LR- DG: Dirty Little Mall Slut Smoke-show

omgroflcopter

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jun 18, 2019
Messages
27
Now that I have your attention with my incredibly captivating title, this is a day game field report from this girl I picked up who was a total babe. I learned a lot from this pickup. The biggest lessons, (1) these girls that you think are too hot to want to do naughty things on the first date will and (2) Don't doubt yourself, you are the guy who makes these girls do these naughty things. During this date,I felt the bullshit brainwashing lies that society has taught me creep into my head. The biggest one, I thought, "this girl is too hot to hookup with a guy like me on the first date." Well we did some naughty stuff.

One more disclaimer before I start. This should be a lay report, but it's not. Without going to into it, before I discovered GC, I barely ever got girls and as a result I was pretty heavily addicted to porn for about ten years. I have been struggling with some Porn-induced erectile dysfunction and started doing a "No-PMO" reboot about five days before this FR took place. Anyway, I am on this reboot to regain my libido and erections, so I will be taking a break from gaming for awhile. But, this was a good experience to go out on, even though it wasn't everything it could have been.


My friend and I head to the mall to do some day game on a Friday afternoon. We are waiting in line to get some food before we start and from a distance I see this cute girl walking with a bunch of bags. I have had a lot of experiences with bad wingmen who won't help push me into sets because their own AA is so bad. This has fortunately made me a lot better at approaching because I realize no one is going to tell me to do it.

I let her walk by and then I chase after her a bit and say the usual "Excuse me, I just saw you walking and I thought you were really pretty, blah, blah". She stops, and starts to say something. I had a bit of an inner-game issue here where I assume she is going to reject me. She was beautiful though, pale skin, dark hair and gorgeous eyes, just my type. I thought she looked older and "I said, I feel like you are about to tell me you are married." She says, "No! Do I look that old!" After she said this I knew she was pretty interested. I noted my inner-game issue here that I thought for sure she was going to reject me, but in reality, she was interested. I recovered quickly and say something along the lines of "Your face just looked like you were going to give me some really bad news." I don't remember the exact conversation, but it was really smooth. I complimented her mask, we found out we are both the same age, I found out she works in like some kind of childcare clinic but wants to go back to nursing school. She said some negative things about herself jokingly and I said "O man, you really know how to sell yourself!" I asked her what her drink of choice was and she said tequilla, but she is open to a lot of different drinks, she likes beer etc. Well I said, "Let's get a drink sometime then" and we exchanged info.

I text her a few hours later, "Omgroflcopter, for your records. It was nice meeting you today :)." She responds "It was nice meeting you too :)." Not long after though she sends me a picture of a wine glass and says something about unwinding after a long day. We text back and forth and flirt a bit. We plan a date. I tell her she has to bring her mask and she does some nice compliance here and says "Of course I will :)". She also tells me she is reading the law of attraction and I say "Are you going to seduce me with some magic powers?" And she says "I will if you're not careful". The content of these messages and the way she immediately sent the picture of the wine to continue the conversation were really good signs she was highly interested. And highly interested in something physical too. I did realize this at the time, but not as clearly as I do now.

So we plan a drink for Monday night because I will be away hiking all weekend. My plan going into the date was for it to be a pretty basic informational one. The trend I have noticed for me so far in seductions is usually the first date is introductory and the second one I can escalate a lot better. I think part of this is a limiting belief, but also it definitely just seems hard to go from not knowing someone to total attraction within 2.5 hours. I'm still a greenhorn so any advice on this would be appreciated. But as you will see, this belief didn't stop me from escalating. One more disclaimer though, I did start my nofap reboot and had ED with a mediocre looking girl a few days ago. So I was hesitant about hooking up with this girl tonight. Another reason I just wanted it to be informational. But apparently I am just too god damn charming...

She arrives at the brewery and calls me as she took a wrong turn. She comes and parks next to me. She steps out and she looks fucking fine man. Like I didn't realize how hot she was. She has this cute fucking one piece outfit on, I think it's called a rompart, or a rupert, or something. Whatever, nice fucking legs, hot face, beautiful eyes. So the date was me doing a lot of deep diving per usual. Found out she had some daddy issues and has dated some bad boys or whatever. I push myself to neg her a bit because I know in the past I think I go to nice guy with these girls who are really hot. I neg her and she responds pretty well. Overall though, she is pretty stoic. Like she never totally relaxes it seems. She hardly asked me any questions about myself. I do find some girls do this which, I don't know, maybe they are just self-absorbed. So, it never seem like we totally hit that "vibe". Maybe once or twice, but just was not total clickage.

