Emotional connection over sexual connection

[GeneralFap]

If anyone here is familiar with Justin wayne you know he espouses the theory that an emotional aka "romantic" connection is more valuable to a girl than a sexual connection. Reason being, girls can have sex pretty much anytime they want. Even fat girls can sleep with high caliber men from time to time. He says that What many guys do wrong is focus solely on a sexual connection, as opposed to a romantic one. So, even if you approach a girl and have a sexual connection with her, that still doesnt give her that much incentive to meet up with you because her emotions might change and she could just flake on you because you're noloot giving her something she values that highly. However, if you give her a romantic connection, then that will be something she will value more because it's more rare to her. And once you have established a "romantic connection" with a girl, sex will come naturally. And the biggest plus is that you will be much more likely to keep the girl around if you want because she will be emotionally invested in you. He describes an emotional connection as the "Cure to all evils," the cure to flakes, boyfriend objections and more. To me what he says make sense. What do you guys think? I know in girlschase Chase says that we shouldn't be holding hands with girls or hugging them when you first meet them, but what justin does is the opposite. Here's a link about what he calls the three "generations of pickup:" http://www.justinwaynedating.com/the-ge ... seduction/

 

[Smith]

Ben,

I actually have his video product The Domino Effect, but I discarded almost everything I learned from him because it was making me worst. His theory sounds good on paper, but if you don't have the right mindsets and "inner game" to back it up, it probably won't help u in the long run, and he doesn't teach you how to calibrate, read signals and be empathetic and congruent. He teaches you the techniques, which are only bandaids to your internal issues and it doesn't build up your core confidence. So if you're going to follow his stuff, choose the best bit out of it, and work on yourself first. Learn the principles of seduction from GC, the natural lifestyle, John Cooper or RSD. Otherwise, you'll be in agony wondering why his Domino effect is not working, and you'll get too stuck in your head if you're constantly thinking about how and when to hug her and hold her hand. Seduction should feel natural.

But back to your question, his idea of "romantic connection" isn't that far from what other people, Sasha, James Marshall and GC teaches, i.e. deep diving, be a conversationalist, be genuinely curious about her, chase framing...etc.And being romantic isn't that different from being sexual too. The two goes hand-in-hand together, but imo I do think emotional/romantic connection, i.e. how much she has invested in you, is more important than sexual connection, which is also a very vague term. I personally don't think there's anything wrong to hold a girl's hand, in fact, it's a good way to tell if she's into you, so I agree with Justin on that, but I don't think what he teaches is more wholistic than GC, and he charges you a lot of money for what you already know if you read GC. Thank god I didn't pay for that lol.