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Escalating physically and aggressively like a jerk

Lucky8ball

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In the article 'The Genuine Man, Part 3: The Humble Man', Hector references in the beginning Chase's advice to him on attainability, and a part stuck out to me

"...And you can always replace the “jerk” behavior that young girls respond to well with “physical direct and authoritative/demanding/leading” behavior they respond to even better. The laid back guy who leads aggressively forward is more attractive than the jerk who waits to lead"

and also a part that Hector said

"Be kind and considerate in your words, but escalate physically and aggressively as if you were that “jerk” who grabs her ass after telling her she’s being a bitch"

So my question is could I get some advice or even some stories/experiences with how exactly to become more aggressively leading in escalation?
Should I literally be slapping girls asses? lol, I've never done that before :D
 

Smith

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Have you seen RSD Tyler "infield" videos?
I think that's what you're aiming for. Pay attention to his body language when he gets physical and the tonality of his words. It's light hearted, fun and sexual.
 

Lucky8ball

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Smith thanks for the reply.

You were spot on dude that guy is what I was looking for, helps a lot.

Any specific tips though on being more physically direct?

Like I'm still around younger chicks in there late teens that would respond well to being more aggressively leading. Should I mainly just focus on touch and making them comfy in a fun kind of free flowing interaction? While being a dick?
 
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Smith

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Lucky8ball said:
Like I'm still around younger chicks in there late teens that would respond well to being more aggressively leading. Should I mainly just focus on touch and making them comfy in a fun kind of free flowing interaction? While being a dick?

Yea u got it! It's about calibration. Knowing when to back off and when to escalate. Takes a bit of experience and experience.
 

Lucky8ball

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Thanks again smith

Anyone have any good stories related to this? :D
 

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Lucky8ball said:
Thanks again smith

Anyone have any good stories related to this? :D
Yeah, when I do that I usually have a big smirk on my face, while physically escalating with her. When I call a girl a bitch, I smile, so they know im joking, they usually hit me when i say it, like a punch in the arm (heard it is a sign of attraction). It's like im toying with them, im just bussing their stones, and getting my kicks.
 
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