Being in state is huge when cold approaching. It CAN be done out of state (feeling introverted, in my head, anxious) but the results are way better when I’m calm, grounded, and present. Most dates that I get with girls I get while in this latter state. What gives me anxiety though, is that I can’t predict what state I’ll be in when I see the girl for an actual date. Just setting up the date gives me anxiety as I try to predict what mood I’ll be in when we meet.
How have you guys handled this issue, and is this even a problem most guys experienced?
How have you guys handled this issue, and is this even a problem most guys experienced?