Just some facts about her. Like I said daddy issues, doesn't know him, he lives in a different country and she never has. She smokes weed sometimes. Has kind of worked a lot of odd jobs and is debating going back to nursing school. Her mother is somewhat crazy and overbearing. Last boyfriend was a dick. She met him on bumble and they had mutual friends. He was just like mean and would blame stuff on her. She loves elephants (I did a program in Thailand with elephants but like she never asked me about myself so I couldn't bring this up and show some great interesting value). She has a decent sense of humor.

So not a lot of sex talk, I struggle with this, but it didn't seem totally right to do it yet, but whatever. Like i said just deep diving. I definitely had my innergame/brainwashing issues come out. I remember thinking like "O man, I don't get the girls like this and even if I did, not on a first date. I'm the nice guy, she'll know that." Just some deep innergame and brainwashing issues from being the 22yo virgin in my past. With work and luck I am overcoming this though and this is a great example. She was framing me as a high value guy. Shew also threw some shit tests at me. She started asking me about "How many other girls' numbers I got in the mall". Curious to hear how you guys would have responded to this. At first I said "O man, I was hitting on every single girl younger than 60 with my friend, that was the game". She did push on it though, and went back to it several times. And I said "Do you want to know the truth?" She says, "Yes." I say, "Three, one girl got mad at me and I got one other girls number but I just texted you." Before she was saying how "You were probably just hitting on any girl who was somewhat attractive." So I told her "The other girl's number I got was very attractive but I thought you were very beautiful and we had a very good vibe and I wouldn't want to go out with someone who I didn't feel that vibe with." This was the truth. I did get some other bombshell's number but she was like a 20yo kid and like I really do need some vibe if I want to go out with someone. I think this set a nice frame of closing the bubble in between us and also showing myself as a high value guy with standards. She set the nice complying frame of talking about how now she has competition.

The other really important thing that happened was this shit test right before she went to the bathroom, I told her she had to come up with the next question or something. And like obviously I didn't say anything wrong, although, sometimes I do overneg, but she got pissy and said one or two things and then said "Whatever dude." And kind of held her hand up and walked to the bathroom. It also gave the illusion that she was just going to leave. When she came back my plan was to just act like I didn't even notice it and show her pictures of my cousin's new kid. But when she came back, she was actually more compliant I think than before. She said some more things that framed me as a high value guy who gets girls and I started throwing in some gentle touches and then started just caressing one of her hands or something. I think this touching happened after I talked about how I thought she was really beautiful and we vibed. I do not remember the exact order. I end up paying for the date, I've been doing this lately, maybe I should ask to start splitting, but if I think it went well I have been paying. I ask her if she wants to take a walk along the bike path that runs parallel to the restaurant. She says, yes.

My plan was to just kiss her and then end the date because I am doing the nofap thing and I've been having some ED lately. And I am in my head about it so it has gotten worse. I guess this is a good thing though, because my game is getting good enough where things are happening.

So we walk along the bike path and I eventually just find somewhere and I say we should sit. We sit on the grass. I don't really get a vibe going because she is a pretty cold girl as I said so I just go for the kiss at some point and we start making out. I just wanted to make out because of ED, but this sexy fucking girl wanted so much more. ED is a fucking curse man. But whatever I am in it now, and I'm like I might as well escalate and see where I can take this. We make-out and when I realize she wants more, I slip my hand under that cute little outfit and feel her tight perfect ass. I suck on her small but perky tits. I rub her pussy and getting her feeling good and I can tell by her vocalizations. When she really moans I go to take them off. She tells me she is on her period but in a way that makes it sound like she wants me to keep going. "I tell her every girl is always on her period." I push her cute little white underwear off to the side and start eating her pussy. She tastes so fucking good. Like I either lover eating girls out or hate it. This girl just tasted marvelous. Marvelous vagina. Just soaking wet and clean and she's so hot and she's just moaning. All while we are on the grass and near a road btw. A few times cars actually like drove by and parked fairly close but I just calmed her down in that assured confident guy way and said we're fine babe and continued to eat her out. She also had a tampon in, I could feel the string with my tongue. Probably the first time a girl was actually on her period when she said it.

She started to say some dirty things. Definitely made me think she's a bit of a freak, especially with the daddy issues. She started saying "I am such a dirty little slut for doing this. You're probably going to think less of me now for this?" I responded and told her she was a dirty little slut but I don't think less of her because she is my dirty little slut. Let me know what you guys think of my response and what you would have said here. This one definitely through me through a loop and I could see just the total crazy chick look on her face when she said this. Just overcome with emotion and horniness and she is not speaking logically. Like an alien overtook her brain. I told her she was a dirty slut some more and maybe a dirty whore too who likes to get her pussy eaten on the first date where people can see her. She kept saying you are going to think less of me thing too. I just kept telling her how dirty she was but reassured her I liked her. We also talked about how amazing her pussy tasted. And she would look down at me and say "that's so hot." She got nervous several times when a car would be near and I just kept calming her down and then pushing her back down and eating her pussy.

