Venting- Skip if you'd like to
Hey guys... right now I'm pretty fucking upset with myself, like I normally don't get mad at shit like this but I'm fucking steaming there was shit i forgot and didn't do. I overcame a lot tonight and I moved things towards the end goal but I ended up taking my eyes off the main prize (the pussy) and focusing on another pair of lips. Read this shit, I'm posting this so I don't let myself forget, I overcame a ton of shit tonight but i fucking lost out and I feel like a bitch arghhh. Now I'm not mad at her she did nothing wrong, I'm just mad at myself because I fucking know better, and I forgot shit anyway on to the shit.
Texting
Met this girl at my job gave me pretty solid sign when I walked by her, whatever ended up checking her out and getting her number there, the ibe got weird but i still got the number and shit so it was all good. The text exchange to set up the date is below.
As you can read it's set up pretty nice and things are way in my favor, now to the next day
In the mean time I'd approached one girl and talked to like three others to kind of keep myself up. When I got to her place I gave her a ring and she let me in, one of her friends was leaving. I'd given Rachael a hug then asked her where her bathroom was cause I needed to take a major piss in those exact words. I went to the bathroom and I didnt say fuck the date because her other roommates from what I could hear were still upstairs and there was another roommate on the floor we were on. So we went to Fomu.
The date
It was a bit rough at first because i feel like we were both a bit nervous, but she offered compliance a lot and I accepted. I had gotten a smoothie she had gotten a tea and cupcake, and she shared the cupcake and we tried each others drink and we both ate the cupcake. Some dialogue below
We'd gotten our stuff and the place was packed when we got in so I'd decided we'd walk, a table near the window opened up as we were leaving so she suggested we sit there and I complied. On the way in I dived about school and her art, and at the shop I dived her about travel, and hobbies and a bit of fluff. As we were finishing up I suggested we get to walking, she still had some cupcake left and wanted to finish it so I told her she can always just shove it all in her mouth... Sexuality began getting positive results cool, then we left.
When we left, I suggested we hang back at her place and watch a movie and chat for a bit. She countered with going on walk and enjoying the outside, I said something about not wanting to be outside due to mosquitoes you know just making shit up, she wanted to go to a park I was like nah, I'd rather be inside. This goes on for a sec and we cross to her place I give her a little by us walking to the end of another street before we turn back. We then go up another street since she didn't want to go home immediately and we loop around to her house. We chill on the front steps for a bit just talking and shit. During the loop we were talking about tv shows, she mentioned how she loved American dad, and I suggested we watch it and she was like her roommate would love it too. I'm just like whatever. So back to the steps we are just talking and a dude shows up, one of her friends we introduce, and she introduces me as her friend, he ends up going into the back to hang with the other dude. We still talk and eventually her roommates come out, four girls. I'm just chilling while they chat and she introduces me as her friend, and these girls want my dick
They mentioned about randomly just going out an i took that as a sign she texted something to them about leaving, so good things are in my favor. We talk about relationships and she's just come out of one and is going with the flow... perfect. We go inside and she is smooth haha she suggests we hang in the living room, whatever we listen to some records and talk and shit. Eventually I get bored of this and asks if she thinks I'm attractive, she says yes and we makeout for a second. She's surprised we are moving so fast, I think I didn't set a proper frame for fast sex earlier so i began setting it now, we talk about slut shaming, i mention that first date sex is usually expected of me otherwise i never see the girl again.
Now here i fuck up, I had completely forgotten about going to her room, the dude that was upstairs came down introduced himself and headed out back, so upstairs where the room's were was completely vacant, I should of tried to pull her upstairs, with something like give me the tour or something but I forgot, I was so focused on getting back to the makout I didn't keep moving things forward because she would kiss then give resistance to something further. It was short makeouts then resistance. Now I had also forgotten about going for the other lips and turning her on so that was another fault. So she was talking about how things are moving fast and I got past that. Her body language was open and I'm pretty sure she was open to intimacy had i tried to go for something more or move things upstairs.
We ended up watching American dad downstairs and shit, with bits of making out, and after American dad she said she had to go to bed, since she had to be up at 8 mind you it was 11:30, I tried to persist in saying it's still early, nights still young, but I didnt want to make a big deal out of it. I made her help pull me up off the couch and we made out a bit. As I was leaving she asked if I knew how to get home, maybe I should of tried something slick but I didn't.
I'd only realized all this stuff after I had left and I was pretty upset with myself, things were lined up for me but I took my eyes off the main goal and placed them on a smaller goal. I don't know if I'll see this girl again after messing all that stuff up. Aside from those fuckups I overcame quite a few of her objections, there was like 4 or 5 just to get back into her house lol, so with that I'm happy. Thanks for reading guys and may we all fuck mad bitches, I know I for one and going to approach way more. I want fucking pussy.
Hey guys... right now I'm pretty fucking upset with myself, like I normally don't get mad at shit like this but I'm fucking steaming there was shit i forgot and didn't do. I overcame a lot tonight and I moved things towards the end goal but I ended up taking my eyes off the main prize (the pussy) and focusing on another pair of lips. Read this shit, I'm posting this so I don't let myself forget, I overcame a ton of shit tonight but i fucking lost out and I feel like a bitch arghhh. Now I'm not mad at her she did nothing wrong, I'm just mad at myself because I fucking know better, and I forgot shit anyway on to the shit.
Texting
Met this girl at my job gave me pretty solid sign when I walked by her, whatever ended up checking her out and getting her number there, the ibe got weird but i still got the number and shit so it was all good. The text exchange to set up the date is below.
(ME)Jun 8, 8:14pm - Cool meeting you Rachael-Raqimus
(HER)Jun 9, 1:00am - Nice meeting you too!
