Definition Of Broke And Getting Tons Of Pussy

[Troy]

Your total money excuse, is total none sense.... You act like you are the only broke player, 100s of evidence o multiple guys that get laid without relaying on money..... The post above is total cope....

There is even a netflix movie based on real life called the tinder swindler....

The whole point of the seduction community is to get laid without relaying on money, looks, status, social circle..... you have a bunch of underlying cope post, here AGAIN, Is a whole FIELD TESTED, resources, on how to get laid with no money, no 1 not 2 no 3 girls HUNDREDS, i wish i could take a lie detector (guys here like lobo, velasco etc...) recently getting laid with no money.... Instead of putting a gun to your head, paying for prostitutes or going after guys that are actually are telling you to stop coping, read and field test, finally if you can not get this little shit from topcat how you are going to deal with the shit women throw at you????

To start off this post, a couple of things:

1. I already trust the counsel of members who have a higher rank on here.
2. I'm not ever going to argue with anyone on here (unless you blatantly disrespect me)
3. I keep a very open mind to feedback (more open than many realize) because that's the best way to learn in my opinion
4. This post is of course trusting of @Skills advice. I watched the videos he shared in the previous post here and it got me thinking. This post is not to interrogate Skills. If a man says he has experienced something, great I will believe him. This post is more so to bring clarity to the term "broke"

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The word "broke" and getting laid a ton of pussy is thrown around a lot. So I wanted to put some parameters around it. I will use the GirlsChase board ranks to put definitions around broke. This is part poll, part free discussion. Let's start off with the video Skills made.

(I liked Skills video and would recommend everyone to subscribe to his channel to show their support. If you dont' have time to watch his video now, here is a quick summary)

- Sneak girls in while parents are sleeping
- Bathroom pulls at clubs
- Park
- Beach
- Vehicle
- Motels $20-$40 an hour, minimum 2 hours
- Hotels ("expensive and I couldn't pay for it" that's what Skills said in the video)
- Back alley (not for Skills, he tried)
- Kitchen/Equipment Room/VIP (be careful or you will be kicked out)

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Parameters Around Broke And Getting Laid​

Space Monkey Broke

- Live at home with one or both parents
- Either unemployed or do not make enough money to rent an apartment
- Does not own a car and has no friends or family to borrow their car
- In college debt or personal development debt north of $3,000 USD
- Parents are religious and hence any attempts by you to: bring girls over, play non-religious music or media e.t.c... will be faced with harsh criticism. They may even knock on your room door if you are caught doing any of these things
- Messy roommates or family members
- Cannot find $100 per month to spend on a social life (without burden of other things like paying off debt)


Tool-Bearing Hominid Broke

- Live at home with one or both parents
- Either unemployed or do not make enough money to rent an apartment
- Messy roommates or family members
- Parents don't care who you bring home
- Family does not have hard religious beliefs. You can play any music or media you like without judgment
- Has $100 - $200 to spend on a social life per month


Cro-Magnon Man Broke

- You are employed or have a hustle that brings in enough to cover your rent/mortgage
- You live alone
- You own a car. It could be a beat-up car from decades ago. Does not matter. The car starts, you keep it clean and the police won't stop you for how worn your car is
- At the end of the month, you don't have any money left over. You are essentially broke. A decent taxing paying citizen yet "broke".
- Just enough income to cover the essentials of life: rent, food, bills, car gas. But no money left over to go out with girls. So the best option is to invite girls for a walk in the park, day game, or straight to your home
- Can comfortably spend $100 - $200 a month on social events and dating.


