Hey, just wanted to post something I've noticed recently and want to get some feedback on. I would consider myself as a guy with intermediate level fundamentals as it's one of the areas I can improve the easiest, and when using elite eye contact as in this article: https://www.girlschase.com/content/elite-eye-contact I notice that a large amount of girls will look at me when walking down the street or when walking into a restaurant/store. The problem with this is that a bunch of guys notice this and are now also trying to make eye contact but in an aggressive way.
What generally happens is that if some guy wants a girl that is noticing me, he will attempt to intimidate me. Usually they all do the same thing. Start talking in a loud voice, then they move onto talking about how they "beat on this one guy" for doing something inane as if that will scare me off. Eventually they give up, dejected that I've completely ignored them. The problem is that some of these girls I don't even want. I've toyed with the idea of them actually wanting to talk to me and attempting to get my eye contact by being loud, but getting angered when I don't give them attention. I don't think this is the case though, as it always happens around a girl.
There's a second scenario I've noticed that we sort of "fight" with fundamentals. If I win and I'm close enough to see this person's body language, I will notice a perceptible hand shake when they realize that they shouldn't be going for the girl that is attracted to me. Sort of like I intimidated them, even though that is not my intent. Indeed, this even happened with one of my college professors before a test. He became quite angry but later on stopped and realized that what he was doing is wrong. On the flip side, if they "win" over me I will sometimes notice my hand shaking for what appears to be no reason at all. Then I look up and I realize some guy is staring at me through his peripheral vision and there's a girl that is attracted to me in the room.
In both scenarios it's as if the other person is trying to dominate me, either through words or body language, ergo my choice of title. However, I realize that I might also be dominating guys without even realizing it, but this is not that great because it's happened to my professors, it's happened to my boss, happened to my teachers, happened to my friends. With strangers it's generally the 1st scenario, with people I know it's the 2nd. People I don't exactly want angry at me for getting female attention.
My question is, am I always going to have to live with these random battles, some of which I don't even realize are going on? I think it might have something to do with my weight, as I am fairly skinny so perhaps these guys think they can intimidate me as if that would elevate their social status. And what should I do to alleviate the situation if someone is angry at me? Am I the one actually sending out challenges to other people, or are they the ones challenging me?
What generally happens is that if some guy wants a girl that is noticing me, he will attempt to intimidate me. Usually they all do the same thing. Start talking in a loud voice, then they move onto talking about how they "beat on this one guy" for doing something inane as if that will scare me off. Eventually they give up, dejected that I've completely ignored them. The problem is that some of these girls I don't even want. I've toyed with the idea of them actually wanting to talk to me and attempting to get my eye contact by being loud, but getting angered when I don't give them attention. I don't think this is the case though, as it always happens around a girl.
There's a second scenario I've noticed that we sort of "fight" with fundamentals. If I win and I'm close enough to see this person's body language, I will notice a perceptible hand shake when they realize that they shouldn't be going for the girl that is attracted to me. Sort of like I intimidated them, even though that is not my intent. Indeed, this even happened with one of my college professors before a test. He became quite angry but later on stopped and realized that what he was doing is wrong. On the flip side, if they "win" over me I will sometimes notice my hand shaking for what appears to be no reason at all. Then I look up and I realize some guy is staring at me through his peripheral vision and there's a girl that is attracted to me in the room.
In both scenarios it's as if the other person is trying to dominate me, either through words or body language, ergo my choice of title. However, I realize that I might also be dominating guys without even realizing it, but this is not that great because it's happened to my professors, it's happened to my boss, happened to my teachers, happened to my friends. With strangers it's generally the 1st scenario, with people I know it's the 2nd. People I don't exactly want angry at me for getting female attention.
My question is, am I always going to have to live with these random battles, some of which I don't even realize are going on? I think it might have something to do with my weight, as I am fairly skinny so perhaps these guys think they can intimidate me as if that would elevate their social status. And what should I do to alleviate the situation if someone is angry at me? Am I the one actually sending out challenges to other people, or are they the ones challenging me?
