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- Sep 8, 2015
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After a recent experience
Probably the easiest lay with one of the hottest women because she was giving me strong I contact and I was back and we where intentionally bumping each other on the dance floor. Her friend proceeded to isolate us (my bad here for not escalating then and there, but I'm also torn with the no hooking up before the pull). I tried getting one of my friends with the other friend since I was avoiding the hook up straight up. It worked and we moved too the bar there was strong Kino leg running hands around each other her licking my hand for the shot even though I already did it (I should of probably reciprocated). The girl spoke English but was not fluent and was very hard to understand was only able to pick subtle things like where she was from brief ethnicity but was not able to figure out her logistics deep dive even in the seated area.
In the end she got frustrated and left ( she later came back for it and I could of worked in a lay but I chose not to ) (I'm the type of guy who won't be excited if I won a match if I did nothing to win it plus I was with friends and was still enjoying my night (working on outcome independence))
How do you handle situations like this?
From this Iv Identified that even though my eye contact is one of my best attributes
My other non verbals I.e. Touch and leading are very week
Any tips are appreciated and examples would be a treat
Probably the easiest lay with one of the hottest women because she was giving me strong I contact and I was back and we where intentionally bumping each other on the dance floor. Her friend proceeded to isolate us (my bad here for not escalating then and there, but I'm also torn with the no hooking up before the pull). I tried getting one of my friends with the other friend since I was avoiding the hook up straight up. It worked and we moved too the bar there was strong Kino leg running hands around each other her licking my hand for the shot even though I already did it (I should of probably reciprocated). The girl spoke English but was not fluent and was very hard to understand was only able to pick subtle things like where she was from brief ethnicity but was not able to figure out her logistics deep dive even in the seated area.
In the end she got frustrated and left ( she later came back for it and I could of worked in a lay but I chose not to ) (I'm the type of guy who won't be excited if I won a match if I did nothing to win it plus I was with friends and was still enjoying my night (working on outcome independence))
How do you handle situations like this?
From this Iv Identified that even though my eye contact is one of my best attributes
My other non verbals I.e. Touch and leading are very week
Any tips are appreciated and examples would be a treat