Modern Human Broke

- You live alone
- Make enough money to cover the essentials: rent, bills, car, gas
- After paying for the essentials you have between $100 to $800 USD per month to spend on a social life eg. clubs, drinks at the club, ice cream dates
- Got a car. It could be a beat-up car from decades ago, or a nice new (ish) car: eg. Honda, Toyota, Hyundai, Suzuki e.t.c... Nothing lavish, just the everyday man's car
- You can afford to pay for motels to pull girls (like Skills was talking about spending $20-40 an hour)


Tribal Elder Broke

- You live alone
- Make good money (no need to share numbers). All bills are paid: rent/mortgage, car, gas e.t.c.
- After paying for the essentials you have between $200 to $1,000 USD per month to spend on a social life eg. clubs, drinks at the club, ice cream dates (it could be more than that, but that's not important)
- Got a high-end car: Mercedes Benz, Land Rover, Tesla, BMW, Ferrari, Lamborghini, e.t.c.


Chieftan

- You live alone
- Make good money (numbers ain't important)
- Got no issues jumping on a plane next week and traveling to a foreign country to get laid
- Can afford just about anything you want or need

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Why Defining Broke Is Important​

I do think the more struggles a man has to deal with, is the more work he is going to have to put in to get consistent sex. I put parameters around this "broke" because in my country, to spend $20-$40 for a motel for an hour, that's rich here. You might call it "broke" but not everyone will see it the same. Also broke is relative to location. 1st world countries typically earn more per hour than 3rd world countries.

However, the cost of living does not always match up to the location. Statistics show the average American pays 32% of their salary for rent.

But in some 3rd world countries, people have to pay 50-60% of their overall income on rent. Which makes no sense if you ask me.

Which Rank Of Broke Are You At And Got The Most Success With Women?​

What rank of broke were you at when you got the most success with women?

This question is to bring clarity to the word broke. Personally, I fall at "Space Monkey Broke" right now. At the same time, I also have:

- $50,000 USD worth invested into personal development: sales and marketing training, GirlsChase courses, home gym etc... (I did not find all the money out of pocket, I bartered and exchanged value for some of these things. The full $50K did not come out of my pocket)

- Last week I got a promotion (non-pay bump for now) and was recognized as a great leader at my current job (and if I do a good job with my current promotion, it will result in a pay increase) I will be responsible for overseeing the staff KPIs, developing systems for revenue growth, and overall leading the staff.

What level of broke did you get the most success with women? NB. You don't have to meet every criteria listed above in each broke rank. But the more you meet, in the criteria, that is your level of broke in dating.

Troy

 

[topcat]

Bruv i’m tired of your excuses.

I’ve got family members in your very country, in the remote rural countryside at that. I KNOW THE PLACE VERY WELL.

My parents and grandparents, and most of my extended family are from your country. All of them are or were far broker than you. I can tell from the fact that you take your animals to the vet and even have a credit card that you are richer than they.

Your grasp of English is also far better than there’s. You are educated.

You are blessed Troy.

I have friends in the poorest communities without running water. They steal electricity. Some live on captured land.

My grandparents and parents were destitute when they lived there. And guess what? they all have multiple babymothers/baby fathers, and never ever cried about suicide or depression.

THEY’RE STILL GETTING LAID.

Christ’s sakes in your country men literally get paid for their dicks by thirsty tourist women, AND feed their families with the money these women send home to
them.
I have multiple cousins that do this. Three of them even got green cards and moved abroad with their ladies. They are not handsome nor rich.

WHAT IS YOUR EXCUSE?

I’ve got close relatives with murdered family members, members dying of preventable diseases due to lack of access to suitable health care. Burning firewood to cook with for lack of money for fuel. Living in communities where gunshots ring out nightly. IN YOUR COUNTRY. Don’t own a car. And guess what, THEY MAKE IT WORK. They’re happy despite their hardships.

They don’t even make $12k USD per year..

Pig farmers. Chicken farmers. Fast food servers..

NEVER HAVE THEY CONSIDERED SUICIDE..

My uncle had his wife leave him and clear him of half his humble business.. he dusted himself off and learnt from his mistakes and kept on pushing. Doesn’t even speak ill of the woman. Got a new girlfriend.

