So recently I've been thinking about buying a new car, and I have my eyes set on some rather upscale choices - like an exotic sports car, or a Mercedes sports sedan. If any of you guys have owned really nice cars (think, $100k+), did it help your or hinder your chances with women, when they saw you driving that car, or you gave them a ride in it?
Historically most guys think "If I get a nice car, it will attract more girls", but sometimes I wonder if that's actually the case, because I've seen plenty of guys driving beat up pieces of shit getting lots of girls, and some well-off dudes driving expensive cars who didn't get that much action (for one reason or another).
What do you guys think, and what has been your personal experience with the "car" subject?
Way back when a BMW 5 Series was considered a nice car - I bought one. (These days, it seems 23 year old admin assistants think an S-Class is pedestrian and don't recognize anything better (bmw, audi, really expensive SUV, Tesla, Porsche) unless it's a Lambo or Ferrari... - I blame Instagram)
Comparing my stats with a previously very used Hyundai and less used Toyota Corolla and a few months in a Kia Sedona - my
luck with the ladies tanked.
The really smart guys here can see what the difference was.
It had nothing to do with the car.
I now had a serious job where I could afford to buy a German Luxury car vs my layabout/college years.
Not only was I not at the clubs and venues all night, I rarely had ENERGY to go on weekends.
And when I started making "BMW" money, my interesting in bringing home cute waitress of the week after 4 hours of communication for at best 28 minutes of sex of unknown quality (some nights were better than others - and the intensity was really dependent on what I created with the girl - nothing about a chick's appearance or even words can predict sexual chemistry - as chemistry is BUILT....)
I didn't have much interest in adding notches to the belt.
Energy gone. Desire decrease.
I "grew up". More social circle game. Maybe some happy hour game here and there, but King of the Dancehall was over.
Chicks that were my equal in dollars and education were more impressed with my wit, suave, and charm. The cute ones had access to my boss and my boss's boss. Why mess with the guy in accounting for his bread when they could go to his boss and be a side piece?
Chicks below my "station" became harder and harder to break through to. Oftentimes there wasn't enough common ground to build something on, or my stability was a turn off. (If you come off as the lover, it's easier when everything else about you is congruent - and a nice luxury car makes you a member of the society, unless you're a drug dealer)
No chick that rocks with your boy thinks I'm a dummie (Unless they're East Indian, topic for another time), but seeing the fruits of my labor - I went from Mr. Right Now to Mr. Right. And when a chick is moves from short term to long term thinking - paradoxically the pussy freezes up.
Doesn't make any sense. There are pua strategies to overcome it - but it's something that a lot of guys in the community notice, and guys outside of the community also notice.
So the thing to keep in mind is that 99% of cars don't induce sexual attraction - what they do tell the chick is your lifestyle.
If you're still trying to use an external object as bait, not giving her an interactive experience that makes her want more - In the States, a 90K Dodge Charger Hellcat will garner more easy chicks than a 110K Benz.
And if you go the hellcat route, you need the muscles, the flat bill baseball cap, and the "hard charging" alpha attitude to go with it.
WIA
