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I mentioned this briefly in a recent post by DarkKnight, I was out this weekend and seen my friend encounter a strange event, one that a warned him about but he went ahead anyway. After watching it unfold a thought that could also happen without ya being aware so how would you handle it?
While doing night game at a club me and my friend seen two separate girls that were both out with their guy friends. I didn’t like the behaviour of the girl that I liked with her orbiters and despite getting a big AI I didn’t approach because of her unacceptable behaviour. (dancing with them, being twirled by them even if she lead the move, them touching her and her touching or grabbing their faces – well that’s just encouragement really) My friend on the other hand went and approached the other girl that he liked after he pointed out to me she kept looking at him. A advised he didn’t bother because of her behaviour but he went ahead anyway. (similar behaviour but her orbiters were even more hands on). Not only were her orbiters now competing with him for her attention and trying to derail him throughout at the end of the night he had his arm round her after setting up a date and getting her number when one of her orbiters walked over to them and put his arm round her as well!
This is a situation that could happen if you weren’t aware she had orbiters with her when you met and they could come and put their arm round her while you are. A wouldn’t know what’s the best way to handle this situation? If you let go and walked of as you found it unacceptable you would be relying on her to tell him to fuck of and come back to you, but this could be seen that you backed down to this orbiter. If you were to keep your arm around her to not back down you could be in a really weird limbo here. I think walking of because shes gonna be to much hassle might be the best way to handle this because ya would only have to stamp out that behaviour anyway. That’s not necessarily an issue for a SNL ONS at which would ya keep ya arm round her? Thanks dudes!
While doing night game at a club me and my friend seen two separate girls that were both out with their guy friends. I didn’t like the behaviour of the girl that I liked with her orbiters and despite getting a big AI I didn’t approach because of her unacceptable behaviour. (dancing with them, being twirled by them even if she lead the move, them touching her and her touching or grabbing their faces – well that’s just encouragement really) My friend on the other hand went and approached the other girl that he liked after he pointed out to me she kept looking at him. A advised he didn’t bother because of her behaviour but he went ahead anyway. (similar behaviour but her orbiters were even more hands on). Not only were her orbiters now competing with him for her attention and trying to derail him throughout at the end of the night he had his arm round her after setting up a date and getting her number when one of her orbiters walked over to them and put his arm round her as well!
This is a situation that could happen if you weren’t aware she had orbiters with her when you met and they could come and put their arm round her while you are. A wouldn’t know what’s the best way to handle this situation? If you let go and walked of as you found it unacceptable you would be relying on her to tell him to fuck of and come back to you, but this could be seen that you backed down to this orbiter. If you were to keep your arm around her to not back down you could be in a really weird limbo here. I think walking of because shes gonna be to much hassle might be the best way to handle this because ya would only have to stamp out that behaviour anyway. That’s not necessarily an issue for a SNL ONS at which would ya keep ya arm round her? Thanks dudes!