Do you approach every girl!?

[average_daygamer]

I just came back from daygame and scored a modest 6 or 7 approaches when the high street was bustling.

But silly things put me off like "oh, she's got lip fillers" or if I turn around to see them from behind "oh, her shoulders are too narrow" or "Oh, her face isn't that pretty" and instinctually I know I am right.

Yet other people would accuse me of excuse making when I bet I put in more effort than most people on this board.

The difference is, I am selective and working out probabilities of atleast a "thank you" from the compliment based on the appearance of the girl based on previous approaching experience.

I also don't find that many of the girls attractive that I see and the majority of approaches are just for the sake of practice.

This does mean that the majority of h approaches are not very genuine as well, which could be affecting my results in terms of the warmth of reception I get.

 

[KnownUniverse]

yeah I approach all types because I'm trying to improve my abilities.

 

[James D]

The difference is, I am selective and working out probabilities of atleast a "thank you" from the compliment based on the appearance of the girl based on previous approaching experience.

Do you mean you make a guess if she's likely to respond well to your compliment based on her appearance and previous approaches?

If so, I don't think there's a realistic way to do that unless she's giving clear fuck off signals (even then, a sincere compliment can melt an ice queen into a pussycat)

also don't find that many of the girls attractive that I see and the majority of approaches are just for the sake of practice.

That's normal.

You're not gonna be very excited by every girl you encounter.

But does that mean you don't find that many girls bangable?

Cuz for me, as long as a girl is bangable, i.e. I wouldn't mind having her in bed, then she's fair game for approach practice.

Doesn't mean she's my dream girl but if the approach goes well and I'd totally be down for having fun with her in bed, then it's a genuine approach and it's great for practice.

If she's not bangable then obviously no approach.

And agreed with @KnownUniverse , approaching for the sake of improving your abilities is a worthwhile goal.

There's so much that goes into approaching like handling the environment, correct angle, not startling her or being creepy, having a normal social conversation, etc

You need enough volume to build those skills and that might mean not always approaching your dream girl.

But if she's bangable, she's still great for practice.