dealing with competition/amog

[antidox]

i've been seeing a chick that gets a lot of attention from guys and has a lot of orbiters. she always comes up to me and we end up together so i don't particularly see these guys as competition.

recently she's started telling me about what these guys say to her/message her, i don't know if this is trying to dhv or trying to build trust, if she's telling me how they're trying to get with her and how she's turning them down i think this is her trying to please me.

i've been non reactive to these guys messaging and just been very chill about it but i'm wondering could i deal with this better?

she's mentioned how these guys have been very direct about what they want to do with her "i want you to sit on my face" could i frame them as being uncalibrated, clueless, desperate or am i best just ignoring it and not saying anything?

AntiDox

 

[antidox]

i didn't mention the amog incident. she had just came over to me and we had talked and kissed, some guy taps her on her shoulder, he signalled to go and vape and they go outside together. being non reactive and chill i'm cool with it, i thought okay that's cool she can vape with her friends.

when she came back she told me how he asked her if she wanted to get with him and questioned if we were hooking up. she turned him down but this then made me think this was not him asking to vape as her friend but an amog trying to step in to the middle of my set. this pissed me off that he'd try this but i remained unreactive and chill.

could i have done anything else better?

AntiDox