Staying w/ a girl for a few months and not paying any rent, so I'm trying to make sure I don't get kicked out
does it look weak/desperate to always immediately volunteer to do some household task for her even not when asked
some dishes -> "I got it, *walks over and starts cleaning"
not asked about cleaning toilet, but toilet is mentioned at some point -> "I'll clean the toilet, where are the cleaning supplies?"
she casually mentions some kind of task she needs in a convo -> immedaitly jumping on it "I got it, when do you need me to do it?"
Like I am wondering if I continually very quickly jump onto volunteering to do these tasks this could set the wrong tone, I am not sure a high value guy would be so eager and fast to volunteer to do household tasks
How should you say it/go about it?
does it look weak/desperate to always immediately volunteer to do some household task for her even not when asked
some dishes -> "I got it, *walks over and starts cleaning"
not asked about cleaning toilet, but toilet is mentioned at some point -> "I'll clean the toilet, where are the cleaning supplies?"
she casually mentions some kind of task she needs in a convo -> immedaitly jumping on it "I got it, when do you need me to do it?"
Like I am wondering if I continually very quickly jump onto volunteering to do these tasks this could set the wrong tone, I am not sure a high value guy would be so eager and fast to volunteer to do household tasks
How should you say it/go about it?