This is the resilience of your countrymen. I find it hard to respect you Troy, because our people are strong people, “likkle but wi tallawah”.

What is your excuse? Be stronger my friend. Your weakness really pisses me off.

Stop this shit.

And FYI i was getting laid at “space monkey” broke - fucking in parks and sneaking girls in through my basement window, WITH HYPER RELIGIOUS PARENTS. Sex only requires a penis and a willing hole. NOT DOLLARS.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Which Rank Of Broke Are You At And Got The Most Success With Women?

Respectfully, you're asking the wrong question bro... You should be focused on getting laid at your current circumstances.

Personally, I fall at "Space Monkey Broke" right now.

So you have 2 options.

1) Go for harder creative pulls e.g. bathrooms, parks etc.

2) Get your finances in order and move out

You obviously have the means for option 2 because:

- $50,000 USD invested into personal development: sales and marketing training, GirlsChase courses, home gym etc...
- Last week I got a promotion and was recognized as a great leader at my current job

To keep on thread though and answer your question:

Which Rank Of Broke Are You At And Got The Most Success With Women?

Tool-Bearing but I was still getting laid at space monkey level.

Your lack of getting laid isn't your finances... It's your beliefs and actions.

 

[Troy]

Bruv i’m tired of your excuses.

I hear you, man. This is my last question on such a topic. I had to ask as Skills went in on this today.

I’ve got family members in your very country, in the remote rural countryside at that. I KNOW THE PLACE VERY WELL.

I know you do.

My parents and grandparents, and most of my extended family are from your country. All of them are or were far broker than you. I can tell from the fact that you take your animals to the vet and even have a credit card that you are richer than they.

Your grasp of English is also far better than there’s. You are educated.

You are blessed Troy.

I 100% understand where you are coming from.

Christ’s sakes in your country men literally get paid for their dicks by thirsty tourist women, AND feed their families with the money these women send home to
them.
I have multiple cousins that do this. Three of them even got green cards and moved abroad with their ladies. They are not handsome nor rich.

WHAT IS YOUR EXCUSE?

I'm here to learn... no excuses once I get the solution.

This is the resilience of your countrymen. I find it hard to respect you Troy, because our people are strong people,

What is your excuse? Be stronger my friend. Your weakness really pisses me off.

Stop this shit.

This response I can accept as constructive criticism. Honestly, I'm 100% ok if members on here don't quote and quote respect me. I will take you out the picture for a bit and just speak in general terms, in my paragraph below.

I believe I am being much stronger than most people realize. When I was going through school, I faced just to name a few:

- When I was 5 or 6 years old, I was humiliated in front of my entire class. I went to the bathroom to shower and someone stole my clothes. And the entire school laughed at me for being naked. My Mom had to leave her job and come pick me up from school butt naked.

- I've been bullied most of my school life. In primary school, the girls used to scorn me and the boys used to gang up and beat me after school.

- In 1st to 2nd grade of high school, the guys used to steal my chair every break and lunch. The school was short on chairs and so I was the only student standing in class many times taking notes. And the very guys who would steal my chair would make fun of me. I got into fights with some of them and that resulted in violence. The other guys would jump in and fight me as well. And the girls would look on and laugh.

- It wasn't until 3rd grade of high school that a lot of the girls started taking an interest in me. By that point, my self-esteem was out the window. I could not believe girls when they said I was handsome, nice to talk to, e.t.c...

- I got clowned on the track team when my coach made me be the only student who had to travel to school to train in the summer. While the other students got beds and food to camp out at school.

- It wasn't until I got to the last year of high school, that I managed to shake off some of the trauma I have been through. I started cold approaching, getting numbers. Even slept with a girl from high school.

- When I turned 19 I started dating a lot. And when I got my first job and did not have the social pressures of school, I found a lot of women took great interest in wanting to date and sleep with me. Many of those opportunities I blew. Some of them I capitalized on and had sex with women in public.

