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Entering into a relationship with a marriage/long-term minded woman

raiden

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I'm a complete beginner so I am only going from what I have read on GC. From what I understand, to get into a relationship (like a girlfriend) with a woman here's what you should do.
a. Date as many women as you can, including her.
b. Go on great dates with her, do all the intimate stuff and make it great, including all of the romantic/lovey kind of things such as holding her close, sleeping over etc.
c. Wait for her to suggest that you two become exclusive and then say yes.
d. Run a good relationship
From what I understand, you can screw up b by moving too slowly and you can screw up c by asking for commitment yourself.

How would the stuff here change if you're looking to date a conservative or marriage-minded woman who is not going to go for sex until you two are solidly together for a long time, or discussing engagement, or engaged or even married? A lot of guys guys I know have met women like that where they didn't go to bed until several months in and their relationships are going strongly. In this case you can't do b. Do you still wait for her to suggest in c or do you suggest it?
 
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