Does Anyone Else Become Extremely Depressed When You Cannot Go Clubbing?

[SexNotValidation]

It's currently just past 1 AM in my city and for the first time in years I did not go out tonight.

I experienced a major financial setback earlier today and it would be very irresponsible for me to spend money on anything at this time that is not absolutely essential.

Until my financial situation improves I have no choice but to focus on daygame and tinder since they are both 100% free.

I literally cannot remember the last Friday night before tonight that I did not go clubbing.

I'm feeling very depressed right now as I type this.

Since 2013 I've literally gone clubbing 2-7 times a week, every week.

I'm creating this thread because I'm wondering if you guys can provide insight as to what this means about me psychologically.

Why am i feeling such strong negative emotions right now?

Is this a good thing?

Or it means something is wrong with me psychologically?

Does this mean I'm addicted to going clubbing and the emotions I'm feeling right now are similar to withdrawal symptoms
a drug addict would experience their first day clean?

Have any of of you had similar experiences?

 

[Zanardi]

Since 2013 I've literally gone clubbing 2-7 times a week, every week.

I admire your stamina!

Seriously now, I don't think you're addicted or there is something wrong with you. You had created a habit and it's hard to shake it off.

 

[Pelusita]

Hey man,

Teevster asked me to respond to your post because we have been discussing this topic for a long time. I go out every weekend and practice pickup both friday and saturday. When i for some reason is hindered to go out it feels bad. Why is this happening?

For me pickup is a lifestyle and a way of living. I also love fucking new hot girls and love the exitement and the thrill of the chase. It’s such a rush to my system that i just can’t live without it.

Right now you need to deal with your financial situation but most importantly you need to reassess why you do pickup on a deeper level. Why do you go out? To quench a insatiable sexdrive? A hunger to conquer the world or just feeling appreciated and the need to feel loved? Difficult questions you need to sort out now that you can’t go out as much as you did previously.

Glad to answer any questions.
Pelusita aka Pablo Garcia

 

[Skills]

No is normal to feel like that when you don't go out pelusita reason sounds about right. With that being said I still don't get going clubbing with money and the waiting for specific financial situation. I have gone out and still go out without spending any money.

 

[SexNotValidation]

Hey man,

Teevster asked me to respond to your post because we have been discussing this topic for a long time. I go out every weekend and practice pickup both friday and saturday. When i for some reason is hindered to go out it feels bad. Why is this happening?

For me pickup is a lifestyle and a way of living. I also love fucking new hot girls and love the exitement and the thrill of the chase. It’s such a rush to my system that i just can’t live without it.

Right now you need to deal with your financial situation but most importantly you need to reassess why you do pickup on a deeper level. Why do you go out? To quench a insatiable sexdrive? A hunger to conquer the world or just feeling appreciated and the need to feel loved? Difficult questions you need to sort out now that you can’t go out as much as you did previously.

Glad to answer any questions.
Pelusita aka Pablo Garcia

Why do you go out?

To try to find a girl to have sex with.

A hunger to conquer the world or just feeling appreciated and the need to feel loved?

None of the above.

Not at all.

I go out to look for a girl to have sex with.

Perhaps, there are other unconscious factors that are pushing me to go clubbing so much but consciously the only goal i have every time i go out is to fuck a girl by the end of the night.

 

[SexNotValidation]

No is normal to feel like that when you don't go out pelusita reason sounds about right. With that being said I still don't get going clubbing with money and the waiting for specific financial situation. I have gone out and still go out without spending any money.

It's actually one single cost stopping me.

The cost of the uber back home at the end of the night.

I live about a $20 uber ride away from the nightlife area.

I can take the bus to go there for only $3-$4 but coming back the only option is taxi or uber.

So yes i literally cannot go out because of the $20 uber ride back home

And yes my financial situation at this time is so bad that spending this $20 would be extremely irresponsible.

 

[Skills]

It's actually one single cost stopping me.

The cost of the uber back home at the end of the night.

I live about a $20 uber ride away from the nightlife area.

I can take the bus to go there for only $3-$4 but coming back the only option is taxi or uber.

So yes i literally cannot go out because of the $20 uber ride back home

And yes my financial situation at this time is so bad that spending this $20 would be extremely irresponsible.

oh my bad, ok so you don't drive a car, got you... so yes in this case you are right... You will have to relay on wings/friends in this case or stay and sleep in the bus stop if you do not pull then take the bus back...

 

[SexNotValidation]

oh my bad, ok so you don't drive a car, got you... so yes in this case you are right... You will have to relay on wings/friends in this case or stay and sleep in the bus stop if you do not pull then take the bus back...

no i do not even know how to drive; i never learned.

I do not have any friends or wings.

I started out going out with other guys but very quickly stopped as i saw no benefit so for the past 5+ years i go out alone.

regarding sleeping at the bust stop, clubs close at 2 AM here and start around 5 or 6 AM and its freezing cold here.

I would probably freeze to death waiting for the bus after the club.

so yeah I'm going to have to do daygame and online for now.

 

[naturalmikey]

you may be more depressed about your financial situation. i’m tired as fuck and probably won’t go out and i’m totally cool with it.

 

[Mr.Suave]

It’s natural to feel sad when something is perceived to diminish your survival&replication value. The feeling is a system response from the genes to push you to take another way. These feeling aren’t always the cue for what is the best next action for you. They are the response system to your old tribal brain and the preinstalled data that was given to you. This data needs to be managed in a rational way for the new landscape and ever changing arena the tribal brain faces. It means to reflect and consider your feelings as a good indication but not the final answer. In the end they need to be dealt with in a rational way if it’s an important topic.

 

[theodous]

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