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Escalating with Super Inexperienced Girls

Ambiance

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Hey Girlschase Forum!

Hope this finds you all slaying like it's your job... Been a few months since my last post. Life has been a whirlwind (In a good way!)

(Skip to the bottom for my questions)

SO, I wanted to talk about escalating with women who have practically no experience with men. I'm talking girls who have maybe kissed a guy or two, and that's it. I have a pretty good handle on girls who have done everything but sex and are really curious, having taken a number of these girls as lovers. It is really straight forward. We can definitely talk about these girls too, and I'll be more than happy to throw my two cents in,but what I'm most interested in are thoughts on how to proceed with the really idealistic, reserved girls who have hardly done anything, not the more vivacious curious inexperienced girls.

Some of you sex fiends will laugh at this, but girls who are just bursting with genuine innocence are my absolute favorite. Don't get me wrong, I love bedding experienced girls, but where I am at now I would never fall for one. And while I would date a girl who has had sex before, so long as it wasn't a casual thing, taking a girl for her first time is such an incredible experience for her if you do it right and cements you in as one of the most important people in her lifetime, especially if she is idealistic about sex. And that is very appealing to me.

I recently spent the evening with a girl from Germany that I met on a plane (great way to meet girls!). I could tell she was really into me by the way she reacted when I'd compliment her, and how dilated her pupils were. She was so nervous when I kissed her, saying that we had just met, but very quickly got into it. She had never made out with someone before, much less anything beyond that, and the closest thing she had ever had to a relationship was talking to some guy online that she never ended up meeting for a few weeks (she was worried that this counted as one because the guy was a desperate turnoff LOL). I taught her how to kiss a bit, and we got pretty passionate in the backseat. The furthest I got with all my escalation knowledge and 2 steps forward 1 step back technique was cupping her breasts underneath her shirt and feeling her vagina outside her pants. She had a lot of barriers. The first was the kiss, then getting her coat off, then feeling her tits outside her shirt, then inside, and lastly feeling her pussy (from the outside). She told me we were moving too fast with the last barrier, and I actually agreed, so I didn't take thing any further and just enjoyed making out with a beautiful girl. We got food later in the night, and she gave me a big, long kiss when I dropped her off.

My intuition tells me I played my cards right, but there have been more times than I can count where a girl and I hook up, don't go all the way, end amiably, and I never see her again. I just set something up with this girl for tomorrow night, so we'll see how it goes.

Questions

What do I need to be doing differently, if at all, with reserved, idealistic, super inexperienced girls? (Is it still recommended to sleep with them right away)

How should the seduction progress if I want to be moving as fast as she can handle? (Date compression, relationship, etc.)

All comments welcome

Ambiance
 

Ambiance

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So ended up seeing that girl again tonight. Wanted to see her before the Easter holiday, because I didn't want the magic wearing off while I was busy with my family. You guys can probably see how this is needy. Anyway, I violated several of the 5 C's of a good date, and mucked everything up. Yet another hard knock taken by Ambiance. I should know better by now. I just got too excited about how inexperienced she was.

I still want to hear your input, especially now. Criticize away!
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

WayOfHand

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Hey Ambiance. From my experience its totally ok, to go only part of the escalation and actually have sex later. This is true with inexperienced girls.

I think the problem wasn't that you saw her for a second time in a short time, but what happened on the actual date. I think you already figured this. Otherwise I've had success by doing things as always, low key date at home cooking, only adding extra warmth.
 

Ambiance

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Hey Wayofhand-

Thanks for the reply. In the future I plan on only making follow up dates super easy for me, like the low key at home date you mentioned. This has worked for me too and I don't know why I stepped away from it. My logistics are a nightmare for now, but that one night I actually had decent logistics *facepalm*

Cheers,

A
 
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