Differences in asking, suggesting, and commanding compliance?
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Literally wrote an article on this a few weeks back. Crazy that you saw how nuanced the distinctions might be! Should be up in the near-ish future 
But here's my hint for now - it's all about attainability and value. Yes, compliance is compliance, but depending on if you ask, suggest, or command, you get value/attainability boosts/hits in varying degrees, depending on if she says yes or no. The higher risk, the higher reward, but she also respects the most brazen type possible (command), so there are universal benefits to going manly man commanding.
Catching my drift? See if you can figure it out with that hint. Lesson are much stronger if you're given one hint then come to the conclusion by yourself.
Hector
But here's my hint for now - it's all about attainability and value. Yes, compliance is compliance, but depending on if you ask, suggest, or command, you get value/attainability boosts/hits in varying degrees, depending on if she says yes or no. The higher risk, the higher reward, but she also respects the most brazen type possible (command), so there are universal benefits to going manly man commanding.
Catching my drift?
See if you can figure it out with that hint. Lesson are much stronger if you're given one hint then come to the conclusion by yourself. Hector
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Right. So you're saying the way you get compliance is a tool to up/lower attainability. Makes sense. If a girl really likes you but you haven't invested much, asking her to do something for you with a smile and touch can help where as commanding her would alienate her more into auto rejection and perhaps develop a bit of scorn for you.
Non verbally getting her to comply would be even lower effort. But what if you pair it up with a smile and a wink? Now you're more attainable with minimal effort.
Higher risk as in commanding her rather than asking? Or as in what you are getting her to comply to?
Respect, but at the cost of auto rejecting her? Plus, I'm sure she'll respect the guy that fucks her 10x more than the guy that was too domineering and auto rejected her. Unless you're saying something else with that sentence?
Does strategically raising your attainability lower your value? Or does it raise her value?
Non verbally getting her to comply would be even lower effort. But what if you pair it up with a smile and a wink? Now you're more attainable with minimal effort.
Higher risk as in commanding her rather than asking? Or as in what you are getting her to comply to?
Respect, but at the cost of auto rejecting her? Plus, I'm sure she'll respect the guy that fucks her 10x more than the guy that was too domineering and auto rejected her. Unless you're saying something else with that sentence?
Does strategically raising your attainability lower your value? Or does it raise her value?
