Easy Date process

[Dylan]

Hi all,

I have an easy date planned for this week. I haven't slept with this girl yet, and I've never done an easy date before (wouldn't have had the confidence to ask a year ago!)

Few things to note:

1. My apartment is quite small. It doesn't really have a couch. It has a big bed and "half-a-room" with a desk and chair.
2. We're going to be getting some food (I'll prepare it beforehand so we don't waste time) and watching a movie.

- Do I watch the movie with her in bed straightaway, or is that going to ring alarm bells? Should I get some beanbags etc and make it a cosy spot away from the bed?
- Chase has recommended before that you don't wait longer than 10 minutes before kissing her and escalating. Presumably that applies on the easy date as well, or do you have more leeway?

All advice appreciated,

Dylan

 

[Whizzy]

It applies to easy date as well. Assuming she agreed to meet you at your place she probably knows what's up Also having the bed as the only place to sit isn't a bad idea either as it makes an easy transition; kiss-->makeout-->hand down pants-->clothes off-->etc with little to no moving

 

[Dylan]

Thanks Whizzy. Yeah she did agree that

Any thoughts on food? Before/after/not at all? I was thinking of having something light prepared and warming it up.

 

[Whizzy]

Since you guys are meeting at your place I would say afterwards once you guys have settled down from all the fun