Do or Die

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I have been a girlschase reader from my late teens on and off maybe around 9 years.

But I had my first success 2 years back with a direct approach where I got laid and entered into a beautiful relationship. It was unexpected for me and I commited due to the girls personality.

But I was really sure I want to become a top notch seducer like James bond.

So after around 2 years i cut contact with the girl.

Now I am on the new start.

I was trying to pick up girls while in relationship but It never worked.

Even getting this girl was pure luck for me because she was on a rebound and she is very naive and clingy girl who somehow decided i will take care of her for rest of the life and mutually escalated the seduction and relationship with me.

What helped me most were the mindsets i acquired by reading chase that is prize mentality and being outcome independent.

It was all natural for me with this girl without any technical stuff taught here and just before laying her i made out with a girl for extended period without laying her due to logistics. I opened that girl with a situational opener again opening her was also a pure luck and she was also on rebound. She wanted me more than I wanted her.

I will say gf is 5-6 on 10 and make out girl is 4.
I will consider myself as 6-7 with my current condition and I can be a 8 with efforts.

Week chin and no beard ah. I have grown a belly and muscle to fat ratio is above 22%

I have been very socially awkward since highschool. I was not able to gel up with kids during highschool and had a very religious up bringing, so I afraid what if my parents see me with a girl. I am from India.

Now after moving out I will try approached a girls a lot after moving to a metro during these past 2 years.

I am going to write next about my approaches and these last 2 since here i developed a lot socially.

Also, I will write a bit about my highschool days and fear and insecurities.

I am doing this because I want to become an upper intermidate in next to years and I want to develope a best plan of action for it.

 

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My fears/weakness are i don't have a very good voice.

I don't do well in group situations. I am an introvert i guess or shy idk.

Lack of stamina, in general I have hard time focusing on things as well even I sports I am kind of good at if i focus. In general I am not very tuned with my body. ( But I have managed to give my gf orgasm with my dick, she cums quickly and she was very much in love with me, orgasm were sure if she was on top and if I was top if i wanted to give her I used stop and do it and stop and do it or used to keep doing it even after cuming.)

Last is my dick ( 4 inch).and balls are small.

I am very sensitive emotionally, prone to crying and physically as well, soft skin easily bleeds.

I score very low on conscientious in general. I mostly get attached to people and feel bad for doing something bad to them but I will still try to avoid work and contribute to group. I am trying to change this and build discipline in me. ( I took mantra of never hurt a girl to heart and my gf is the only person for whom I have been very remorseful)

My strength is confidence and lack of fear or i just do things at whims. This is how I have done most of my approaches.

I can be very manipulative to get what I want. Though I end up regretting my actions a lot. I am not able a bring up my manipulative side these days like I used to earlier

 

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Forgot to add shameless as a strength. It's because of my dad he score very high on dark triad and he is not at all remorseful. He ends up blaming others or destiny and does not overthink. But he is a one women man for sure.

 

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I will outline my tonight's outing since it is fresh in my mind and then older approaches.

I was very horny and wanted to meet my gf but ended up fighting her then i ended up masterbating. I was dilemma whether to go out or sleep but I decide to go out sole reason I want to get laid with new girls very badly.

I went to a pub it's a very chill place with games, every one drinks here while sitting on chair, no one drinks on the bar counter standing (esp girls) and every one comes in atleast in a pair of two but majorly there are mix group of 4 or more. These groups can't be approached. I went with a friend. I see a group of 3 girls sitting outside. I want an outside sitting only but I don't get one.
Getting outside sitting means I can approch girls by asking them for a lighter.
I end up sitting inside in a very bad spot.

 

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I find it a problem to approach enough number of girls per week. mostly right schedule and lack of available sets. But I am pretty much confident complimenting girls. I will try to give atleast 1 compliment to a girl each day for next 15 days. After doing this I will try to exchange number or connect on insta.

 

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Apart from this I carry smokes and ask for light from girls in pubs and all. I will now make it a habit to say a loud thank you and give a compliment in Just noticed way.

 

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Will think of next steps after doing this enough, though mostly my problem is hooking and transitioning i know. I am preety confident if i manage to get a date then I will lay the girl.

 

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Another area I need to work on is building comfort quickly

 

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And finding enough venues where I can approach 4-5 sets on regular basis

 

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Today I noticed i have problem holding eye contact with girls.
Getting my gf and that one make out was purely luck.
There was a beautiful girl in train I did not sit next to her. Next time I will make sure to sit beside a girl if I see that space empty and make convo.
If not that atleast eye contact Nd a smile. I just feel will look like dofus like why is he smiling way but fuck it

 

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Today I felt anxiety for first time lol ... There was a beautiful women walking i had a compliment for her ... But I couldn't say it to her ... Normaly I would have said it and walked away after that ... Like i can't book further after compliment but I never had anxiety I used to spam when I saw someone genuinely beautiful but today I gave excuses to myself like i am tired maybe next girl ... Idk why this happened also I am feeling kind of desparation like I have only 2 years now I don't have that infinite time i will grow old ... Need to figure out a way to break these things ... Office is sucking too much of life need to learn to manage work

 

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Feeling desparate I want an ugly chick whom I can bang regularly with her own home

 

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Made one approach today a girl was glued to her phone on the street ... Was wearing a nice outfit. .. just went to her said hi ... She was startled i said ur outfit is very nice ... She made some face but ejected as soon as I said it ...need to fix this ... I go blank after complimenting ... But I am happy atleast i overcame my AA and went into impulsive whatever mode.

