Hi Beginner Here
Kind of a long story so strap in.
So these two girls I work with for a dinner theater.
Girl #1 I met doing the audition for the dinner detective. There was instant chemistry. So when we both got the parts and met up doing our nights we started talking a little bit and I added her on Facebook. Turns out she has a boyfriend so I didn't do nothing about it. Then one day for one of our dinner theaters we work very closely that day. At the end of the night I asked her for a ride home she said yes. Doing the ride there I contemplated on invited up but my house was a mess and some part of me didn't want her that she on her boyfriend for me (my thoughts are extremely different now I should have done it with her that night in hindsight which I will explain later). Months later doing quarantine I went on to check up on her she said she broke up with her boyfriend. Knowing this is my perfect opportunity I started talking her a little more and we talked on Zoom. I asked her out over text however she declined. You would think I would just give up and move on but here's the thing she has been so compliant about everything except a date. So I just told myself if I ever am alone with her again I'm going to make my move. (Also just a side note there's also another guy in our dinner theater that's also after her and he has a girlfriend. But I feel like she gravitates more to me than him)
Girl #2 even though we met at the dinner detective as well we didn't start talking to each other until we met at another event. But once I met her again I got her number and tried to ask her out over text (which I learn to never do) she ignored my text. I thought nothing of it because I was lukewarm with her at best. Months later doing quarantine maybe out of boredom I decided to give her a text to see how she's doing. She texted back and for a while we started texting back and forth. I tried to ask a lot again but she ignored it again. During the text she was more interested on my life instead of trying to talk about her life which I was trying to do. After a while I just figured if she's not willing to move forward with me then I'm just wasting my time so I stop texting her. (Also to let you know she's not very compliant)
Now it all comes ahead when the dinner theater starts open up again and now I have to see them both. I decided to go with girl #1 because she's way more compliant, I have a better chance with her, also I like her way more. However girl #2 Would always want to talk to me and ask me if I'm going to the show that night. Also not to mention the other guy is hitting on girl #1 all night so me and girl #1 barely talked but the chemistry was still there.
Now we move forward to this upcoming weekend when I'm going to the dinner theater and me and girl #1 are going to spend a lot of time that night but also girl #2 is going to be there as well.
My Questions
1. How do I make a move on girl#1 when girl #2 going to be there (assuming of course she has feelings for me)
2. What is Girl #2 deal? Does she like me? And if she does why she doesn't want to move things forward?
3. As always is there anything I can improve on
Kind of a long story so strap in.
So these two girls I work with for a dinner theater.
Girl #1 I met doing the audition for the dinner detective. There was instant chemistry. So when we both got the parts and met up doing our nights we started talking a little bit and I added her on Facebook. Turns out she has a boyfriend so I didn't do nothing about it. Then one day for one of our dinner theaters we work very closely that day. At the end of the night I asked her for a ride home she said yes. Doing the ride there I contemplated on invited up but my house was a mess and some part of me didn't want her that she on her boyfriend for me (my thoughts are extremely different now I should have done it with her that night in hindsight which I will explain later). Months later doing quarantine I went on to check up on her she said she broke up with her boyfriend. Knowing this is my perfect opportunity I started talking her a little more and we talked on Zoom. I asked her out over text however she declined. You would think I would just give up and move on but here's the thing she has been so compliant about everything except a date. So I just told myself if I ever am alone with her again I'm going to make my move. (Also just a side note there's also another guy in our dinner theater that's also after her and he has a girlfriend. But I feel like she gravitates more to me than him)
Girl #2 even though we met at the dinner detective as well we didn't start talking to each other until we met at another event. But once I met her again I got her number and tried to ask her out over text (which I learn to never do) she ignored my text. I thought nothing of it because I was lukewarm with her at best. Months later doing quarantine maybe out of boredom I decided to give her a text to see how she's doing. She texted back and for a while we started texting back and forth. I tried to ask a lot again but she ignored it again. During the text she was more interested on my life instead of trying to talk about her life which I was trying to do. After a while I just figured if she's not willing to move forward with me then I'm just wasting my time so I stop texting her. (Also to let you know she's not very compliant)
Now it all comes ahead when the dinner theater starts open up again and now I have to see them both. I decided to go with girl #1 because she's way more compliant, I have a better chance with her, also I like her way more. However girl #2 Would always want to talk to me and ask me if I'm going to the show that night. Also not to mention the other guy is hitting on girl #1 all night so me and girl #1 barely talked but the chemistry was still there.
Now we move forward to this upcoming weekend when I'm going to the dinner theater and me and girl #1 are going to spend a lot of time that night but also girl #2 is going to be there as well.
My Questions
1. How do I make a move on girl#1 when girl #2 going to be there (assuming of course she has feelings for me)
2. What is Girl #2 deal? Does she like me? And if she does why she doesn't want to move things forward?
3. As always is there anything I can improve on