So I'm at a family reunion. All my family people I've never known are here and I've been socializing to the fullest all night. All family I haven't known I have their contact, I'm talking about me moving between 60+ persons.
Now there is this cute girl that I've known for awhile . She is the tenant of my grandma. She keeps avoiding me and I think she is playing hard to get.
Let's go back to 2015. Remember the story with Malika, there was a LR at my grandmas house and my grandmas tenant was there, this " hard to get girl ". Her name is Antonia. When I was outside kissing up Malika ( PS. I wish I didn't have to bring her back up but this information is crucial), on the verandah in 2015, Antonia was on the verandah too and I think she was jealous. She kept commenting " why are you looking at me? " which caused me to look at her while taking breaks between kissing Malika. Later that day when I banged Malika, Antonia was the one to bust my ass by picklocking the door. That was completely unnecessary, the rest of the story I don't need to tell. Antonia was clearly jealous that day, haha probably because she wanted to be fucking me.
Note this though, even before Antonia gave me the cold shoulder. I'd talk to her for a minute and the next she would walk away. I'd see her around the house and say " hi " and all she did was walk and wave.
So today in afternoon I decided to ignore her and befriend her little sister (10 years old) and her friend and Mom. And it worked. I did such a good job talking on stage in front of 200 + persons that I was instantly " known " by family who did not know me.
I had it going today, everyone wanted to speak to me, even Antonia's little sister was asking me to play with her ( and I did) lol a bit of jokes, I adore talking to kids.
Antonia is 17, she seems a bit antisocial, she avoided talking to my family, when everyone was socializing she was either sitting alone looking bored, running back to her room ( she claims to not like crowds... Actually there were about 60+ people). She only talked to the little kids and her Mom.
Ariana, her little sister, I asked " why is your sister like that? ". Her reply " she's just usually a bitch , but underneath she wants attention ".
My best friend Shadean, Ramone her boyfriend and my coworker Shabba all commented that Antonia kept staring at me when I wasn't looking . They said " I just feel that energy ,you know when two people like each other, others can sense it " Even my family could sense that Antonia likes me, her sister gave us space and sometimes pulled me near to her Antonia.
Gc bros I find it strange that she keeps cutting the conversation short . But she looks at me from a distance as if to say " come talk to me ". Hey I'm not making this up, it's others who told me this. I walk away the next time she does this and start talking to my little cute cousin, and Antonia shows up and picks up my little cousin and tells her " don't talk to him, he is evil ".
I avoid talking to Antonia once more but she repeats telling my same cousin " don't talk to him.... ".
I was confused so I called over Antonia, took her by the hand and walked 20 metres before talking " ( laughing ) why are you trying to playfully push me away... You don't like me don't you "
I said that very playfully and her response was " I don't like you like that, only as merely a friend "
And she walks away . I hold her hand and pull back, she pushes again so I let her go.
Strangely I have another family member come and whisper " she likes you Troy , it's just you not doing the right thing. You have to know how to get around that girls head. You can get her ,she digs you, just playing hard to get ".
Same time I use my peripheral vision and there she is looking at me. WTF? Go guys you think she likes me? It's like when I'm away she wants to get close but when I'm close she wants to get away. My family and friends think she totally digs me, they feel the vibe and come on 6+ persons who came to me individually can't be so wrong.
So what's the best strategy to get Antonia talking to me? I managed to use a lot of touch today while we were in the bus, I had her feet all over my lap. She sucked her fingers. Should I avoid her and just win over everyone even more?
Troy
Now there is this cute girl that I've known for awhile . She is the tenant of my grandma. She keeps avoiding me and I think she is playing hard to get.
Let's go back to 2015. Remember the story with Malika, there was a LR at my grandmas house and my grandmas tenant was there, this " hard to get girl ". Her name is Antonia. When I was outside kissing up Malika ( PS. I wish I didn't have to bring her back up but this information is crucial), on the verandah in 2015, Antonia was on the verandah too and I think she was jealous. She kept commenting " why are you looking at me? " which caused me to look at her while taking breaks between kissing Malika. Later that day when I banged Malika, Antonia was the one to bust my ass by picklocking the door. That was completely unnecessary, the rest of the story I don't need to tell. Antonia was clearly jealous that day, haha probably because she wanted to be fucking me.
Note this though, even before Antonia gave me the cold shoulder. I'd talk to her for a minute and the next she would walk away. I'd see her around the house and say " hi " and all she did was walk and wave.
So today in afternoon I decided to ignore her and befriend her little sister (10 years old) and her friend and Mom. And it worked. I did such a good job talking on stage in front of 200 + persons that I was instantly " known " by family who did not know me.
I had it going today, everyone wanted to speak to me, even Antonia's little sister was asking me to play with her ( and I did) lol a bit of jokes, I adore talking to kids.
Antonia is 17, she seems a bit antisocial, she avoided talking to my family, when everyone was socializing she was either sitting alone looking bored, running back to her room ( she claims to not like crowds... Actually there were about 60+ people). She only talked to the little kids and her Mom.
Ariana, her little sister, I asked " why is your sister like that? ". Her reply " she's just usually a bitch , but underneath she wants attention ".
My best friend Shadean, Ramone her boyfriend and my coworker Shabba all commented that Antonia kept staring at me when I wasn't looking . They said " I just feel that energy ,you know when two people like each other, others can sense it " Even my family could sense that Antonia likes me, her sister gave us space and sometimes pulled me near to her Antonia.
Gc bros I find it strange that she keeps cutting the conversation short . But she looks at me from a distance as if to say " come talk to me ". Hey I'm not making this up, it's others who told me this. I walk away the next time she does this and start talking to my little cute cousin, and Antonia shows up and picks up my little cousin and tells her " don't talk to him, he is evil ".
I avoid talking to Antonia once more but she repeats telling my same cousin " don't talk to him.... ".
I was confused so I called over Antonia, took her by the hand and walked 20 metres before talking " ( laughing ) why are you trying to playfully push me away... You don't like me don't you "
I said that very playfully and her response was " I don't like you like that, only as merely a friend "
And she walks away . I hold her hand and pull back, she pushes again so I let her go.
Strangely I have another family member come and whisper " she likes you Troy , it's just you not doing the right thing. You have to know how to get around that girls head. You can get her ,she digs you, just playing hard to get ".
Same time I use my peripheral vision and there she is looking at me. WTF? Go guys you think she likes me? It's like when I'm away she wants to get close but when I'm close she wants to get away. My family and friends think she totally digs me, they feel the vibe and come on 6+ persons who came to me individually can't be so wrong.
So what's the best strategy to get Antonia talking to me? I managed to use a lot of touch today while we were in the bus, I had her feet all over my lap. She sucked her fingers. Should I avoid her and just win over everyone even more?
Troy
