Dr.X's journal II

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Previously, I wrote daily for building momentum.
Now, I have full momentum.
 

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As a beginner, it's good because anything I do will lead to improvement.

Sunday outing: Talking with a guy on the bus. This guy surprised me with his conversation.
Me: Where are you from?
Guy: From the sky
And his non-serious attitude about life.

Monday outing: Saying hi to a girl.

Tuesday outing: Talking with a girl on the bus.
Girl: Where are you from?
Me: From the sky
...
Girl: Are you married?
Me: Yes ... joke, I'm not
And my non-serious attitude about life.
 

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Next outings:

Wednesday: Chatting with a guy on the bus, talking about phone game.
Thursday: Saying hi to a girl in grocery store.
Friday: Only exchange names with a guy on the bus.

I'm in social butterfly mode. For now staying in conversation as long as possible.
 

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Next 3 outings: I’m a little better with conversation.

The ice breaker formula is to find an interesting item on a person, making a quick read.
 

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Next outings:
- Grocery store: I said hi, she said hi back. I missed the chance to follow up.
- Bus: I said hi, she said hi back. I took the chance and follow up with a light chat. Wildcard happened.
- Beach: Short conversation.
- Walking: Short conversation.

Example: I was walking, on evening. With outdoor outfit. Ahead of me, 100 feet away, a girl with dog.

I walked fast. Half way she stopped and looked behind, then walking slowly.

Until I was ahead of her 2 feet, turning my head back, saying hi. She said hi.
Before there was tension, and when I saying hi tension released.

Talking about her dog.
Until I extended my hand but she said she was good.
No compliance.
Exiting conversation.
 
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Next outings:
- On bus, I was sitting. A girl came on bus. I said hi to a girl, she said hi back. When she sat down in the seat opposite to me, I waited 4 seconds moved to next seat, saying "Yo", no response.
- Going on bus, locking eye contact with a girl, sitting down. She looked out of window at first, I just took out of my phone, maintained a good vibe until she looked at me. Then I opened, "hi," she said "hi" back. I followed up with "What's the most interesting person you meet today?" No response.
- At bus stop, 2 girls was chatting, I waved to them. Then going on bus. After I seated, they seated in front of me, invitation for opening. I opened with, "Interesting bottles, what are they for?" with inquisitive body language. No response.

Commonality: I did the first step right, but not the second step.
 

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Next: First 2 outings are unremarkable, last one is better.

A girl run in the same direction as me. I turn to her and say hi.

She continue running. However, at the next traffic light, she stops. This is a sign.
I continue walking there before the light turned green. I continue the conversation, "You do aerobics?"
She say, "Yes"
I ask her name, and do a fist bump. She smiles.

And I ... just go. It is a screw up.
 

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Next 5 outings: Practicing the slow movement.
 

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Next: Gaming at the beach.

I think I don't have the physique to succeed at the beach. Until the very end of the day I come across a couple sitting at the sand. The guy is chubby and the girl is hot. If a chubby guy can get a hot girl then I, having an average physique, can.
So it's not the time to give up yet.

Farthest I could go is a couple sentences into conversation. So the real sticking point is conversation skill.
 

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Next outing: Test maneuvered.

Example: I was about to shake hand, she said: “I don’t shake hands because of covid.”
I said: “Fist bump” holding my fist. She complied.
 

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Next outing: Stepping up my game with direct opener.

Going to the grocery store, opening a girl directly, mask to mask, she responded well.
Up to the shaking hands part, she used elbow instead.
 

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Next: Quickly fixing my fashion, adding a necklace.
2 girls gave me signs at the beach and I met them.
Doing the eye contact exercise.
Doing more voice drill. Previously I did it 3-4 times a week but I should do it everyday now.

Let's transform myself into a sexy motherfucker.
 

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Next outings:
- Instant date at beach
- Grocery store: I fist bump a girl, she says hi
- Grocery store: I pass a girl
- Grocery store: I fist bump a girl, she fist bump back

Fashion note: Losing weight first is very important. For example, for me 165 lbs and under I can fit in skinny jeans.

Was 175 lbs at beginning at 2020 and 162 lbs now, the improvement in style is worth it.
 
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Next: 1 number.

Noon, in grocery store, I meet a girl.
She works there.
I compliments her style. We chat a bit. She asks about me a lot. I flirt a bit then proposes a drink when she gets off work. She agrees, I put her number in.

Texts:
Me: Glad meeting you at ******* :) -X
Her: hi! nice seeing you :) do you have instagram?
Me: Haha, I don’t ... too much of a distraction :) We can still grab a drink later on

I still created an Instagram account. Just in case many girls asking me about Instagram, I have the option.
 

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Thanks man, I just read your blog. Very inspiring especially on the BDSM section.
Looking forward to see you on the forum.
 

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Next outings:
- Metro coffee shop: 3 approaches all fail. My fashion does not fit, I take note of a dude outfit (he’s with a girl), will not return until I dress the same
- Metro luxury car show: 1 approach, fail. I’m too nervous
- Rural coffee shop: A pair of girls, they are receptive. I comment on her earrings, and contrasts her with some girls with monstrous earrings. She laughs (I demonstrate my knowledge). I eject
 

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Next: I examine my 4 recent posts, and examine my belief, I am viewing seduction and social as war, which get into being a COOL guy GET LAID.

Though I am upset earlier, I still going out and practice. It’s untargeted practice, so it’s just me talking with a bunch of people.

Next outings will correct this mindset.
 
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