Defects as a form of Fractionation

[DeepShadow]

Showing strengths and weaknesses is a form of fractionation.

And it works better both because doing this in the right doses when you are strong, of value in his eyes, accentuates this even more, and creates that humanity that makes you recognizable, but also because it activates that primordial feeling of women to heal. The man is a warrior and the woman the curator, it is something so deep and ancestral. Showing defects activates that part of the woman that leads her to want to repair, heal, nourish. The important thing is to do it in the right doses and clearly only when you have strengths. And do it privately in your intimate bubble.

Imagine it as if you are at war and you are that unbeatable worriors who nothing seems to scratch him, but in her tent, leave the possibility to her to take care of you, to medicate you to bring you a hot soup.

Do you use fractionation in this way before going to bed with a woman? and what experience do you have about it?

 

[ulrich]

Yes, just be very careful about what you call “defects” as not all defects are equally “curable”.

So for example, if you tend to overwork yourself because you’re very ambitious, that’s good.
But if you tend to disregard other’s feelings because you’re too focused, that’s bad.

Defects only work if they paint you as someone very masculine (Byronic flaws, Chase has a great article on them) or as someone relateable (when your attainability is low).

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