- Since then my self-esteem has drastically improved. I still have a ton of work to do but I think it's getting better. I went from being the most mocked person in school, to now dominating in my current job. Both men and women now look at me as a leader at my job.

- I'm now in the spotlight for outstanding performance at my job. Some women have even told me to my face they wanna have babies with me. I am a work in progress. Yes very flawed and I do my best every day I wake up.

So to conclude, a member or members on here not respecting me, that's the least of my concern. As long as I can wake up each day and be a Go Giver. As long as I have the strength to log in here and help other guys (where I see fit) and get my questions answered, I am good.

I value competence first. Competence will get me to the goal. Respect comes way down the line for me after that. It's fine my friend @topcat I ain't trying to change your current opinion. I'm moving forward as fast as I can.

Thank you for sharing!

To keep on thread though and answer your question:

Tool-Bearing but I was still getting laid at space monkey level.

Your lack of getting laid isn't your finances... It's your beliefs and actions.

Thank you for your response.

Anyone else, comment below.

Troy

 

[Regal Tiger]

Broke enough to be perma stressed but note quite broke enough to not splurge on an extra meal every once in a while at Subway

 

[ulrich]

Why don’t you hang out with your coworkers and see what they are doing to get laid?

If everybody got little money, I’m pretty sure some guys out there are making it work.
Maybe the answer is right in front of you.

 

[Troy]

I can tell from the fact that you take your animals to the vet and even have a credit card that you are richer than they.

This is not an excuse to reply. I just read over what I wrote last night and am providing some clarity. I took my pet to the vet in January and due to the amount of credit card debt I have racked up, I still have not paid off that medical bill for my pet.

So now I am paying interest on the overall credit card balance. It ain't that I got the money, it's more my care for my animals to not die prematurely. It was a huge sacrifice. Again not an excuse, just clarifying where that money came from.

2) Get your finances in order and move out

You obviously have the means for option 2 because:


Troy said:
- $50,000 USD invested into personal development: sales and marketing training, GirlsChase courses, home gym etc...
- Last week I got a promotion and was recognized as a great leader at my current job

I realized my initial post may be a bit misleading so I will make a correction and clarification. I got my first job in 2016 and since then, I have invested:

$200 - $300 USD every month
$2,400 - $3,600 USD every year

So the most I spent out of my pocket was between $14,400 - $21,600

The other $30,000 + I got in exchange for providing value to others. That is:

- Partnering with entrepreneurs and helping them with stuff while building my skills

- My previous business partners spent thousands of dollars on marketing campaigns. The value I brought was I had the skill to manage those campaigns and make them profitable

- I have personal phone numbers and emails for 6, 7, 8, and 9-figure entrepreneurs. I have been steadily building my network. However, there is no free money out here. None of them is going to give me money just because I know them. I do however have the connections to tap into. But I can only do so when I see an opportunity for me to provide value. I am not going to become a pester to these people. I am looking to give more value.

- I have exchanged value for coaching sessions

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If I had taken the other route I could have rented an apartment for:

$100 a month in the ghetto (and risk being shot and killed everyday)

$200 a month for a run down beat up apartment (instead of investing in my high-income skills. If I did that, I would not have any sales, marketing, JV experience. I would not have the contacts to big-time entrepreneurs if I had gone that route)

$500 a month for a entry-level furnished apartment (if I had gone this route, again I would not have any high-income skills today. I would be a player that maybe got a lot of pussy but nothing to show aside from that).

$1,000 a month (that's for those already earning 6 figures)

For those wondering, how I think about money, watch this video by Grant Cardone. It is gold:

If 40% of my income goes to taxes
then 40% has to go to storage (skills-building, long term investments)
And I have to live on 20%

Troy

 

[Teevster]

I banged over 100 girls while being in high school and during my late teens and early 20's, making less than 300 usd a month through a shitty side-job in a country with high sallaries (Norway - a metro ticket costs 4 usd...)and had barely any money to buy drinks in field. At some point I was so broke that girls were paying for cabs after nights out. This was the time where I was 16-19. I did get some cash from my parents in my earlier days, but not enough to go nuts in clubs or in restaurants.

