Went on a date. Planned it by asking whether she has watched a recent movie or not. She was more into movie. We haven't called on eachother just texted only. So when she came I broke the ice by saying you finally made it she was late. From text I knew she was very talkative so I just needed to give prompts only. After movie went for the juice. Now I don't want to lay the girl but end up as friends. So didn't tried anything sexual. Also, I just went after the office so wasn't looking that great. She texted me tell when I reach home. I have decided not to tell her want to create something so she can tease me.
Went on a date today from a girl with bumble.
Mostly focused on being social and connection building.
Got this date by first planning for a movie and then not going for the movie with her.
Later told her I have watched the movie.
So, I flaked on her first.
Then checked whether her logistics and seeded the date and framed her as being not trustworthy/ unreliable for flaking on her.
She herself pinged me in the evening.
As soon as I saw her I put my hands on her shoulder she felt a bit uncomfortable but I kept it for sometime and then removed it.
We had chatted up quite a bit so there was some material and call backs.
Kinoed her heavily throughout the date.
She dropped me to my home at the end of the date.
Kissed her impulsively on cheek while getting out of rikshaw.
She sent me message she reached home. I was thinking kissing her was uncalibarated.
But it was relief.
Just made some sexual innoudes here and there.
Couldn't do full blown sex talk. Also, don't have much experience with it I don't think I will make it my main tool as such.
Talked about my adventures like river rafting sky diving etc.
She complimented me on my voice which was unusual.
Mostly focused on being social and connection building.
Got this date by first planning for a movie and then not going for the movie with her.
Later told her I have watched the movie.
So, I flaked on her first.
Then checked whether her logistics and seeded the date and framed her as being not trustworthy/ unreliable for flaking on her.
She herself pinged me in the evening.
As soon as I saw her I put my hands on her shoulder she felt a bit uncomfortable but I kept it for sometime and then removed it.
We had chatted up quite a bit so there was some material and call backs.
Kinoed her heavily throughout the date.
She dropped me to my home at the end of the date.
Kissed her impulsively on cheek while getting out of rikshaw.
She sent me message she reached home. I was thinking kissing her was uncalibarated.
But it was relief.
Just made some sexual innoudes here and there.
Couldn't do full blown sex talk. Also, don't have much experience with it I don't think I will make it my main tool as such.
Talked about my adventures like river rafting sky diving etc.
She complimented me on my voice which was unusual.
Laid the above mentioned girl on 2nd date. Had a feeling while going for meeting her that this night will be pretty long. Didn't felt bad, like I had felt after fucking a fatty. Sex was super good.
Will write details later.
I guess I ended up being too romantic with her. She is catching feelings.
Almost came to losing job but it was worth it.
Will write details later.
I guess I ended up being too romantic with her. She is catching feelings.
Almost came to losing job but it was worth it.
A journal post after a long time. It's a rant. I ended up having unprotected sex with the girl in LR. She didn't took any pills afterwards, didn't forced her too coz, she has some harmonal issue. If she gets pregnant I become a daddy (fuck, seduction career over). If I dodge the bullet then I am only approaching girls 2 points above me and running the wife filter before the sex. I love unprotected sex fuck it. A rant fuck it. Should have been more concious.
I am on a vacation with friends. Total waste of money and time IMO. Made a cold approach while ordering a drink at bar counter some chick came, ordering water. We looked at each other, I passed a smile to her and she smiled back. Bartender didn't paid any attention to her so, I remarked, he seems too busy, she said yes.... Then I made a cold read, chatted up a bit my attention then dozed off. She also got her water and then left.
This was a shitty club couldn't enjoy the music. 35-40% girls rest guys and mostly were in mixed group. Recived a lot of EC.
This was a shitty club couldn't enjoy the music. 35-40% girls rest guys and mostly were in mixed group. Recived a lot of EC.
Had a fun night after long .... Went out with a group of friends... All stags ...
The post is not about me but my friend and how pick up knowledge helped me
Club had good music and slowly scene of dance started.... Before that everyone was sitting.
It was a live band ... We all started vibing and dancing... Band called out my friends dance in front ( Value boost)
I was being social with everyone there.
