Deal with disrespect from "FRIEND!"

[Fluxcapacitor]

Dudes! A seriously need advice here! this is part from ma Valentines Firefighting post. I had half split from a girl that night an ma boy was out an had ma back. A talked to the girl a couple days after to firefight the issues valentines had caused an was even ready to commit, it was to late but that's her loss! The bigger issue is...….

Most importantly dealing with disrespect from ya boy! A forgot to mention but when she got me to stay she threw a curve ball that shuck me which fucked ma head an ma game plan. She lead with a needed to talk to ma boy cause he grabbed her to dance with an nuzzled her neck at the end of the night. A was furious, a cant tolerate that from somene that is meant ta have ma back. A have never been disrespected like this an have no idea how ta handle it. Calling him up an telling him to fuck if cause a dont tolerate that shit doesnt seem mature but its that or a hit him. A just seen red!! an worse she seen that it fucked me cause a went silent an just stared of into space she knew a was angry an kept asking Flux? are ya okay? whats going on in ya head?

A told her a lot of things, she asked what? a said it doesnt matter. She said it does...it does an a will deal with it. She then called me out that it really bothered me cause a couldnt look at her. A could look at her but a was that furious at ma boy that shed have seen the anger pulsing from me. A ended up looking at her which a shouldnt cause a caved to what she wanted an she seen just how fucked of a was....not a great start to controlling the frame! how do ya deal with this shit??

 

[Noir]

Bra, the best thing for you to do is just chill. Yeah, your friend's a piece of shit. I had a friend like that too. You know what I did? I got a new friend and forgot about the old one.

You cant control people, only how you look at the situation. Sure, it sucks your selfish friend crossed some boundaries and invaded your territory. But now that you know your friend is worthless to you and so is your girl, you now have the opportunity to ditch them for some new friends who will treat you better because you're an awesome human being worth being loved.

I mean, if you just absolutely need to get payback, then sure, go ahead call the bitch and tell her shes a worthless emotional leech that is a waste of oxygen and is perfect for your backstabbing, egotistical self-serving friend. I'd recommend keeping emotions out of it though cause it'll bring much more satisfaction if you state everything in a "matter-of-fact" tone.

But really, you shouldn't feel the need to get back at them. They don't owe you anything and you owe it to yourself to spend time with people who will treat you better. I believe in you buddy.

- Noir

P.s. If you wanna maintain your frame, don't take what girls say so seriously.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Noir dude! thanks for ya reply!

ma friend is a piece of shit, a havnt been able to cut him completely cause we have some mutual friends but a dont talk to him or acknowledge him. hav seen him twice since in group outings an ignored all of his texts a think he gets the message. Funny enough he's acting like a chick chasing.

the landscape changed a lot with tha emotional leech after this when she came back a week or so later begging for yet another chance. a told her a needed to think about it an to give me a week. A never did tell her what ma thoughts were an a little over 2 weeks from this she moved on an so did i.

A dont feel the need to get back at either of them an a think ma silence speaks a lot louder than anything a could have said calling them both a waste of oxygen.

A definitely owe it to maself to spend time with better people, thanks for everything ya said dude!

the disrespect from ma friend really hit me but ya right a shouldnt have took it from her so seriously infront of her cheers dude!