Moment thats not what she said I translated it wrong. I thought I was low in attainability where she said I’m excited whether you get answer to this, so I gave her an compliment in a non chalant way, because I thought she said because i Teased her a lot before and got kinda cold vibes from her. At this point she also kept things ambiguous trying to make me jealous. After I made the compliment She responded with aww cute and that she didn’t feel offended. But that’s also where I grabbed the frame with a statement (push statement, by being ambiguous like she does it sometimes out of fun and redirecting the compliment, so simply taking away the validation) and stopped responding to her because I felt manipulated. She is extremely good in keeping things ambiguous, but still didn’t give me her schedule after the compliment.Dude she's got the entire frame and you're just her entertainment.
You have to re-establish your frame, by asserting the things you like and don't like, what you will accept and not accept. She might not accept it, but remember when they say you have to be willing to walk away, that means WILLING to walk away, not just pretending.
When a woman says 'that's just part of my personality' when it's something obviously unpleasant, that means it's a) a shit test b) she literally doesn't care or 3) she's a mess, none of which are good for you, and none of which can be solved by accepting the frame.
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