There was drunk chick (lone wolf ... Came to know about this at end of night) who started vibing with my friend and they both started dancing
I felt ... I wish I was there lol
But then I said fuck it ... Let them enjoy and I started dancing and vibing with my friends.
Now another chick pulled this chick away from my friend after sometime.
Those lone wolfs suddenly gelled well.
(This shows me if approach is low key and you vibe well most people can't tell from outside whether the group came together or formed in the club)
Then this dance went on... I will focus on the friend first ...
This dancing between my friend and the chick and other Chick continued on and off ..
They hugged and other girl tried kissing him...
Either she was looking to get laid or alcohol made her horny.
But my boy didn't pulled the trigger.
Now this vibe broke for sometime and another guy approached her in meantime...
He became very aggressive... Now the girl who had pulled the dancing chick (let's call her DC) earlier pulled her again
This guy tried for 2-3 times very aggressively.
At this moment I recognised this Cock blocking girl needs to go ( let's call her CB)
So after CB pushed the aggressive guy hard I thought I will start dancing with CB so my boy get's a chance with DC.
She didn't took my invite so I continued dancing with my boy sometime.
Then I recognised vibe is dying in club no point dancing anymore I will look like a monkey know so I sat on a chair near the dancing area.
I had sat at this chair before smoking very conspicuously so people see me...
Now opportunity presents itself and these girls come to for a ciggerate.
I didn't had one so I said no paved a way for them while smiling.
After sometime CB comes near my chair alone so I gestured her to come near me...she gives me a sceptical look but I smile and wave again so she comes near me...
Then I ask her to come even closer and ask her u seem like DCs older sister.... She gets puzzled and I say she is a wild child and you are protecting her.
She laughs and says they just met but she likes to take care of broken hearts ....
I say i understand... And make a cold read... U seem like a broken piece too ... She says what do you think I smile and say answer is obvious... Laughing... It's your face ...she smiles back. ... And go again to dance.
Now after sometime they manage to get a ciggerate....
I look at her and gesture for a puff.... She says only one...
Somehow this cigarette reaches me through other people and its over ...
She comes back saying asshole u said only one puff ...
I laugh say something then say I do owe you one ....
Will update rest in some
The post is not about me but my friend and how pick up knowledge helped me
Club had good music and slowly scene of dance started.... Before that everyone was sitting.
It was a live band ... We all started vibing and dancing... Band called out my friends dance in front ( Value boost)
I was being social with everyone there.
There was drunk chick (lone wolf ... Came to know about this at end of night) who started vibing with my friend and they both started dancing
I felt ... I wish I was there lol
But then I said fuck it ... Let them enjoy and I started dancing and vibing with my friends.
Now another chick pulled this chick away from my friend after sometime.
Those lone wolfs suddenly gelled well.
(This shows me if approach is low key and you vibe well most people can't tell from outside whether the group came together or formed in the club)
Then this dance went on... I will focus on the friend first ...
This dancing between my friend and the chick and other Chick continued on and off ..
They hugged and other girl tried kissing him...
Either she was looking to get laid or alcohol made her horny.
But my boy didn't pulled the trigger.
Now this vibe broke for sometime and another guy approached her in meantime...
He became very aggressive... Now the girl who had pulled the dancing chick (let's call her DC) earlier pulled her again
This guy tried for 2-3 times very aggressively.
At this moment I recognised this Cock blocking girl needs to go ( let's call her CB)
So after CB pushed the aggressive guy hard I thought I will start dancing with CB so my boy get's a chance with DC.
She didn't took my invite so I continued dancing with my boy sometime.
Then I recognised vibe is dying in club no point dancing anymore I will look like a monkey know so I sat on a chair near the dancing area.
I had sat at this chair before smoking very conspicuously so people see me...
Now opportunity presents itself and these girls come to for a ciggerate.
I didn't had one so I said no paved a way for them while smiling.
After sometime CB comes near my chair alone so I gestured her to come near me...she gives me a sceptical look but I smile and wave again so she comes near me...
Then I ask her to come even closer and ask her u seem like DCs older sister.... She gets puzzled and I say she is a wild child and you are protecting her.
She laughs and says they just met but she likes to take care of broken hearts ....
I say i understand... And make a cold read... U seem like a broken piece too ... She says what do you think I smile and say answer is obvious... Laughing... It's your face ...she smiles back. ... And go again to dance.
