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Outside of something like celebrity status.
It seems like men are the ones who have to make the creative online dating profiles, perfect the art of cold approaching, and do everything on their end with the hopes of scoring. Even the advice out there that says "there is more to life than pussy" is given by PUAs who spam approach a ton of women while giving that sort of advice. I feel as if so much advice in regards to helping men get better with women preaches about trying to be alpha and ignore women yet encourages men to approach a ton of new women, it doesn't line up.
What I do wonder is some of the advice that tells men to be the best version of themselves through finances, lifting, and life purpose. I wonder if men who have their shit together ever actually get to a point in life where meeting women is more of a part of their life or something that just happens as opposed to having to go out of their way to do it.
Traditional advice plays up this image of making it big as a guy by being wealthier and fixing your life then somehow, out of nowhere, the girl of your dream comes along.
Who is actually right here though, the pick up artists that tell you to approach 100+ girls or society that tells you to be become successful on paper to where girls come to you.
What I actually wonder is if you ever get to a point in your life where you get good enough on paper to where women come to you and you don't have to worry about online dating hurdles or doing a ton of approaches.
Take this path for instance.
You have a guy who spent his teenage years and 20s building value but he never really spent much time doing a ton of approaches or making the best tinder profile. As time went on, the fruits of his labor came. He became wealthier on paper and maybe he brought himself fancier shit like a better apartment or nicer car.
Then he hit the gym and got better looking.
Along the way he never bothered with approaching random women or perfecting online dating which becomes a bigger deal every year.
Does it ever get to a point where that guy still has women coming to him even though he isn't actively looking for any partners?
Like what would life hypothetically be like for that guy who remained single in his 30s, just focused on his life purpose which did not involve women, got better over time, but never really bothered with chasing women.
It seems like men are the ones who have to make the creative online dating profiles, perfect the art of cold approaching, and do everything on their end with the hopes of scoring. Even the advice out there that says "there is more to life than pussy" is given by PUAs who spam approach a ton of women while giving that sort of advice. I feel as if so much advice in regards to helping men get better with women preaches about trying to be alpha and ignore women yet encourages men to approach a ton of new women, it doesn't line up.
What I do wonder is some of the advice that tells men to be the best version of themselves through finances, lifting, and life purpose. I wonder if men who have their shit together ever actually get to a point in life where meeting women is more of a part of their life or something that just happens as opposed to having to go out of their way to do it.
Traditional advice plays up this image of making it big as a guy by being wealthier and fixing your life then somehow, out of nowhere, the girl of your dream comes along.
Who is actually right here though, the pick up artists that tell you to approach 100+ girls or society that tells you to be become successful on paper to where girls come to you.
What I actually wonder is if you ever get to a point in your life where you get good enough on paper to where women come to you and you don't have to worry about online dating hurdles or doing a ton of approaches.
Take this path for instance.
You have a guy who spent his teenage years and 20s building value but he never really spent much time doing a ton of approaches or making the best tinder profile. As time went on, the fruits of his labor came. He became wealthier on paper and maybe he brought himself fancier shit like a better apartment or nicer car.
Then he hit the gym and got better looking.
Along the way he never bothered with approaching random women or perfecting online dating which becomes a bigger deal every year.
Does it ever get to a point where that guy still has women coming to him even though he isn't actively looking for any partners?
Like what would life hypothetically be like for that guy who remained single in his 30s, just focused on his life purpose which did not involve women, got better over time, but never really bothered with chasing women.
You won't always get what you want. Often it is a mainstream thing, like going all the way but not all the way, a covert incest thing.