(ME)Jun 10, 9:40pm - Hey Rachael hows it goin! Hopefully you got to enjoy your day. Thinking we should get together soon, when are you free to grab a bite or a drink?
(HER)Jun 11, 5:25pm - Hey Raqimus I ave the day off tomorrow, I've been having a pretty great day yea i slept in super late and have just been chillin with my roomies
(ME)Jun 11 7:40pm - Ok cool, it sounds like your having a really chill day hahaha, to match that how about we grab some ice cream or a shake tomorrow
(HER)Jun 11 7:55pm - That sounds great, there's a Fomu right near my house if you're into that or is there a place you want to go?
(HER)Jun 11 7:59pm - Yea I just went to a local play with my friend so it's been a reaaaally chill day
(ME)Jun 11 8:23pm - Fomu?! Never had it but i'd be interested in trying it, wheres it at?
(HER)Jun 11 9:39pm - It's dairy free ice cream but it's so good it's right near my house, I live in the xxxx/xxxx area right off of xxxx street
(ME)Jun 11 11:23pm - Alright cool, Ill meet you there how does 9pm sound
(HER)Jun 11 11:30pm - Well I have work early Saturday morning so I'm not going to want to be chilling late
(ME)Jun 11 11:42pm - Hahaha who said we'd be chiling late
(HER)Jun 11 11:44pm - I thought 9pm is pretty late for ice cream
(ME) Jun 11 11:46pm - Live a little grandma!
(HER)Jun 11 11:51pm - Oooookaaaaay
(HER)Jun 11 11:52pm -
(ME)Jun 11 11:59pm - A'tta girl
As you can read it's set up pretty nice and things are way in my favor, now to the next day
In the mean time I'd approached one girl and talked to like three others to kind of keep myself up. When I got to her place I gave her a ring and she let me in, one of her friends was leaving. I'd given Rachael a hug then asked her where her bathroom was cause I needed to take a major piss in those exact words. I went to the bathroom and I didnt say fuck the date because her other roommates from what I could hear were still upstairs and there was another roommate on the floor we were on. So we went to Fomu.
The date
It was a bit rough at first because i feel like we were both a bit nervous, but she offered compliance a lot and I accepted. I had gotten a smoothie she had gotten a tea and cupcake, and she shared the cupcake and we tried each others drink and we both ate the cupcake. Some dialogue below
We'd gotten our stuff and the place was packed when we got in so I'd decided we'd walk, a table near the window opened up as we were leaving so she suggested we sit there and I complied. On the way in I dived about school and her art, and at the shop I dived her about travel, and hobbies and a bit of fluff. As we were finishing up I suggested we get to walking, she still had some cupcake left and wanted to finish it so I told her she can always just shove it all in her mouth... Sexuality began getting positive results cool, then we left.
When we left, I suggested we hang back at her place and watch a movie and chat for a bit. She countered with going on walk and enjoying the outside, I said something about not wanting to be outside due to mosquitoes you know just making shit up, she wanted to go to a park I was like nah, I'd rather be inside. This goes on for a sec and we cross to her place I give her a little by us walking to the end of another street before we turn back. We then go up another street since she didn't want to go home immediately and we loop around to her house. We chill on the front steps for a bit just talking and shit. During the loop we were talking about tv shows, she mentioned how she loved American dad, and I suggested we watch it and she was like her roommate would love it too. I'm just like whatever. So back to the steps we are just talking and a dude shows up, one of her friends we introduce, and she introduces me as her friend, he ends up going into the back to hang with the other dude. We still talk and eventually her roommates come out, four girls. I'm just chilling while they chat and she introduces me as her friend, and these girls want my dick
They mentioned about randomly just going out an i took that as a sign she texted something to them about leaving, so good things are in my favor. We talk about relationships and she's just come out of one and is going with the flow... perfect. We go inside and she is smooth haha she suggests we hang in the living room, whatever we listen to some records and talk and shit. Eventually I get bored of this and asks if she thinks I'm attractive, she says yes and we makeout for a second. She's surprised we are moving so fast, I think I didn't set a proper frame for fast sex earlier so i began setting it now, we talk about slut shaming, i mention that first date sex is usually expected of me otherwise i never see the girl again.
Now here i fuck up, I had completely forgotten about going to her room, the dude that was upstairs came down introduced himself and headed out back, so upstairs where the room's were was completely vacant, I should of tried to pull her upstairs, with something like give me the tour or something but I forgot, I was so focused on getting back to the makout I didn't keep moving things forward because she would kiss then give resistance to something further. It was short makeouts then resistance. Now I had also forgotten about going for the other lips and turning her on so that was another fault. So she was talking about how things are moving fast and I got past that. Her body language was open and I'm pretty sure she was open to intimacy had i tried to go for something more or move things upstairs.
We ended up watching American dad downstairs and shit, with bits of making out, and after American dad she said she had to go to bed, since she had to be up at 8 mind you it was 11:30, I tried to persist in saying it's still early, nights still young, but I didnt want to make a big deal out of it. I made her help pull me up off the couch and we made out a bit. As I was leaving she asked if I knew how to get home, maybe I should of tried something slick but I didn't.
I'd only realized all this stuff after I had left and I was pretty upset with myself, things were lined up for me but I took my eyes off the main goal and placed them on a smaller goal. I don't know if I'll see this girl again after messing all that stuff up. Aside from those fuckups I overcame quite a few of her objections, there was like 4 or 5 just to get back into her house lol, so with that I'm happy. Thanks for reading guys and may we all fuck mad bitches, I know I for one and going to approach way more. I want fucking pussy.