Now after sometime they manage to get a ciggerate....
I look at her and gesture for a puff.... She says only one...
Somehow this cigarette reaches me through other people and its over ...
She comes back saying asshole u said only one puff ...
I laugh say something then say I do owe you one ....
Will update rest in some
I finally sent the break up text. Gave the girl option to remain friends. She blocked me flat out. Writing Never wanting to see me again.
I feel bad. Why life is so fucking hard.
I wish I could keep her forever and pick up at the same time.
She was fucking positive.
I feel bad. Why life is so fucking hard.
I wish I could keep her forever and pick up at the same time.
She was fucking positive.
Fuck there is no good way to break up. Break up at the earliest to reduce the pain and don't look back.
However, i want to say I don't believe in regrets i feel pain sometimes.
I wish my first relationship was over in 3 months i wish I could have stopped it all my force.
2nd I wish i was never gotten into.
Both are incredible women and taught me a lot and were supportive. I have never been able to give them back all they wanted was me for themselves truly.
I think i won't be able to approach anyone for just picking up anymore
Next i will pick up girls only i am ready to marry.
I know many friends lament when being pick that in school they should have dated anyone for experience sake only. I feel though it beneficial for one party other always hurt.
I am sick of breaking up.
I think i will focus on work and building myself in traditional ways.
It doesn't mean pickup don't work opposite it works fucking well.
Its the hurt of separation i can't take anymore and I crave a deep relationship when I meet someone but i tend to get bored very quickly as well.
However, i want to say I don't believe in regrets i feel pain sometimes.
I wish my first relationship was over in 3 months i wish I could have stopped it all my force.
2nd I wish i was never gotten into.
Both are incredible women and taught me a lot and were supportive. I have never been able to give them back all they wanted was me for themselves truly.
I think i won't be able to approach anyone for just picking up anymore
Next i will pick up girls only i am ready to marry.
I know many friends lament when being pick that in school they should have dated anyone for experience sake only. I feel though it beneficial for one party other always hurt.
I am sick of breaking up.
I think i will focus on work and building myself in traditional ways.
It doesn't mean pickup don't work opposite it works fucking well.
Its the hurt of separation i can't take anymore and I crave a deep relationship when I meet someone but i tend to get bored very quickly as well.
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word brother
I felt the same after my last breakup. And I want to be very, very cautious with the next girl. Doesn't mean I can't enjoy myself in the meantime, but have to be very cautious who you get serious with.
Yeah ... A relationship is very enriching experience but it gets boring after 3 months for me.
I think either lay under 2 dates and sex only one time will be good to protect myself and other party from emotional damage or just finding a perfect partner for life time but no in between
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Then maybe you had the wrong girls... I found it everything but boring.
But it's true, the first few months you are still evaluating. I did have a girl who after 1 month I decided i'm not feeling it with her, and broke up. She was very sad, but later thanked me that I told her and didn't cheat on her instead. She found a new boyfriend pretty quick and was fine afterwards. We kept being friends for a while, last I heard was they married and had a baby (that was years ago) so I'm happy for her.
Yeah the thing with is I am high sensation seeking person and at the start of relationship things are very casual and fun and slowly they start to transition towards responsibility and helping and in general sex starts to get boring like dude i have Banged this chick why am I doing it again or whatnot, Let's bang a new chick.
These were very helpful and loyal girls and maybe i do get wrong kind of girls they were too clingy and emotional for my taste. They being emotional makes them care about be and help me Deeply but it gets boring and I can look out for myself.
But by the time it starts to get boring i have invested a lot time and had a lot kf experience with them which makes, helped them a lot breaking up hard
Probably if they were more extroverted
I feel bad for both of my ex's both are introverts and in case of frist ex I was very controlling like a father who she should meet and who she should not and what she needs to wear and what not etc.
In case of 2nd i was controlling initially but then I stopped but she is also very helpful and both don't have friends in the city.
At the same time I don't have time for them due to work and pick up.
I wish they could get their social life going or I could help them to build it but I don't think its practically possible for me to do anything and more so if more I try to help they will become dependent on me.
In case of first one I feel more guilty due to a single fucking reason I hate it absolutely i wish I could change it.
