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Dealing with consistent flakes

cubi239

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Nov 7, 2014
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In the past month I've had a record number of girls flake on me and not sure why. I don't have an exact number but it's been much more of a common thing then it has in the past. The girls vary from girls I've picked up during the day, to girls I've already known, to girls who even show a lot of interest and then flake on set up. I deal with flakes the same way, I usually tell them to let me know when they're free, or I try to persist (usually doesn't work and I end up looking too needy), or I just move on to a different girl. But it's becoming a consistent pattern even when I build rapport, make a connection, etc. How do I turn these flakes into dates? Or should I just keep collecting numbers that just take up space in my phone and see what girl actually does show out for a date?
 

WayOfHand

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Dec 12, 2015
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Hey man. Theres not much detailed information or examples about your processes here but I can guess this much. Problem is most likely in the initial interactions. Would require some examples to pinpoint what excactly.

Why I guess its there? Because if a girl wants to meet you she will make it happen. Why does she want to meet you? Ideally because you were a sexy man that showed interest into her and she wants to find more about you.
 
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