Effective Night Game

[SillyCarl]

Let me start off by saying I really love clubs and nightgame in general yet my problem is my night outs are too random.

For guys that hit nightgame how do you go about it ? Do you follow a process or anything really ?
My process thus far is a lack of one thereof, I just go hit up clubs and wait for girls to give me IOIs to approach. When I do approach I often get rejected, or the girl is into me in the beginning then she loses interest.

Now daygame on the contrary is a breeze for me and girls are much warmer to my approach, in fact all the girls I've gotten are from daygame come to think of it. This is cool and all but I wanna get good at nightgame as most of my boys game in the night time. My one bro ia very good looking and gets great results during the night, now I don't wanna make this into a whole look issue but is that what's important to game in clubs and night time ? And if not what's the best strategy for gaming in clubs ?, My daygame strategy is not working at night, going up to a girl in the club saying I thought you were cute so I had to come talk to you just doesn't work with all the music bumbing you feel. Don't know if I'm being vague, if so I'm more than willing to post my interactions on here for better feedback.

 

[Smurf]

Yo Carl!

Night game is completely different.

I come at it from a completely different angle. As you can come in chill, calm but intense in day game, that shit is not gonna work the same way in night game. The girls are more "ADD", you have dudes to contend with, the venue itself is competing with your voice, and her girlfriends or friends play a part as well.

What works for me is coming in at a higher energy. I switch my style up and sort of become the environment if that makes sense. I go with the flow, be the party and try and not think as much as possible. I accept everything going on and watch it and myself.

That's not to say I come in with no plan. First thing I have to do is talk to the first person I see when I leave my house. It sets the tone and tells myself, "you are indeed going to talk to people today". I try and talk to people as much as possible. The first approach I just open if I'm not quite feeling it yet. Just open and talk. The next I joke around and fuck with whoever I'm talking to. This is to get myself out of a serious mood and into a more relaxed one. After that its just making sure I'm opening and being consistent. It's inevitable that I'll get an approach invitation at some point, but if I don't I keep approaching anyway. That's my process thus far.

One thing to keep in mind is staying consistent in your vibe and be ready for anything.

Recently I went out and saw a girl I met at another club. We talked and I peeled off of her for a bit. Went in to dance and she saw me, waved, and started grinding on me. I was surprised because I didn't think she would do that just yet. Then she turned around, looked at me, then walked away. This whole thing was in the span of about 5 seconds. I concluded that this was because of the vibe I gave out in that time and how I reacted. Always ALWAYS be ready, for good and bad.

Two more things, always be trying to move girls to screen ones out that waste your time, and not every guy is a boyfriend.

Hope this helps,

Jake.

 

[SillyCarl]

Jake D

True True. I low-key lied a little saying my approaches where all bad, I just wanted to get more of a newbie type of answer about nightgame you feel.

I did get two good sets, where I walked up and did what RSD Tyler calls the hand of God. The chick was all smiles and good vibes at first, we were dancing and grinding then she lost interest. I'm guessing it's what you saying about vibe, but I'm definitely gonna take your advice on not thinking too heavy during nightgame. Was a little bummed out that my boy smashed and I didn't :'(.

But be on the lookout for my come up bro, more field reports coming from my side from this point on, I wanna get really really good at nightgame, I'm talkin same day lay Stizz.

Thanks
SillyCarl

 

[Smurf]

Hella dude! Keep me informed!

Also, try not to focus too much on your friend's success. Ice had nights where I put in hella work and my friend who knows nothing about game danced with a girl. I was pissed, but I learned not everyone is built equal. Besides, that was years ago haha