Does getting women feel easy to you?

[ocantu1987]

I was talking to my dad last night and he has history with alot of woman when he lived in mexico. He tells me getting women is the easiest thing you can do. I think opposite haha at my current level I feel it is tough, I still feel I have lots to learn. What do you guys think?

 

[Estate]

If you don't care much about what type of women... yes, it's the easiest thing in the world.

If you become more selective then it gets a little harder, but it's different, you're actually just ignoring the girls you don't want and working harder to get the ones you do.
With practice and patients though, it becomes very easy.

 

[Jeet02]

It comes down to the mentality too. "Whether you think you can or you can't, you are probably right". Basically having that mentality of "I can get any woman I want" is readable, the girls can "sense" that. If you go out there with that mentality is 'cause you have something going for you, because you don't give an F...that's what attracts women. So it is a self fulfilling prophecy. If you think you can't get any woman you want, then they will sense that, they will smell it on you and no...you won't be able to get them.

Makes sense?

-Jeet

 

[Estate]

Jeet, it absolutely does make sense.

Guys who struggle to "get" this often don't see this. It sounds all mystical like "The Secret" or some other crap, just saying "Be positive and it will happen".
But it's ot some magic force of the universe... it's just the fact that when you REALLY are happy, confident, having a good time, it radiates from you in the way you greet and speak to people. If you're shy or down on yourself, even when faking it, people notice, you can't REALLY just turn it on as you approach a girl if she's seem you hunched over and looking sad for the past hour in the bar... but if you are confidently talking to everyone in the room, she sees there must be something to you.

 

[Jeet02]

Exactly. That's why when guys have a girlfriend, girls approach him a lot more and a lot more responsive because he is radiating that attitude. It's the "I am not needy, I am already set" attitude. Which is what girls like. If a guy all of a sudden doesn't pay her the attention she is used to, she knows this guy is different.

Easier said than done, I'll admit...but yeah!

 

[TheWiseFool]

If I approach a woman like Juan Antonio (please watch 2 minute video) --> http://movieclips.com/RbsE-vicky-cristina-barcelona-movie-an-invitation/, then am I exercising abundance mentality or is this just too forward. I should try this... but I think it is too ridiculous for it too work. The guy doesn't give a damn about rules. He is straightforward in his sexual interest, logical in reasons as to why they should come, fast, and he is not dependent on the outcome. He gives them time to think about it.

- The Wise Fool

 

[trashKENNUT]

ocantu1987,

I was talking to my dad last night and he has history with alot of woman when he lived in mexico. He tells me getting women is the easiest thing you can do. I think opposite haha at my current level I feel it is tough, I still feel I have lots to learn. What do you guys think?

I am sure your dad was good with women in Mexico. I found out that Getting reactions is easy, Getting results? That differs, because sometimes outside elements come into play. and i personally say, logistic is everything. Not exactly everything but it's most of it.

Zac

 

[NaturallySmooth]

I've found that its easier to get women abroad so maybe your dad was right.. like WAY easier to the point where every other night that I went out i'd be pretty sure of pulling a girl.

To me it's all about having something unique about yourself. To me when i was abroad i was an 'american' which made girls attracted. When i visit another city I am also unique because i'm not from there. Ultimately, I try to always think of something different about me from all of the other guys wherever i am. For some reason this makes me A LOT more confident and once you're confident, as other ppl have said, everything is so easy

 

[Ryan]

God no, but who knows, with time...

 

[metomeya]

Ya, foreign girls abroad are generally much easier.

The site Happier Abroad is all about it:
http://www.happierabroad.com/film.php

This guy banged almost 100 girls in under 6 months by going to foreign countries:
http://www.rooshv.com/how-one-man-banged-96-girls-in-5-months


Personally, I'm just not physically attracted to foreign girls abroad. It is odd. I find almost all asian american girls very attractive (if they were raised here), but the ones abroad I find repulsive 95% of the time.

 

[Ryan]

This is a slight detour from the original thread, but metomeya had an interesting reply above.

Personally, I'm just not physically attracted to foreign girls abroad. It is odd. I find almost all asian american girls very attractive (if they were raised here), but the ones abroad I find repulsive 95% of the time.

Really? It's the opposite for me. I love foreign girls from abroad with an accent, but have no opinion of/dislike girls raised in England. They lose their allure, mystery, culture and unique outlook in life (and i don't like most English accents on girls!).


With your other point, too be honest (i don't want to insult south-east asian girls, but i probably will), going to South-east asia for the sex seems like the cheap way out. You hear so many stories about middle-aged, dull, fat, western men having sex with young and pretty south-east asian girls, then that doesn't really shine a good light on south-east asian women, nor do i see them in a particularly favourable light because of this.

Maybe i'm being unfair. I just haven't met many south-east asian girls though, so there you go.

 

[metomeya]

I guess when I say foreign, I mean anyone not from the USA. Of course, foreign for you would include girls from here.

I might be bias being from the states, but I feel we have the best looking girls...on average. There maybe girls from other countries as or even hotter (have you seen some of those latino girls?), but we seem to have more of them which brings our overall average up. It might just seem this way to me because of where I'm located in the US. We also seem to have a ton of above average girls, where other countries seem to have more average or below average girls. Again, I might be wrong here, but just my limited experience.

That being said, I do love some of the girls that come from Europe (Czech, Sweden...I could probably name a ton of countries here) and Latin American countries.

Southeast Asia just disappoints me so much. Again, we have so many hot asian and half-asian girls here I thought Asia would be heaven.

 

[Ryan]

I guess it's a matter of personal taste with such things. I've always thought many white American girls were very pretty, especially from the south and south-west like California and Texas.

For me, i would rank it like this:

1. Italy
2. Iran
3. Lithuania/Latvia/Estonia
4. China
5. Syria/Turkey
...
23. South Korea
...
79. Gambia
...
162. United Kingdom

 

[metomeya]

I guess it's a matter of personal taste with such things. I've always thought many white American girls were very pretty, especially from the south and south-west like California and Texas.

You know the United States very well my friend. Love those women!