So I have an issue come up, over the past year I have been seeing a lady around my age (early 20's). In this time she has slept with one other, once while I was away travelling (half a year). I expected this number to be a lot higher but each to their own. It was actually admitted to me as she felt horrible about it, I made it clear we are both single and that was that (furthering my belief in good sex = loyal).
What I didn't know what the individual she slept with is basically crazy, from the looks of it he has suggested he will "smash" my face in. He has a past so the girl logged it with the police - I have been trained in MMA and under the law system here that can be classed as a "weapon". I also have Krav Maga training which would also look terrible in a court of law if this idiot does attack me and I am in a position to defend myself. It is essential that I do not get any convictions as I would loose my career.
At this point in time I feel not seeing her will make little difference as the guy in question has already made threats and said he would not talk to her again. He has actually been around me in clubs without me realising and has not done anything, I am also very well guarded in clubs I attend as the doormen treat me like a friend instead of customer.
I am not looking for "kick his ass", "call the police" I am looking for if people have had experience and can suggest best stances to take to decrease aggression as I said it is vital I do not get a criminal record.
What I didn't know what the individual she slept with is basically crazy, from the looks of it he has suggested he will "smash" my face in. He has a past so the girl logged it with the police - I have been trained in MMA and under the law system here that can be classed as a "weapon". I also have Krav Maga training which would also look terrible in a court of law if this idiot does attack me and I am in a position to defend myself. It is essential that I do not get any convictions as I would loose my career.
At this point in time I feel not seeing her will make little difference as the guy in question has already made threats and said he would not talk to her again. He has actually been around me in clubs without me realising and has not done anything, I am also very well guarded in clubs I attend as the doormen treat me like a friend instead of customer.
I am not looking for "kick his ass", "call the police" I am looking for if people have had experience and can suggest best stances to take to decrease aggression as I said it is vital I do not get a criminal record.