Earring on Men; Sexy or Not?

[Mystique]

Edit: I posted this before on the Fashion board, but I don't know how long before people will take notice of it there and leave comment/reply.
Hey guys. Chase once made a post
about hair length and male
attractiveness. I also know that
tattoos on guys turn women on. Now
I'm wondering, is an earring on a guy
sexy or not. I know it depends on the
guy and the kinda earring he's
putting on. I'm about to pierce the
left side of my ear and I'm thinking of
using either a short black loop
earring (think Collins Ferrell) or a
gold stud. Also I have a masculine
face (with some jaw bones). So what
are your thoughts on the subject
matter. Also, when I tell my female
friends about me wanting to pierce
my ear, they seem excited about it
and always have a lot to say about it.

 

[CookMasterChef]

I personally have both ears pierced and if I wear some cool earrings girls always complement me on them. Currently have a cool pair of superman earrings that always catch a woman's attention. I think that if you do get your ears pierced make sure to get an earring that compliments your style, the women will love it.

 

[Mystique]

I personally have both ears pierced
and if I wear some cool earrings girls
always complement me on them.
Currently have a cool pair of
superman earrings that always catch
a woman's attention. I think that if
you do get your ears pierced make
sure to get an earring that
compliments your style, the women
will love it.

Cool! I pierced my ear the day before yesterday and I'm using a black diamond stud. Let's see how girls respond to it.

 

[NedSavage]

I recently got black studs too. It adds edge and bit of femininity so the contrast of having other masculine features is very attractive. If you have a nice contrast between femininity (in your style) and masculinity (especially in your vibe), it's sexy af. Check out my recent post with pics to get a glimpse of this.

N.S

 

[GeneralFap]

I got mine pierced four years ago but I haven't worn them in so long they've closed now lol. I used to wear 8mm ones because I liked the Zayn Malik look:
http://66.media.tumblr.com/1bfc524880ca ... o1_500.jpg
Some girls complemented me. I think it added a little edge too.

 

[Mystique]

NedSavage wrote: I recently got black studs too. It adds
edge and bit of femininity so the
contrast of having other masculine
features is very attractive. If you have
a nice contrast between femininity (in
your style) and masculinity
(especially in your vibe), it's sexy af.
Check out my recent post with pics
to get a glimpse of this.

Funny thing is the first time I heard about having feminine traits for seduction, I thought it was bullshit. I first saw it in The Art of Seduction. Now I totally understand how it works. Yh NS, a stud would look cool on you with your long hair. But I bet a small loop earring to the left would look more badass and savage

GeneralFap wrote: I got mine pierced four years ago but
I haven't worn them in so long
they've closed now lol. I used to
wear 8mm ones because I liked the
Zayn Malik look:
http://66.media.tumblr.com/1bfc
524880ca ... o1_500.jpg
Some girls complemented me. I think
it added a little edge too.

Yea, that Zayn Malik look looks really cool. The compliments from girls boosts one's confidence. Then again, there are some girls in your social circle who think any guy wearing earrings is irresponsible and would not fail to show their disapproval (girls you cold approach won't do that). But when you question them deeper, you'll find out it's not their personal opinion (most times) but what society says and they are merely re echoing it.

 

[Cassy]

If you're going to pierce your ears then pierce both sides. That one sided ear ring style is dead gone and out of fashion, infact it makes u look more gay/thugish. Check most music videos. Guys are rocking earings on both ears. Get your other ear piercied as well.

 

[Mystique]

Hey Cassy,
your location says somewhere in Africa, where's that? Are you African/black?

If you're going to pierce your ears
then pierce both sides. That one
sided ear ring style is dead gone and
out of fashion, infact it makes u look
more gay/thugish. Check most music
videos. Guys are rocking earings on
both ears. Get your other ear piercied
as well.

I prefer to pierce on ear because I prefer the small hoop earring. If they're studs, both ears seems to look better sometimes but for hoop, one ear looks better on guys. In fact, I haven't seen in reality, any guy rocking hoops that wears them on both ears. About looking gay or thugish, earrings just like hair length seems to highlight whatever features you already have. So if you're looking feminine/gay it highlights it more, and if you look masculine (like I do) it highlights that too. The main reason for the piercing, like I said is to experiment. I'll let you all know how it goes, based on the responses I get from girls.

 

[Cassy]

I know the earings you're talking about, trust me they dont look good on one ear. Plus girls find it strange that you wearing one earing instead of 2, thats like wearing one shoe on yo left leg and leaving the other bare feet. Justin bieber wears small hoops on both ears (u cant even see them unless u look close). The one ear thing doesnt really look gud, go for both ears or none at all. Yea am black, Am from Zambia

 

[Cassy]

My friend has those hoops, on both ears. Looks jst okay

 

[Cassy]

I see you're from Nigeria. That nigerian musician "Orezi" sometimes wears hoops on BOTH ears again. Even Phyno wears hoops on BOTH ears

 

[Mystique]

Haha, you've made your point Cassy. Seems like you even know my country star artistes more than I do
Good to meet a Zambian here. How's the chicks over there?

 

[Cassy]

Am from Zambia but I actually have Nigerian parents, lets connect on facebook. I just sent u a private message

 

[Mystique]

I quit earrings about a month ago. It wasn't congruent with my style.