Dealing with Anger Towards Myself

[NewBeeWinner]

Hey guys,

How do I deal with anger at myself for my past failures with girls?

I opened up instagram today (I was going to temp delete my account) and the first post was a girl I almost slept with (she was my first "LR" if you want to read) on a boat in a bikini with another guy she got with some time after me. You could clearly see her nipples through her bikini (ik she has to be sleeping w this guy) and it reminded me of how her body looked naked and of my failure to fully sleep with her. It makes me so angry at myself for failing because I go "that couldve been me".

Like yes, I get it its not. And yes Ive slept with a girl since her so why does it even matter? But I still feel the anger and frustration.

Any advice?

NBW

 

[sumwunimetonce]

Bang more girls, you will stop caring !!

and get a dumb phone if all that stuff is getting to you. I tried it, still had the smart phone at night for some family facetime but stopped me checking it all the time, guess what you have to actually call girls instead of texting, that still works.

Good luck

 

[JacobPalmer]

Yup, bang more girls. Because at some point after working on yourself and your game you're going to sleep with someone hotter, and then look back and wonder why you were even angry at all.

 

[Overdoze]

use the anger to fuel yourself for the next girls

rejection and the likes is a gift if you can learn to utilise it

 

[NewBeeWinner]

Thanks guys. Will do.

NBW