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I'm just gonna stop explaining my titles, if you figure it out then great, this is yet ANOTHER Ethiopian by the way
Met this girl from DG college campus
Saw her sitting on a bench
My game plan was intense eye contact and build tension + sexy voice, I obviously did not start with tension, the opener has to be warm and comforting
Right before the approach, I had realized being overly friendly wasn't doing me any favors so I decided to switch it up, stop being nice and start being more sexual
She responds well, I get number. I tell her to stand up before I say goodbye, so we hug.
she ghosts me for over a day over text, so I decide to send her "maybe you didn't see my message" as a way to reinitiate.
Because if she's not interested, no text is gonna work, but if she is interested but forgot to respond this will remind her and it's not very emotionally charged text so relatively low pressure to respond too
we set up the date, I can tell she is high interest
the date:
Meet at coffee shop, hug as greeting
We wait for our coffee and talk a bit, sitting side by side, she's high energy very responsive, letting me touch her on shoulder, arms, and leg
she's telling me about how it's hard as an immigrant in u.s., kind of comically complaining, so I flirt with her while she does it bc that's the kind of vibe
once we get our coffee we go out for a walk
I'm able to put my hand around her hip and hold hands, we continue our conversation
I try to find a place outside to sit with her because I think it will be easy to kiss her
We try the bus stop bench but there are people around so we keep walking
we sit outside of this school and just chill, I deep dive her more
she talks about how her family has given her everything back at home and her life was so easy, they were gonna not let her work and pay for everything instead, but she wanted to be challenged in life so wanted to move to u.s. in order to reach her potential, get a job etc.
I open up about some of my life, careful not to tell her everything, but just enough so that we have a connection
when we were walking to the school, I tried to kiss her, but she gave me this sassy attitude and smiled at me and that was that. I asked her why she doesn't want to kiss and she said it's too soon
I'm thinking its not arousal because we're touching plenty, its not compliance because she's cooperated with every small request, and I gave her a couple, so it must be similarity
and btw, after she tells me she's so privileged, It makes a lot of sense, that she has a cocky attitude
I suggest we go to an arcade and keep things going, she protest at first, kind of like how little kids complain when they don't want to do something
I persuade her because she said she rarely plays video games, so I basically tell her to try something new
We go to my car and drive to the arcade
I'm touching her legs in the car bc it's fun
At the arcade she starts touching me back, the vibe gets romantic after I hug her once we hop out of the car, we definitely feel more like a couple once we're playing the games together
I should mention that whenever I try to escalate touch, she makes a small fuss and then we go back to what we're doing
def think I'm missing something huge if she's into me but won't let me escalate, not sure where in the SAC
She gets a call from her host family, they want her to head home, we start driving back
In the car, we get onto the subject and she asks me if I'm a romantic, I say "Only for the right girl" she seems to like that response
She subtly asks if I want her to be my girlfriend, I say I'm not sure, too soon to tell
did she just give me a chance to cuff her? I'm not sure how significant cuffing her rn would be considering we've never fucked, basically would just a promise hold it's weight? So I think It's best I played it cool, probably more attractive of me to not be impressed by her, women love to chase
We joke around with the aux, she finds the songs I like wildly inappropriate, which I think is entertaining, like when lil Wayne says he's gonna shove an 8 ball up a bitches pussy
I drop her off, I get out of the car to hug her goodbye, I try to kiss on the cheek too but she resists and walks away from me. I say "what's up with that?"
I forget what she says, but then I ask her "how many times has a guy kissed you?" she doesn't give me a clear answer. Then she asks why I asked. Then I say inexpericend girls are weird around kissing because their not used to it.
*want to note I didn't sound angry or emotional when I said these things, just a little frustrated. I felt like I had to address it because sometimes doing that can handle the objection. But I think because she's resisted multiple times, at this point I have to stop trying objection handling and instead just persist with fractionation, no words required
Looking back I think these train of thoughts was really stupid, probably made her uncomfortable if she actually Is inexperienced, could also frame me as knowledgable if what I said was true
I beckon her back with my hand and she comes back to me and we hug again, then we say goodbye
Do you guys think she's gonna text me back?
I sent "I enjoyed spending time with you today" a couple hours afterwards, no response yet, but it was night went I sent so maybe that's why.
