
Every now and then I see a post on GC with someone complaining about being a 30 year old kissless virgin. Look at that guy. He didn't live life. I feel sorry for him.
My friends were joking about it today on whatsapp it's quite sad IMO though. I'm just 19 and I've been with 7 girls successful lays. Last week I spent some time with my friend who is also 19 and he was well over 100 lays. And I kept comparing my success to his and I felt inferior. But when I saw this man at 103 still a virgin, I stopped comparing myself to my friends and others immediately. In fact I know some guys that have put me on a pedestal just because of my lay count.
My bestie said this " he would most likely need Viagra and as soon as a girl slow wines on him he would get a heart attack, heck as soon as he saw her boobs. "
The Only advice I have for YOU TODAY is NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS. And even if you do remember someone out there is way worse off than you. The only person you should be competing with is yourself. Build a brand for yourself. You are God's made, you are unique. Another mans success could be your poison.
The past few months I've embraced looking at my improvement as me alone in the race. I can only strive to be better than I was yesterday, I should look how far I have come, not how far I am from the finish line.
That bold statement is also the main reason why guys are depressed and continue to be lonely and miserable and full of victim mentality. The world is your oister, you are in charge of your future mostly. The actions you take today will determine your results tomorrow.
I hope that you get out there today and enjoy yourself, build great relationships, build a legacy and brand for yourself and those you love. I can, you can.
Your friend,
Troy