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- Jan 2, 2013
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Met this sexy older girl online. We went out for drinks and vibed well immediately. Chatted and flirted for two hours, so much so that she initiated the first kiss then and there. I suggest we head back to her place to keep chatting and so I can meet her little dog she kept raving about (for real lol). She feels like going to a club first, so we drive to one not too far away, we drink and keep chatting, then she suggests leaving early.
On the drive home, she holds my hand and massages it. She tells me a friend is staying with her so she can't invite me in. But once we walk up, I ask if I can use her bathroom before I drive back (I'm like 45 min away) and she lets me in. Her friend is sound asleep in the bedroom and we have the living room to ourselves. We sit on her couch and play with her dog. I try to set the mood but she gets up to the front door saying its late. We hug and kiss, and she undoes my shirt as a joke to her dog. We makeout a little more, starting and stopping, but she eventually opens the door to call it a night.
So we step outside her door and kiss goodnight, which turns into a makeout. I've ended dates on makeouts before, no problem. But she then puts her hand down my pants and pulls my dick out. I say "Let's go back inside" but she says she can't. I escalate on her and put my hand down her skirt. I say "let's go back to my car" but she says she can't. I get her up against the door and open it, but she closes it and says we can't do that. We go back and forth maybe 5 times in crazed ecstasy, each time I try to appeal to her logic to get her anywhere else (there is almost no place to fuck in this hallway and I wasn't comfortable with that). Finally she stops herself and says we have to call it a night, so we do.
I texted her the next day saying I had a good time but no response, predictably. My thing is: I can't see what else I could've done short of fucking her on the hard concrete stairs of her apt hallway, forcing my way back, or not leaving her apt in the first place. And I am in no way playing around with forcing myself in at all. She clearly wanted sex and initiated most of it, but her resistance seemed so strong that it was almost like she was passionately rejecting me. Plus If I had pulled back once she started escalating bc the logistics weren't as good, I would've been rejecting her. Was this just a lose lose situation? And how should I get in contact with her if there's a slim chance she'll respond?
On the drive home, she holds my hand and massages it. She tells me a friend is staying with her so she can't invite me in. But once we walk up, I ask if I can use her bathroom before I drive back (I'm like 45 min away) and she lets me in. Her friend is sound asleep in the bedroom and we have the living room to ourselves. We sit on her couch and play with her dog. I try to set the mood but she gets up to the front door saying its late. We hug and kiss, and she undoes my shirt as a joke to her dog. We makeout a little more, starting and stopping, but she eventually opens the door to call it a night.
So we step outside her door and kiss goodnight, which turns into a makeout. I've ended dates on makeouts before, no problem. But she then puts her hand down my pants and pulls my dick out. I say "Let's go back inside" but she says she can't. I escalate on her and put my hand down her skirt. I say "let's go back to my car" but she says she can't. I get her up against the door and open it, but she closes it and says we can't do that. We go back and forth maybe 5 times in crazed ecstasy, each time I try to appeal to her logic to get her anywhere else (there is almost no place to fuck in this hallway and I wasn't comfortable with that). Finally she stops herself and says we have to call it a night, so we do.
I texted her the next day saying I had a good time but no response, predictably. My thing is: I can't see what else I could've done short of fucking her on the hard concrete stairs of her apt hallway, forcing my way back, or not leaving her apt in the first place. And I am in no way playing around with forcing myself in at all. She clearly wanted sex and initiated most of it, but her resistance seemed so strong that it was almost like she was passionately rejecting me. Plus If I had pulled back once she started escalating bc the logistics weren't as good, I would've been rejecting her. Was this just a lose lose situation? And how should I get in contact with her if there's a slim chance she'll respond?