I would want to make this girl gf, I liked her more than most of the girls I date, so let's see what happens
Met this girl from DG college campus
Saw her sitting on a bench
My game plan was intense eye contact and build tension + sexy voice, I obviously did not start with tension, the opener has to be warm and comforting
Right before the approach, I had realized being overly friendly wasn't doing me any favors so I decided to switch it up, stop being nice and start being more sexual
She responds well, I get number. I tell her to stand up before I say goodbye, so we hug.
she ghosts me for over a day over text, so I decide to send her "maybe you didn't see my message" as a way to reinitiate.
Because if she's not interested, no text is gonna work, but if she is interested but forgot to respond this will remind her and it's not very emotionally charged text so relatively low pressure to respond too
we set up the date, I can tell she is high interest
the date:
Meet at coffee shop, hug as greeting
We wait for our coffee and talk a bit, sitting side by side, she's high energy very responsive, letting me touch her on shoulder, arms, and leg
she's telling me about how it's hard as an immigrant in u.s., kind of comically complaining, so I flirt with her while she does it bc that's the kind of vibe
once we get our coffee we go out for a walk
I'm able to put my hand around her hip and hold hands, we continue our conversation
I try to find a place outside to sit with her because I think it will be easy to kiss her
We try the bus stop bench but there are people around so we keep walking
we sit outside of this school and just chill, I deep dive her more
she talks about how her family has given her everything back at home and her life was so easy, they were gonna not let her work and pay for everything instead, but she wanted to be challenged in life so wanted to move to u.s. in order to reach her potential, get a job etc.
I open up about some of my life, careful not to tell her everything, but just enough so that we have a connection
when we were walking to the school, I tried to kiss her, but she gave me this sassy attitude and smiled at me and that was that. I asked her why she doesn't want to kiss and she said it's too soon
I'm thinking its not arousal because we're touching plenty, its not compliance because she's cooperated with every small request, and I gave her a couple, so it must be similarity
and btw, after she tells me she's so privileged, It makes a lot of sense, that she has a cocky attitude
I suggest we go to an arcade and keep things going, she protest at first, kind of like how little kids complain when they don't want to do something
I persuade her because she said she rarely plays video games, so I basically tell her to try something new
We go to my car and drive to the arcade
I'm touching her legs in the car bc it's fun
At the arcade she starts touching me back, the vibe gets romantic after I hug her once we hop out of the car, we definitely feel more like a couple once we're playing the games together
I should mention that whenever I try to escalate touch, she makes a small fuss and then we go back to what we're doing
def think I'm missing something huge if she's into me but won't let me escalate, not sure where in the SAC
She gets a call from her host family, they want her to head home, we start driving back
In the car, we get onto the subject and she asks me if I'm a romantic, I say "Only for the right girl" she seems to like that response
She subtly asks if I want her to be my girlfriend, I say I'm not sure, too soon to tell
did she just give me a chance to cuff her? I'm not sure how significant cuffing her rn would be considering we've never fucked, basically would just a promise hold it's weight? So I think It's best I played it cool, probably more attractive of me to not be impressed by her, women love to chase
We joke around with the aux, she finds the songs I like wildly inappropriate, which I think is entertaining, like when lil Wayne says he's gonna shove an 8 ball up a bitches pussy
I drop her off, I get out of the car to hug her goodbye, I try to kiss on the cheek too but she resists and walks away from me. I say "what's up with that?"
I forget what she says, but then I ask her "how many times has a guy kissed you?" she doesn't give me a clear answer. Then she asks why I asked. Then I say inexpericend girls are weird around kissing because their not used to it.
*want to note I didn't sound angry or emotional when I said these things, just a little frustrated. I felt like I had to address it because sometimes doing that can handle the objection. But I think because she's resisted multiple times, at this point I have to stop trying objection handling and instead just persist with fractionation, no words required
Looking back I think these train of thoughts was really stupid, probably made her uncomfortable if she actually Is inexperienced, could also frame me as knowledgable if what I said was true
I beckon her back with my hand and she comes back to me and we hug again, then we say goodbye
Do you guys think she's gonna text me back?
I sent "I enjoyed spending time with you today" a couple hours afterwards, no response yet, but it was night went I sent so maybe that's why.
I would want to make this girl gf, I liked her more than most of the girls I date, so let's see what happens
