Ever notice this?

[D_Smooth1900]

Hey everyone,

You ever noticed that the one girl your trying to advance with is always surrounded with or either you'll be getting cock blocked by her friends or just other dudes in general.

An example was one day I was on my way downstairs and then i saw her, I wanted to say something to her bust shes surrounded by a wall of guys so all I can do is just look over her way and smile.

Now let's say I do move her to perhaps some dinner or an evening out, I happen to run in to some friends and then they cheer me on like I'm runing some marathon. I've always found this uncomfortable especially for the girl because it makes her feel like some type of prized possession.

My point being is, why is it so difficult to get this girl alone without the universe cock blocking?

 

[ray_zorse]

Use any method whatsoever to get her number, after that it's just you and her.
-Ray

 

[D_Smooth1900]

That's not the problem, I already have the girls number

 

[D_Smooth1900]

The reason is because I'm not entirely shore how she feels about me. I feel like it's 50 50, but I've had bad experiences with younger girls and I'm not trying to charge into it. Honestly I think I'm just afraid of being hurt again. I'm 25 and this girl is 19 I'm skeptical when it comes to younger girls

 

[Bboy100]

Honestly I think I'm just afraid of being hurt again. I'm 25 and this girl is 19 I'm skeptical when it comes to younger girls

I feel like you might have some sort of fear/bitterness/pre-judgement towards younger girls in general. If that's the case, you need to figure that problem out and get it out of your psyche first. I can't really help you on doing that cause I don't know what it is. But you do. I would start there.

Hope this helps!

 

[D_Smooth1900]

I feel like most younger girls aren't sure on what they want. Plus there most likely to be open minded to multiple partners since they're just starting off in the game of seduction.

It's like once they catch a big fish like a seducer they think their invincible and try to haul in even bigger fish. When that's not the case. If your all wondering a fell victim to this mindset.

 

[Franco]

D,

The reason is because I'm not entirely shore how she feels about me. I feel like it's 50 50, but I've had bad experiences with younger girls and I'm not trying to charge into it. Honestly I think I'm just afraid of being hurt again. I'm 25 and this girl is 19 I'm skeptical when it comes to younger girls

You're worried about getting hurt by a girl that you haven't been on a date with. With that mentality, you're never going to have an opportunity to get hurt because you won't be sleeping with any girls.

When you're new to this and you're just beginning, your focus needs to be entirely on your skills -- level up your skills and start sleeping with women so that things feel more comfortable on your end. Your fear of getting hurt comes from the fact that you have no abundance with women and you fear that if you happen to get a girl, she's going to leave you. But that mentality all ties into your abundance mentality; if you feel like there are plenty of women out there to meet, sleep, and have extended relationships with, then this mentality goes away.

For now, do not go into any of your interactions with the mindset of "this girl will hurt me" and instead go into every interaction with the mindset of "I'm here to learn how to sleep with women and every interaction will be geared toward leveling up that skill."

- Franco