystin,

Yeah I read this article a while back and i remember my major problem with it was that some of the texts were too long (like the standard scheduler text) and it felt like girls were ghosting because of that. I’ll give it a re-read for sure though

If you try the scheduler texts again, post some examples -- my guess would be either your personalization doesn't feel very personal (based on how the other text looked above) or the story doesn't quite click as high value-ish / intriguing / a little humorous / etc.

Yeah that makes sense, i was trying to get to the point quick since other girls ghosted whenever i try to chit-chat/banter

Thanks for the tips! Crazy how it feels like i’ve come so far yet have so much left to learn

Rule of thumb is the quicker and more to-the-point the texting is, the stronger you need to have hooked her + paced her for what is coming up (e.g., joint date planning so she's very involved in the date process already, etc.).

Chase

 

[Chase]

in the defense of op, i had gen z girls that i pull from day game, strong interaction (pull to car), make out, seeding the meet and the texting goes like

Me: open
gen z girl: hi
me: follow up
gen z girls: ok
me: follow up
gen z girl goes: yes

then i go fuck this bitch, i ain't got time for that

Gen z girl: hey
rinse wash repeat...


^ they make mrs. skill texting when we met (which i thought was the worst i seen) in comparison look like a Puzzle price winner

 

[Teevster]

Or... @Skills, you can hijack this bullshit by sending video messages. Girls these days live in a TikTok world, so communicating in the TikTok way seems to be the only form of communication that gets to them.

-Teevster

 

[Skills]

Or... @Skills, you can hijack this bullshit by sending video messages. Girls these days live in a TikTok world, so communicating in the TikTok way seems to be the only form of communication that gets to them.

-Teevster

you just got a mirror, and not get frustrated eventually they fall, i sent the op the private interactions.... i will see if i can post in the private forum for context, so you guys see what i am talking about...

I just think, they are very green, shy, socially retarded to be honest and a lot of us assume not interest or we get frustrated... i will post interaction eventually...

 

[barneystin]

I'd say they last between 5 and 10 minutes on average, some times longer. Maybe at times they've been less than 5 minutes but that's usually when there was a really strong vibe from the get-go or she was in a rush.

Ah, thanks for the insight! Most of the girls I approach seem to be going somewhere (it’s a pretty busy city) so i find it hard to keep sets going for much longer than 5 minutes

I guess i’ll put more focus on sets where I can have longer interactions

 

[Skills]

Ah, thanks for the insight! Most of the girls I approach seem to be going somewhere (it’s a pretty busy city) so i find it hard to keep sets going for much longer than 5 minutes

I guess i’ll put more focus on sets where I can have longer interactions

brah! context you are in ny, that is fine tbh... in you scenario, the girls will be in a rush going from place to place, you do have the advantage of volume...