Made another approach in movie theater ... There were 2 girls I thought they are looking at me they were going ahead of me then I felt they are discussing or checking me out ... I made a comment on something written on her jacket when I came near her earshot... she said it's long story I said tell in short and became silent ... She said something I asked where they are from they asked about me but went blank and ejected from the set... I love situational openers

 

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Went to bar today with friends approached 2 girls, thought both are given me IOIs first a set of 2 girls walking out the bar, I ran behind her gotten sideways to her and said hi, she looked at me I told her I like your frame she looked a bit confused, I said laughingly "i mean ur specs" (she was wearing glasses) the idk i said something more then I went for a handclasp she holding something she moved her hand forward then we ended up doing fist punch with each other over all approch was awkward (my friend suggested the opener) idk maybe I should either opened sooner or later but not at the gate and should have tried to engage her more.

2nd approach I was dancing and i thought a girl is trying to look at me ... She was with a bodybuilder type guy who was her bf. Went his bf went away i hovered around and said to her ur eyes are very pretty but she asked me what with a dull voice ... I repeated my opener again and she made a meh/whatever/ get lost kinda face

I started dancing again ... I felt very afraid feeling I might get beaten overall it was a dumb move...

There was another group of 3 girls ... 2 girls were there when I entered and were dancing with sandals open ... Must have been drunk and came to enjoy fully ... Idk how should I have opened her ... Seemed out of league.

When I was coming home a fight broke after club closed between 2 group of guy I guess over some girls it was very violent ... Need to be aware about this

 

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I had some office work on weekend which I procrastinated for 2 days and then I ended up jerking off ... unlikey I will go out today sad more for not doing work then masturbating

 

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Approached 2 sets direct couldn't move beyond opener, i need to learn how approach while everyone is sitting saw a guy do it high chance he is a natural

 

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I am very hedonistic but this seduction I want to do for achivement as well. This office is taking a lot of fucking time of mine. Like I go to office at and 8 and leave at 8 man that's 12-14 hours don't know how to find time to game but still. I try yesterday I approached to sets on the street but ejected quickly will try to remain calm from now on. Since I am not proud on my voice and it's not best I know objectively i prefer opening in more silent places where I know it will be heard properly.

Anyways I noticed a particular girl going at her work at a particular time and I decided i will sit next to her she had her bag i initially thought of opening her with a different opener but ended up opening her with thanks ... Situation was like that and since it was a 25 min journey i thought I will play it slow and with clam. When I opened she smiled we were sitting side by side I had observed she is pretty busy in her phone usually so I did the and after sometime I made a cold read thought it a day before. I need to work on my presence of mind and immediate anyways saw her touching her hair etc from side of my eye thought everything is green ... Then made the cold read had a bit small talk ... In india I think before sexyness I need to focus on comfort then add it so discussed about safe topic of work then again let the convo die ... Then after sometime made a cold read and had 3-4 topics in mind already so I don't get stuck after opening again and then convo proceeded ... After work i directed it to her hobbies etc. ... Couldn't deep dive ... Will do that tomorrow. Overall it's a progress and she is hottest girl I have talked with cold approach and had this long convo till now. Thinking about using eliciting values from Chase 8 questions and making a plan for a high point and getting her... will try to through a chase frame or 2 perfect for a weekend if I am able to get a date.

 

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I need to be calm keep presence of mind and i know good thing will happen to me

 

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It was a waste of day ... Missed train by a minute and couldn't meet the chick I met yesterday. Approached a girl probably a 4-5 she was wearing super cool trouser commented on it she said yes ... Then I asked her from where she brought it while walking and one more question to hook she somehow became nervous ...later went out at night with 2 friends I wish I had some natural friends these guys are very good people but not good with girls on whole unproductive evening zero approach drinked a beer and smoke 2 cigs and these girls come so dressed up hard to approach ... Only good thing is I hit the gym and got a haircut

 

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Approached chick today ... Didn't took her number but found a technique for taking number of she is interested need to field test it now. Eg her profession is lawyer ... Whats ur number number in case I need a bail ... Or if doctor then ur number if I get sick.

I will do this if natural opportunity to exchange number does not arise and convo is dying so it's best to walk away