Emotional Centering

[HippertyHopperty]

Hi All,

So i would probably consider myself to be a relatively emotional man, I wear my "heart on my sleeve" etc. If i like someone or something most people can tell. Moreover nothing hurts more than getting rejected by a girl you really like who you have invested a lot of time in. At least that's how it is for me.

To this extent i was wondering if people had any tips for getting my emotional center off my love life and onto something else, so that if things don't go my way i can reduce the amount of emotion i may end up showing/feeling.

To be fair sleeping with more women has certainly helped that because now i know there will always be another one if i fuck up with the current one. However girls are still the only thing that really get to me.

I have a corporate job and attach little emotion to it. Moreover although i do certain hobbies occasionally i have no one hobby that i attach a lot of emotion to either.

Any tips?

Cheers,

HipHop

 

[Mr.Rob]

This is a speculative answer but perhaps find your purpose in life that you put all your emotional soul into and then when a girl rejects you it's such a small deal in comparison to your life's purpose.

If this resonates with you check out Chases article on finding your life's purpose.

 

[Richard]

You're living a pretty mundane life then.

If you're not automatically full of emotion and energy with your work or your hobbies then you're in the wrong place/doing the wrong things.

As Rob said, you need to find your purpose. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about it as well.

-Richard

EDIT: Purpose may actually be the wrong word here; I think you need to understand yourself at your core and outline your values/beliefs.