I then became a student and took a student loan which I didn't use because I lived with my parents who lived far away from the field. I had to pull within the venues (basically screen for logistics within the venue ) or to women's place (and developped a strategy to do so - namely screen for logistics early on in the interaction). They usually paid for the cab and I would stay at her place till the first metro in the morning.

Regarding entrance fees and stuff: I rarely pay (or ever paid) entrance since I always either know a promoter, or I know the bouncers (from being a regular) or I pick venues with free entrance (which could be trashy places but not necessarily). I started drinking booze at the age of 23 ish. Prior to that I rarely drank in field. I would only pay for wardrobes (approx 2-3 bucks).

I honestly don't understand the point of these treads. If I could do it at 16 with less money than you, and without logistics (I moved to my own place at age 24!), why can't you?

Even though I have more cash now, I still don't swim in money. I still watch my spending when out and would feel like shit if I spend too much on a night out. Having good logistics clearly helps, but it has only contributed to a 25% lay increase - as over the years I really perfectionized the "pick up without logistics" game. I never owned a car FYI.

And talking about "pulling without logstics": this week end I went to my parent's back in Oslo. I pulled a hot girl on Friday and went back to her place (ok at age 30 I could pay the 15 bucks for the cab!). I was close on Saturday but got wildcarded (my girl ended up fighting a tranny - no logistics would have solved this).

Not gonna lie though. Even though money itself has not affected my results, I think having a bit more cash made fielding more pleasurable. I can take cabs back home more often, and if I really want another glass of Scotch, I can allow myself to buy it. I can use tequila shots as a way to befriend her friends or buy her a drink as a way to isolate during the late mid-game - but that's really it (also bying girl drinks is a controversial subject that needs to be calibrated and timed right! else you just turn into a sucker!) I may also allow myself to go to places where I don't have free entrance more often. But aside from that, money has no other impact on fielding.

I don't think you and I are talking about the same game here.

(None of this is an exageration as most of this was documented in my posting history from 2007-2011 on mASF and after that on nextASF. Those who were active during that period are aware of all of this).

Edit: You are too broke to go out, but have the money to buy sex? I don't know about where you live, but where I live, one round with a lower class prostitute costs the same as at least 4-5 outings. I am basing myself on Parisian prices.

Best,
Teevster

 

[ulrich]

I realized my initial post may be a bit misleading so I will make a correction and clarification. I got my first job in 2016 and since then, I have invested:

$200 - $300 USD every month
$2,400 - $3,600 USD every year

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If I had taken the other route I could have rented an apartment for:

$100 a month in the ghetto (and risk being shot and killed everyday)

$200 a month for a run down beat up apartment (instead of investing in my high-income skills. If I did that, I would not have any sales, marketing, JV experience. I would not have the contacts to big-time entrepreneurs if I had gone that route)

$500 a month for a entry-level furnished apartment (if I had gone this route, again I would not have any high-income skills today. I would be a player that maybe got a lot of pussy but nothing to show aside from that).

$1,000 a month (that's for those already earning 6 figures)

@Troy, the more I read your posts, the more it is clear too me that you have too many rules of how things should work to the point that you are building a prison of your own making.

In the country where I live, about 50% of the people find ways to avoid taxes... it is so pervasive that you have a whole class of merchants whose only profit is the tax that they should be paying.
If the government ever enforces its own regulations, all these guys are going out of business.

This kind of activities most likely won't take you to millionaire.... but you know what? It's pretty reasonable for a guy in a bad place to take adavantage of them.

It seems to me that you have all these hard rules of how money and success work and instead of helping you they are LIMITING YOU.


