Ever met anyone with good conversation skills? and what's it like?

[Lucky8ball]

Hey guys,

Chase writes great articles on how to really talk to people and get to know them with conversation and deep diving.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... -deep-dive
https://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist
etc.

Throughout my progress I have gotten better at talking to people and managing a conversation. I feel like I have a long way to improve, but I feel I am truly miles ahead of really almost anyone that I have met so far. I have gone from literally nothing calibrated to say, to being able to talk to actually talk to people. I get to know stuff about people a lot quicker than they get to know stuff about me. It feels really great, and even fulfilling to get to know someone quickly and thoroughly. It has given me a ton of benefits so far in relationships, even professionally.

I was just curious have, but have you guys ever met someone that can really deep dive and is an awesome conversationalist?? Also, what does it feel like??
I would just like to know what it feels like on the other side of the conversation. I have never really met anyone that I can honestly say has really really gotten to know me. I haven't had a girlfriend yet so that probably might be a big factor. Even my friends have never really sat down and interviewed me like I have with them,
and I guess my parents know me decently, but they still have never really talked with me behind some small talk.

I often find myself after meeting someone new that they don't appreciate the fact that I have cut through all of the bullshit that other people talk about and gotten
to actually know someone. I also think I come from a mindset that I feel as though very few people can actually talk, because I know that before I found Girls Chase, I was totally incapable. That also might make me a little bias. I just wish more people had skills in communication.

 

[uForia]

The only people who are good at talking, are those who have deliberately made attempts to get better at conversation. Personally, no, I don't mean anyone who is nearly as good at managing conversations as I am. I really wish I did, so I could let go of the reins and actually relax every once in a while, but I usually end up leading the entire thing.

From attempting to talk to so many women who can't keep it up (And don't have to), I know how this feels... You're put on the spot and have a great amount of responsibility yet act like it's completely natural and perform right on the spot. I'd say the stress is even akin to trading stocks since you have to be focused every single second. At least there are no extremely negative repercussions if you fail.

 

[Drck]

If there is really good vibes, the conversation is much more natural, it simply flows on its own, you don't even have to do anything.

As a matter of fact, the great conversation may become quite an obstuckle because you can easily get lost in topics in stead of pushing forward for sex.