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Last month I got the numbers of a girl who is 2 grades below me, but still the same age as me. A few years ago she told me that she had a crush on me but I turned her down and told her it was because I liked her as a friend.
Once I got her digits though, she texted me everyday (to this day).
Since I've been receiving heavy rejections from other girls I didn't want to lose her by being too cold on her because having at least one girl who liked me seemed to make me feel as though I wasn't completely alone. So I've been replying back to her.
However, 2 days ago, without me asking for it at all, she sent me a pic of her in lingerie.
Last week we scheduled a meet up for tomorrow. But now I'm a bit worried though because I always thought that girls weren't supposed to be this forward.
Is this behaviour normal or is she just a bit crazy?
Keep in mind that she's told me countless times that she's still a virgin.
I wouldn't mind dating her, but I just wanna make sure I'm not making the mistake of banging somebody who could go ape-shit-insane when I end up breaking things off with her.
There have been cases where girls were forward towards me and I just shrugged their actions off as them being "crazy" or "she's just making fun of me".
Like some other time when a girl who was always acting cold towards me just out of nowhere sat on my lap when we were alone. (she then got off and laughed). And another girl who acted cold towards me in one moment and then made a 180 and spoke to me as though her and I were bffs.
Are these types of behaviour normal, or were they just special cases? And this girl who send me her nude pics, was that a normal thing to do. And if I become a sexier man, is this type of behaviour something that I should expect?
I'm getting the feeling that the reason why I always pushed off physical intimacy is because I couldn't tell whether or not this was an actual thing that girls liked or not. Based on the above examples I gave, I always thought that the girls were acting either playful or just crazy.
Was I wrong or were these actual displays of attraction that I was supposed to act on?
Last month I got the numbers of a girl who is 2 grades below me, but still the same age as me. A few years ago she told me that she had a crush on me but I turned her down and told her it was because I liked her as a friend.
Once I got her digits though, she texted me everyday (to this day).
Since I've been receiving heavy rejections from other girls I didn't want to lose her by being too cold on her because having at least one girl who liked me seemed to make me feel as though I wasn't completely alone. So I've been replying back to her.
However, 2 days ago, without me asking for it at all, she sent me a pic of her in lingerie.
Last week we scheduled a meet up for tomorrow. But now I'm a bit worried though because I always thought that girls weren't supposed to be this forward.
Is this behaviour normal or is she just a bit crazy?
Keep in mind that she's told me countless times that she's still a virgin.
I wouldn't mind dating her, but I just wanna make sure I'm not making the mistake of banging somebody who could go ape-shit-insane when I end up breaking things off with her.
There have been cases where girls were forward towards me and I just shrugged their actions off as them being "crazy" or "she's just making fun of me".
Like some other time when a girl who was always acting cold towards me just out of nowhere sat on my lap when we were alone. (she then got off and laughed). And another girl who acted cold towards me in one moment and then made a 180 and spoke to me as though her and I were bffs.
Are these types of behaviour normal, or were they just special cases? And this girl who send me her nude pics, was that a normal thing to do. And if I become a sexier man, is this type of behaviour something that I should expect?
I'm getting the feeling that the reason why I always pushed off physical intimacy is because I couldn't tell whether or not this was an actual thing that girls liked or not. Based on the above examples I gave, I always thought that the girls were acting either playful or just crazy.
Was I wrong or were these actual displays of attraction that I was supposed to act on?