In the last years some of my friends have been doing amazingly with money, each one in a different niche and the thing all they have in common is THEY ARE BREAKING RULES.
One guy turned millionaire last year doing something that is blatantly illegal (no victims type of crime, he only affects big corporations), he already moved to protect and legalize his assets.
Another guy is a lawyer making a ton of moolah doing something that theoretically is not allowed (he is not breaking any law but, just outsmarting current legislation).
Another guy I know created a company under a friend's name so he could remove a conflict of interest that was preventing him to earn 5X from his medical work.
A guy I know who claims to be millionare, got in crippling debt when he was young... he simply decided not to pay, cut his losses and make his money elsewhere... he is doing pretty well right now, just has many of his assets in international accounts.

None of these guys has invested the time and money studying business as I had... and they are doing much better!!

There is a lesson here: You don't make a breakthrough following all the rules.
You have to break some rules from time to time.

The guys who become directors and VPs in their early thirties... they change jobs every two or three weeks (instead of making a career like you're supposed to do)

And seduction is the same...
A guy I know who has probably laid 150+ was dating girls for a decade while telling his girlfriends that he was faithful (he wasn't supposed to do that).
Many nightgame seducers pick up girls doing street game outside of the clubs (instead of spending time and money in the club as you're supposed to do).
A friend married a woman who is super cute and has an incredible body by stealing her from her then current boyfriend (you're not supposed to do that!!)


Life is like that.
You can't be too worried about the right way to do stuff while everyone around is cutting corners.

Yes, breaking rules can and will get you in trouble... but is staying out of trouble worth missing life?

It's time to let go off your limitating rules and start emulating what other succesful guys are doing.

So the most I spent out of my pocket was between $14,400 - $21,600

The other $30,000 + I got in exchange for providing value to others. That is:

- Partnering with entrepreneurs and helping them with stuff while building my skills

- My previous business partners spent thousands of dollars on marketing campaigns. The value I brought was I had the skill to manage those campaigns and make them profitable

- I have personal phone numbers and emails for 6, 7, 8, and 9-figure entrepreneurs. I have been steadily building my network. However, there is no free money out here. None of them is going to give me money just because I know them. I do however have the connections to tap into. But I can only do so when I see an opportunity for me to provide value. I am not going to become a pester to these people. I am looking to give more value.

- I have exchanged value for coaching sessions

For those wondering, how I think about money, watch this video by Grant Cardone. It is gold:

If 40% of my income goes to taxes
then 40% has to go to storage (skills-building, long term investments)
And I have to live on 20%

And while we are on this subject, I have to tell you (and I really hope I don't offend you) that you got to get out of this "internet riches" cult you're into.

Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins, Russell Brunson, etc... all those guys are amazing teachers.
But I'm gonna tell you what, they care shit if you have success or not. They are more worried about convincing you to buy their next program. You're just a number to them.

And I am telling you this from both perspectives, I have been studying under guys like these and theaching how to make businesses and sales.

A lot of what you are seeing there is meant to physically pump your emotions and get you addicted to a feel good ecosystem that sells you "entetainment" with some self-improvement sprinkled into.

I was hooked to it for years and you learn a lot but honestly... those guys can't take people to riches consistently.
That is not the place to be when you're struggling with money.
Grant Cardone doesn't undestand your situation, he can't help you. Not at the current moment.
And they won't come to help if something in your business plan doesn't work, they earn on volume. You need to get close to someone who is not that many levels afar from you.

There is a time to learn from these money gurus and it is not when you can barely afford them.

And your"entrepreneur" friends. Are they making a ton of money for real?
Because that space is full of pretenders.

If they are really your friends, you should be able to send them a message just saying:

"Hey,
Despite all my hard work, I have fallen into bad times and need to step up my money game.
Do you have any project I can help you with or can you point me out to someone who does?
I can do marketing, blah blah, or even VA stuff
Thanks."

That's what friends and contacts are for.
If 1 out of 5 people won't even try to help they're either not friends or are full of air.