She started talking about how she wanted to fuck me. And I'll keep this short because it pains me to write, but I knew I wasn't ready with the ED and psychological issues I've been going through. Sex with a fucking hot girl, on the fucking side of the road, while I'm flatlining wasn't going to happen. She took my pants off and she started sucking my dick like a fucking dirty whore, like it would have been really good. But I was mostly soft. I was fucking nervous, and flatlining, and etc. etc. Whatever. I went back to eating her pussy and she tried to suck my dick one more time unsuccessfully. I just told her I was nervous. I held my frame. I told her we should save something for another time. Knowing full well this would decrease my chance of another time but I physically couldn't do it at the time.

So I ate her pussy some more, and she really seemed to love it. She told me she came three times. Eventually I got her to stand up and she said let's go I am tired. We held hands and talked on the way back. My frame was definitely a little weakened because we didn't fuck and I had ED but I still held it OK. We got back to the car and kissed and it was slightly awkward but not too bad. I told her we should do it again sometime. We had an OK kiss and parted ways.

I texted her the next day "Nice talking and hanging out with you Mall-Girl, we should do it again sometime :)." She did not respond as I somewhat expected. Because we didn't have sex? Probably, you guys would know better than me. Maybe she was just crazy too. But probably the former. Anyway, this was a great experience for me. It taught me I can go out and pickup and hookup with girls who are my ideal type on the first date. And I can even get them to tell me they are my dirty little sluts.
 

cruiser

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
May 1, 2018
Messages
121
Hahaha dude you killed it.

biggest piece of advice.
Stop. Getting. In. Your. Head.

You’re thinking way too much. Try meditating. You need to be more zen about things. I understand you’re trying and doing all these things but bro stop Getting in your head.

DO, don’t think.

I would have been just so turned on in that moment.

because you thought about the Ed, the Ed came.
If you had slightly better logistics maybe you could have gone to her place or yours.

yeah man I know you’re capable of this stuff too, I KNOW IT. you are better than you think you are.

I think you need to work on these inner issues someway. Making girls as your validation will ultimately fail you. And yes it sucks but girls ghost, this girl thought of you as short term potential. You can get another pretty girl, sucks in the moment but the next pretty girl you approach you’ll forget all about her.
Cheers bro
 

Skills

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Nov 11, 2019
Messages
854
Location
South Florida
I really advise you for now to focus a million %, on your sex issues, get the book sex god by rose, if you can get it.. also, do some lab tests check your hormones... finally watch my video please:

 

Chase

Chieftan
Staff member
tribal-elder
Joined
Oct 9, 2012
Messages
3,604
@omgroflcopter,

Oh man, nice work sticking with it and pushing past 99% of your issues.

You hung in there despite the doubts and pushed through. It's gonna make a MASSIVE difference in how you think about things going forward.

"You're my dirty little slut" is an excellent thing to tell a girlfriend when you are fucking her.

It is not so good a thing to tell a girl the first time you are with her, and especially when your penis is not in her and you are only licking her.

That said, this girl also seems reasonably open sexually so it may not be too big an issue.

In your scenario, just tell her, "If a girl hooks up fast with just ANY old guy, then I am going to think less of her, yes. If she hooks up fast with ME, then I am just going to assume she is extremely wise and knows a good man when she sees one."

When you could not get it up -- you must get the penis into her anyway!

Penis entering vagina is the psychological difference between, "Well, he didn't get it up, but he DID stick it in," versus, "He licked my pussy but we did not have sex, even though I was filled with crazy hormones and really wanting it then. Probably there is a reason for that, and it was for the best."

I would follow up with her multiple times and seek to get her out anyway. She clearly wanted to be FUCKED, so it's unfortunate you met her at the time you did.

However, just ping her every so often. Maybe once a week or once every 2 weeks. Or more often if she responds decently. Try phone calls too. If you get her on the phone, just vibe with her.

In time, she is going to forget the bad feeling of not getting fucked, and remember the good feeling of vibing with you, of enjoying getting licked in public, and of really wanting it with you but not getting it. And she will start to want it again.

If she really is that hot, she's worth following up with, especially if you'll be out of the game for a bit.

50/50 you can get her with a little persistence over time.

On the porn addiction and ED issues -- I assume you've read these; but if not, give 'em a look:



Chase
 

Starboy

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Apr 2, 2018
Messages
105
How to know if you have porn ED? Is just when you have the inability to get and stay hard? I watch porn sometimes ,but after a few days to a week off and eating clean foods like fruits,veggies or drinking green tea I can still get decently hard. I can still visualize or imagine myself having sex with women from real life and get hard usually if I try. Even reading some lay reports can get me somewhat hard so i'm confused if I actually have ED or if its really all in your head?
 
Last edited:
Top