Delusion of "Success". Are you being ILLUSION by any of this points?

ZacAdam

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Hi Guys,

Seems like there is a lot of new guys still wonder get caught up of the school success and maybe porno type of orgies happening in school. Are you guilty of this?

Mistakes or illusioned by?

1)Many social circle photos from a guy friend in social media

2)Many social circle photos from a girl friend in social media

3)Many comments from " " social media

4)Many likes from " " on social media

5)Event invitations

6)Girls posting on guy friends facebook

7)Couples on Facebook

8)Guy with many girls on facebook

Most of them are delusion, really. :) Don't forget to work on yourself, okay. Just because i bring society back to earth, we often forget to work on ourselves.

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Zac-

Right... it's easy for beginners to think every guy around them is having lots of sex with lots of girls and they are complete losers because of their lack of success.

The truth is there are a lot more guys in the "man, I never get laid" boat than there are otherwise.

I had some pretty cool male friends in university, yet many of them would go 4 to 8 months without getting laid. And then they'd lay a fat girl.

Of course, I knew a few guys who were shagging a new girl every 2 or 3 weeks, but there weren't that many of those guys. And guys would often be vague about their results or talk about this girl they were "talking to" or "working on" to make it sound like they weren't completely dateless.

We get bombarded with a lot of hookup culture stuff in the media, but the amount of sex and number of sex partners the average person has, at least States-side, has dropped substantially since its peak in the 70s.

It's extremely possible to get yourself to the point where you pick up and sleep with lots of girls if you're willing to put the work in on game and fundamentals. But what you realize once you get there is that it's actually fairly lonely at the top and there really aren't a whole lot of men out there who are doing what you're doing. Most just get laid every once in a while and take a girlfriend after they'd been "working on" her for 3 months or 6 months or what have you.

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Everyone,

I hope this thread give even the worse of worse, hope. :)

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Before i get back

:D

Read this again. So on the dot.

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BUMP

BUMPING for guys who think girls have it all.
 

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ZacAdam said:
BUMP

BUMPING for guys who think girls have it all.

I sometimes have that mindset that everyone is having fun and I'm the only one left out.
Obviously if you ask a guy if he's ever got laid he will say yes just to save face.
Girls liking/retweeting guys on social media doesn't mean a guy is getting laid left/right and centre.

Just focus on building yourself (start of with fundamentals; body/vocal/social/fashion) and you'll see improvements.
The only time I'd suggest to focus on other guys success is just to try to mimick or learn how they interact with girls.
I've done this a lot recently just by sitting and not saying a whole lot. There's some guys who try to play the role of the joker, bully (Mocking people to increase their value) and then there's guys (very few) who seem to get female attention without excerting much effort. I've always found this incomprehensible, but reading chase's ebook/articles I've learnt about law of least effort and sprezzatura amongst others which explains this.
 

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LoverofWomen,

LoverOfWomen said:
Obviously if you ask a guy if he's ever got laid he will say yes just to save face.

Think of everything as advertising. :) and 'fuck thy neighbour'.

Zac
 

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I actually tested this theory once on Facebook. In one month I was able to get nearly seven hundred friends from just sending friends requests to random hot chicks and cool looking guys, many of which would then like the stuff I posted/comment etc. even though most of it I just put on there to prove a point to a friend of mine (in real life, not a Facebook random). Someone browsing my profile would think I was getting laid like heck, when in reality, I didn't even lose my virginity till I was nineteen.

Now granted I have an above average sense of style and am decent looking, but honestly anyone can make themselves look good on social media, as proved.

P.S. The point I was proving to my friend was why I though social media is full of crap, especially for guys, as it's just a time sync, and a place to get validation. That's fine if that's what you would like... I'd rather put my time into bettering myself and getting more pussy.
 

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Bran D,

Bran D said:
I'd rather put my time into bettering myself and getting more pussy.

Yea man. To most people, perception is reality. We can only work towards bettering ourselves. :)

Zac
 

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This post should be STICKIED as a reminder for everyone to not be hard on yourself but keep working. :)
 

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Most social media is a waste of time. I have a facebook page (with all of five photos) solely because Tinder requires you to have one, but I have all of the privacy settings all the way up - no friends, no friend requests, etc. Outside of Tinder it's as if the account doesn't exist. I have no linkedin, twitter, instagram... zippo. If you're a business, I get it. If you're some chick monetizing 5 million followers, I get it. But for 99%+ of folks... it's just a worthless time suck.

Success should be measured by the degree to which you're content with your life, whether you just sold your business for $50 million or you're living in a shack in Wyoming because you love the wilderness. Social media has zilch to do with it.
 

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Hey Hey You You

I hope this serves as a reminder for those who feel completely helpless. :)

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PeachFrustration,

i hope you start from here, okay. :)

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Common Chase.

My name should at least be a mention on alek rolstad article. Just give me some face.

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:)

The idea is to give everyone the impression that 10 million girls suck my dick.

That's right.

The game is like this. Like the economy. Until recession hits and we will know who is drowning.

Until the last 5%, she will kinda know if you know what you are talking about. She won't know all because we are humans.

She just gives you the impression that she can see thru glass. Just slap her head. :) She will wake up. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA #genderequality
 
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