Easier getting results from the cutest girls than average girls. Why?

[kristian]

I am experiencing a little bug in my game lately, getting the boyfriend excuse a lot.

And after reading some articles about attainability on this site I have been analyzing interactions with women. This is what I am finding out.

Average girls, the ones that are cute, but doesn't make my heart pound are often either cold or are nice but have a "boyfriend". This is happening a lot lately and its a little frustrating.

But with the most beautiful women the reactions are better. It is easier to get to the hook point and they seem a lot more interested in me.

However, because I still don't believe that I can get them, I usually just approach them and walk away without trying to get their numbers. It just feels good being liked by these girls without risking rejection, but the few times I try to number close I get their numbers and they are a lot more eager to meet.

Why are the most beautiful women more interested in me than the average girls? Could it be that they almost never get approached? Or could it be that the average girls feel like I am out of their league? I can also see that the most beautiful women often aren't afraid of flirting back and sometimes sending me approach invitations. They get also more glad when I come on directly unlike the less attractive girls, that get shocked and even dismiss me right away?

Why this? And how can I stop sabotaging my interactions with these women by not moving forward?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey,

my guess is because average girls see you out of their league. It's attainability.

It's very good news, it means you have very good fundamentals. However, it will help you a lot to get the average girls in your bed too.

* more experience
* more confidence
* build up your vibe

So in order to get them, you may want to address your attainability. I faced the same two years ago. As an older man, I had to dress a little down (no blasers, but leather jacket and polos). In your case you will need to find what to adjust.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[kristian]

It's very good news, it means you have very good fundamentals. However, it will help you a lot to get the average girls in your bed too.

* more experience
* more confidence
* build up your vibe

Thank you. Its almost like my confidence has gone down the more I build my fundamentals. I need to address this quickly, because I am already getting exhausted. And feel like taking a break for a couple of weeks just to unwind.

One quick question. How do I build my vibe?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey,

You can learn to improve the sexy smile, the eye contact, the voice... All part of fundamentals.

But the vibe, is something that comes naturally with success, a by-product of your self confidence of getting girls. You don't learn vibe.

You get girls. You become more confident in you ability to get girls. Girls around you sense that you're a guy that makes it happen, you're a real deal. They know intuitively that you're successful and have many girls. That's all part of your vibe, it flows out of you. Past some point, less game is required, and things start happening from vibe alone.

So... Vibe is tied with your success. Build success first. Get more and more girls. Starting with these average girls. Address your attainability, probably a little thing you need to tweak. Calibration is an integral part of the learning.

Cheers,
Seppuku