Just Chase talks about disqualifying yourself from being boyfriend material, I believe you should early on disqualify yourself from being just a friend material.
Why should you?
Mainly this is for newer guys with less experience who may not be that good with not displaying that specific kind of value that makes a girl think it's better to not sleep with you in order to make sure you stay in her life or if you're not that good with moving faster and escalating or you're not as smooth/sexual/dominant that a girl would never even think of friend-zoning you.
In the beginning it will help you to say to girls stuff like:
"I don't have time for new friends right now"
or
"I'm super picky about what specific kind of people I'm friends with"
or
"I like you and I won't just be your friend, we either want each other or we don't cross paths again"
Of course you should use your judgement and say it in a way that doesn't sound awkward or rude.
But the point is to make it clear that there is no way you can become friends. It's either you go on a date or you never see each other again.
This is sth I've been doing for the past year but never thought much about it. It's just that when I talk to a girl I want to have sex with her, I don't want to be her friend and don't care much about her as a human being. She's just a sex object, that you need to pretend you care and want to know her, in order to get in her pants.
Why should you?
Mainly this is for newer guys with less experience who may not be that good with not displaying that specific kind of value that makes a girl think it's better to not sleep with you in order to make sure you stay in her life or if you're not that good with moving faster and escalating or you're not as smooth/sexual/dominant that a girl would never even think of friend-zoning you.
In the beginning it will help you to say to girls stuff like:
"I don't have time for new friends right now"
or
"I'm super picky about what specific kind of people I'm friends with"
or
"I like you and I won't just be your friend, we either want each other or we don't cross paths again"
Of course you should use your judgement and say it in a way that doesn't sound awkward or rude.
But the point is to make it clear that there is no way you can become friends. It's either you go on a date or you never see each other again.
This is sth I've been doing for the past year but never thought much about it. It's just that when I talk to a girl I want to have sex with her, I don't want to be her friend and don't care much about her as a human being. She's just a sex object, that you need to pretend you care and want to know her, in order to get in her pants.