In case of 2nd i was controlling initially but then I stopped but she is also very helpful and both don't have friends in the city.
At the same time I don't have time for them due to work and pick up.
I wish they could get their social life going or I could help them to build it but I don't think its practically possible for me to do anything and more so if more I try to help they will become dependent on me.
In case of first one I feel more guilty due to a single fucking reason I hate it absolutely i wish I could change it.
Bad week. Don't want to fuck my current girl have lost all sexual attraction in her.
Want to. Seduce other girls. Couldn't close the stoner girl. Had sent a text to her she didn't responded so deleted her number and unmatched her on bumble.
I am fucking impatient I want sex on demand and that too not paid sex.
Had 2 matches on Bumble ended up annoying one by being too cheesy i guess so had taken her whatsapp but i gusss she blocked me. She is still on bumble will send a hail mery text on bumble i guess.
Lastly other match can't get her number nor make plan to meet her due to rains ... So basically things suck overall.
Also had fever whole week.
I need to find time to gym and cold approach which don't seem possible with my current job
Want to. Seduce other girls. Couldn't close the stoner girl. Had sent a text to her she didn't responded so deleted her number and unmatched her on bumble.
I am fucking impatient I want sex on demand and that too not paid sex.
Had 2 matches on Bumble ended up annoying one by being too cheesy i guess so had taken her whatsapp but i gusss she blocked me. She is still on bumble will send a hail mery text on bumble i guess.
Lastly other match can't get her number nor make plan to meet her due to rains ... So basically things suck overall.
Also had fever whole week.
I need to find time to gym and cold approach which don't seem possible with my current job
Laid a girl from online. She was basically DTF and only challenge was getting her out of her house. I had to persist a lot.
Had a bit of sex talk on phone so it sealed the deal before hand and did not kept a blanket on bed. Basically I understood she is very easygoing kind of person and but by time we reached on she was tired like we reached at 12:45 and I went to take her at 9:45 or so. So it was 3 hours of travelling and she said she don't have a lot of salary so I had pay for her travel (i know its a genuine case but it ended up being cost like I could have called a prostitute at similar end but seducing a girl is always fun.) when I met her she hugged me very tight and ended up hugging me very tight whole night gagging me.
Her clothes are at my place now. Idk what to take away from this experience but sex was not great and when it started getting better I ended up cumming. Sad experience and she was very petite but her body was very soft not at all firm.
Idk but I am calm now from seducing someone else for next 15 days will focus on career now.
Had a bit of sex talk on phone so it sealed the deal before hand and did not kept a blanket on bed. Basically I understood she is very easygoing kind of person and but by time we reached on she was tired like we reached at 12:45 and I went to take her at 9:45 or so. So it was 3 hours of travelling and she said she don't have a lot of salary so I had pay for her travel (i know its a genuine case but it ended up being cost like I could have called a prostitute at similar end but seducing a girl is always fun.) when I met her she hugged me very tight and ended up hugging me very tight whole night gagging me.
Her clothes are at my place now. Idk what to take away from this experience but sex was not great and when it started getting better I ended up cumming. Sad experience and she was very petite but her body was very soft not at all firm.
Idk but I am calm now from seducing someone else for next 15 days will focus on career now.
I fucked her raw. She said her periods just got over a day before so I cummed inside her only.
Told her she will need to sneak in my house because of my flatmates and that I bring a lot of girls. She ended up boring me with conversation I guess she was horny that night.
Idk i felt a bit empty while seducing her like I knew deal was sealed.
She said I have bad breath (never heard this before from any girl) and we did not kissed. Her body was hairy. She refused to give blow job. Idk man weird experience.
Told her she will need to sneak in my house because of my flatmates and that I bring a lot of girls. She ended up boring me with conversation I guess she was horny that night.
Idk i felt a bit empty while seducing her like I knew deal was sealed.
She said I have bad breath (never heard this before from any girl) and we did not kissed. Her body was hairy. She refused to give blow job. Idk man weird experience.
Went on a date. Did not found the girl attractive i.e. i was catfished. Fuck it and ended up wasting money as well. Dammn and she tried to friendzone. I said I will try cheeky in jest. Then said yeah I also did not got friendly vibes.