 

[topcat]

This is not an excuse to reply. I just read over what I wrote last night and am providing some clarity. I took my pet to the vet in January and due to the amount of credit card debt I have racked up, I still have not paid off that medical bill for my pet.

So now I am paying interest on the overall credit card balance. It ain't that I got the money, it's more my care for my animals to not die prematurely. It was a huge sacrifice. Again not an excuse, just clarifying where that money came from.



I realized my initial post may be a bit misleading so I will make a correction and clarification. I got my first job in 2016 and since then, I have invested:

$200 - $300 USD every month
$2,400 - $3,600 USD every year

So the most I spent out of my pocket was between $14,400 - $21,600

The other $30,000 + I got in exchange for providing value to others. That is:

- Partnering with entrepreneurs and helping them with stuff while building my skills

- My previous business partners spent thousands of dollars on marketing campaigns. The value I brought was I had the skill to manage those campaigns and make them profitable

- I have personal phone numbers and emails for 6, 7, 8, and 9-figure entrepreneurs. I have been steadily building my network. However, there is no free money out here. None of them is going to give me money just because I know them. I do however have the connections to tap into. But I can only do so when I see an opportunity for me to provide value. I am not going to become a pester to these people. I am looking to give more value.

- I have exchanged value for coaching sessions

.............................................................................

If I had taken the other route I could have rented an apartment for:

$100 a month in the ghetto (and risk being shot and killed everyday)

$200 a month for a run down beat up apartment (instead of investing in my high-income skills. If I did that, I would not have any sales, marketing, JV experience. I would not have the contacts to big-time entrepreneurs if I had gone that route)

$500 a month for a entry-level furnished apartment (if I had gone this route, again I would not have any high-income skills today. I would be a player that maybe got a lot of pussy but nothing to show aside from that).

$1,000 a month (that's for those already earning 6 figures)

For those wondering, how I think about money, watch this video by Grant Cardone. It is gold:

If 40% of my income goes to taxes
then 40% has to go to storage (skills-building, long term investments)
And I have to live on 20%

Troy

It’s funny because for all your lamentation of being broke, comparatively you’re actually rather well off. Lower middle class in your country at the very least, and financially you seem to have lots of potential to improve your finances.

You lack creativity and an ability to prioritize your efforts effectively. You have an inability to sacrifice for what you actually want or decide on what you actually want.

I also sense loneliness. You find camaraderie and want to be accepted here, but without doing the work to be legitimately esteemed here. Instead you create drawn out posts, in attempts to appear to provide value, but in reality bog users down with confusion and prey on some of the more empathetic members here with your emotional vampirism and threats of suicide. You give female BPD vibes..

I originally took an interest in you because we come from the same country. But now i honestly find you a pathetic example of the nation. You remind me of the distasteful brand of Indian trolls that used to haunt this forum.

I see clearly what you are, an attention seeker, and this will be the last time i address you until you fix up.

You can fool the well meaning westerners on here, but i see clearly what you are.

Walk good.

 

[ljrozz69]

Hey!
Lots of things going on here it seems.

I just want to remind you a few things...

Does all this matter? Money or not, success or not, status or not, whatever else... you can be happy. You have to start to care more about yourself, what you really feel, who you are. You won't find the answer you crave for in self-help books or on answers of random people in a seduction forum, after all who are we to tell you what to do with your life, really?
Stop caring about this nonsense, it's just emotional noise that makes you suffer.
Start caring about what is true to yourself.
The answer is within your heart.

*leaves thread in a very, very mysterious way*

 

[foggy]

when you have aspergers, you can tend to get very rigid about things [i know from experience]

you seem to be quite obsessed and rigid around money, which impacts your behavior and thought processes towards seduction.

based on your other posts, id say you got some aspergers going on. and that you are very much out of touch with your social environments.

this is your major sticking point, and the one you should be actively focusing on. not money!