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Drawing the line with women

Lawliet

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Hey bros,

Lawliet here,
Was wondering how you guys draw the line with women and set hard rules (for what you tolerate, like, or dislike)
without seeming reactive?

And what stage would you guys do it in?
In a relationship? Dating? etc.

Thanks!
 

Zoro

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Know what you want and align your behaviors with it.

There is no reaction when it's a part of you.

If a girl crosses a line with me, I let her know.

If she crosses it again and it seems like she's likely to keep doing so, she's out.

More accurately, The amount I allow a woman into my life depends on how well she fits what I'm looking for. In the beginning, I'm skeptical and allow conversation. If she's attractive and mentally healthy, I allow sex. If she's cool/interesting and comfortable with open relationships, low drama and still sane, I see her more often and the let the relationship grow.

Her amount of respect for you plays a part. Women respect you if you seem like you have options, lead well, and know what you want and go after it.
I notice a big difference in respect and femininity from women I pick up in person and move fast, compared to when I used the internet or friends to help me out and then beat around the bush.
 

Lawliet

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So you verbalize it directly?
I don't like it when you do that?
 

Zoro

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So you verbalize it directly?
I don't like it when you do that?

I may say it out loud or give her a look. Doesn't matter as long as it's communicated.

The other day the girl I was with was texting A LOT. I told her that I found that annoying (in a warm way) and that was the end of that.

Sometimes if it's a minor thing I may just make a mental note of it.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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